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I used to think that love is very beautiful but very sad, very sad but very beautiful. However, the reality is to be considered, and I can only say that you met and fell in love at the wrong time and did not know each other. He's obviously immature right now, he hasn't experienced anything, he hasn't had any setbacks, but you're tired and maybe can't give him enough time to mature.
There's nothing right or wrong, I can't say anything objective or subjective, it's just up to you to see if you're willing or not. Yes, give him time, and have a good time. Unwilling, give up completely, open the sky.
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Respect your own wishes, for the time being, you still don't want to share, there is no right or wrong in feelings, the choice lies with you. When you want to separate, you will leave.
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When you feel that your partner no longer loves you, it can be very painful and frustrating. Here are some suggestions that may help:
Be honest with your feelings, talk directly to him about your concerns and confusions, and listen to his perspective.
Try to understand his position and see if there is anything that could cause his feelings to change.
Try to find common ground between the two of you to get you back to the Cong faction.
Don't try to pursue his love, it will make him more alienated from you.
Ask him honestly what he thinks and see if there is something you can do to improve your relationship.
Don't try to make him feel guilty about you or blame him for his actions, which can make the situation worse.
Find your own support system, such as a friend or family member, and talk to them about your feelings.
Be sure of how you feel about yourself and don't neglect your needs and feelings in order to maintain your relationship.
Stay calm and rational and don't make agitated or drastic decisions.
The end result may be that you have to separate, but that doesn't mean you're no longer valuable, it's just that your relationship has come to an end.
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There is a reason why a relationship goes to the end, it is never a problem of one person, and the relationship needs to be maintained by two people. And silence is the beginning of most emotional alienation, especially when two people have a conflict, if they are not resolved in time and treated indifferently, it is easy to hurt the relationship between each other. The more you close yourself off and don't face it head-on, the deeper the misunderstanding and estrangement will be.
You know, it's not easy for two people to come together, it's rare to be able to like each other, and there's no need to consume each other's feelings for something unworthy. It's not a good thing to be too persistent in the relationship, many times there are no big problems with each other, but they just don't say it, don't ask, no one is willing to speak, and in the end, the feelings are slowly consumed, which outweighs the loss.
The most feared thing about feelings is indifference, when they are cold to each other, the enthusiasm will slowly be consumed, and when a person's heart is completely cold, then the relationship will come to an end. A cold heart can no longer be warmed. Don't challenge someone's patience, and don't rely on the other person's liking to do evil, otherwise the result will be unimaginable.
Many times, at the beginning of a relationship, they will get tired of being together every day, and even if they stay together and don't talk at that time, they will feel very beautiful, and probably love is sweet at the beginning. At first, you may both feel full of affection, and as long as you have each other, you will be happy. But if you are together for a long time, you have to consider reality, you have to work hard to give each other a better life.
And when one person is working hard, but the other stays in place and stagnates, then the distance between each other will become farther and farther away, and there will be a gap between each other over time. What feelings are most afraid of is that the gap is too big, the pace is inconsistent, and it will not last long. A good relationship is that both parties are evenly matched, and they can compete with each other, so that maintaining a high level will go a long way.
If one person goes too far, and the other has not changed at all, the one who will naturally walk in front will be disgusted, even if it is love, after a long time, the enthusiasm will be consumed. If the relationship is out of balance and is not on a parallel line with each other, there will naturally be fewer topics to talk about and more quarrels. Slowly, the other party may become the person you hate the most, the gap is too big to go on at all, love needs to be evenly matched, work together.
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It may be that the personalities of the two people are not suitable, or there are many conflicts in the marriage, and they are unwilling to be humble to each other, so they will let the relationship come to an end.
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is because the relationship between the two people is gone, the two people are very disappointed in this relationship, and the two people do not maintain this relationship.
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It's because there is a lack of freshness in the process of getting along, and it's also because there is no such goodwill, and it finally comes to an end.
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First, they dislike each other more and more.
When two people love each other, even each other's fart is fragrant, and when two people don't love, it's wrong to even breathe the same piece of air together.
When two people dislike each other more and more, become more and more dissatisfied with each other, and like to pick bones in eggs more and more, the relationship is actually gone, tolerance is the testimony of love, and learning to tolerate is the best management of marriage.
Second, there is a growing distrust of each other.
A good relationship must be based on trust.
Only by trusting each other can two people go a long way, go longer, excessive speculation and suspicion will only shorten the distance between you again and again, once there is a gap in the relationship that is difficult to repair, there is really no going back. Trust is mutual, it needs to be accumulated slowly, don't let those insignificant little things easily defeat your marriage.
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If a relationship comes to an end, there will be these 3 obvious signs!
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There are still many people in the world who choose to leave.
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There is no end to feelings, it depends on how you grasp it.
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