I feel very tired, whether I want more or what others give less

Whether you want more or less, it doesn't matter, what matters is your own feelings, whether you are satisfied with life, from childhood to satisfaction, why not when you grow up? Radiate joy from the heart, rather than being happy because you are happy, so that you can face it with a smile even in the most difficult times. Don't get entangled in this, you'll get tired if you struggle too much, just like you.

Tired, and even all feelings, are their own psychology, they don't live in their own satisfaction, they have nothing to do with others, it's just a private matter.

For the time being, find something to do and go with the flow. People who love you will naturally give you what you need. What's the use of people who don't love you to force it.

You want too much, maybe you're too sensitive, relax.

It's someone else who gives it not as much as you want.

Tiredness may be that you have paid too much, others give you a lot of things, but when you refuse, that warmth will pass you by, tiredness may be a kind of pressure in life, work and study, don't get along with the word tired, think about what you have paid before, and get what happy returns, or take your family out to travel, travel and relax, Heh, don't think too much, because this will put pressure on yourself.

If I say that I want to be pure and not greedy, it's all. However, when it comes to an extreme, we can think so. With an attitude of accepting as much as others give, not giving me or imposing it. You will be much more comfortable.

It is very difficult to read more books on Buddhism or other philosophical books, whether you want more or less for others, but reading more philosophical books can subtly change your mind.

If you think you have something to ask for and are not satisfied, you will be bitter.

Stop and rest, see more clearly, and move on.

This is normal, and it may feel different when you change the environment.

To adjust your mentality, it is recommended to release your stress more.

Naturally, naturally, it is useless to be sad.

I want more, calm down.

Empathy, sometimes as long as you think clearly, there is no difference between asking for more and giving less.

You want more. If you don't want anything, you won't get tired.

Don't force what to do.

To be a man, we must learn to be content, and those who are content are always happy.

If your heart is not satisfied, you want more, and then you are very tired.

I want more, and others give less.

Just think of yourself as if you want more, it will feel better.

It's really tiring to pretend not to care, you can't always learn to escape, some problems are always faced, and if you drag it out again and again, the damage will still be yourself, and what should be solved still has to be solved.

Pretend not to care. Over time, you will naturally develop the habit of not caring. But this doesn't give a good impression to others.

In fact, if you care so much, it means that you care about that person, learn to love yourself, don't care too much about other people's eyes.

Friends are more understanding and tolerant. Rather than worrying about gains and losses. What friends need is to be sincere. Sometimes you don't mean you'll be rewarded right away. Sincere dedication, time can prove your friendship.

At the same time, you can't make friends to satisfy her, you will only feel tired in that way. But don't be too selfish. What about when you have time? Go and talk to your friends.

Since you are a friend, don't care about giving and returning, you shouldn't be motivated by expecting a return when you pay, be good to him, and hope that he will be happy.

Friends also need to see what type of person they belong to.

If the quality is good, there will be more contacts, and if the quality is bad, there will be less contacts.

You have to open your eyes yourself.

But I think it's normal to give more and receive less, but if you give too much and receive too little, then it's not interesting for your friend.

But what I said upstairs is quite right, and I don't have to care about friends who are very close, and as for the not very good, then I have to open my own eyes.

Don't worry too much about gaining and losing, life is like this, adjust your mentality, we should face it positively, we are the masters of emotions, don't be pessimistic, or you are not the time to get it now, we should look at it with gratitude, think about those children in poor mountainous areas, we are already very happy.

Yes, we are already very happy, and we must learn to be content and happy.

When giving, don't think about reciprocating, that is not a friend, nor is it a sincere help.

Upstairs said everything, giving is a kind of fun, you can make yourself physically and mentally happy, this is the biggest reward.

You do have a bit of a problem with your mentality, so adjust it!

Giving is also a kind of joy. If you can give, it means that you have this ability, and it is a sign of ability and integrity.

Don't think about giving back. Getting along with people is not doing business, you can't calculate whether you lose or don't make money.

It's a pleasure to be able to help others and to see others happy because of you.

Besides, what you see is only the current situation, and maybe in the future, you will need the help of your friends. It's hard to say.

Agree with the upstairs! But if your friend really doesn't care about you at all, you have to think about whether he thinks of you as a friend!

Friends don't have to care about giving and getting, and those who care too much are not real friends.

It depends on what kind of friend they are.

Besides, you shouldn't care too much about gains and losses.

Friends, don't worry about it

What's the use of thinking about it?

Did you come back after thinking about it?

If you really care, why make friends

When I was young, I didn't feel like I had to do my homework every day, I wanted to grow up quickly, I could do whatever I wanted, and when I really grew up, I felt that it was still good when I was a child.

Because you have grown up, you have more people and things in contact with, and you have naturally thought more, you have seen through the cold and warm of the world, the hot and cold state of affairs, through the hypocrisy, perfunctory excuses, and the reality that everyone is for yourself, and everything is good first, even if everything is not what you think, but it is not up to others, and in the end there is only sadness and sadness!

That's because you like her very much, and you feel tired when you care about him! Think about it, two people from different families and different circumstances are together because of love! They have to have a lot of friction, there will be quarrels, there will be different opinions!

The other party will try to tolerate and hold each other as much as possible, all because of love! So two people will feel more or less tired together! But since love is to persevere!

I didn't feel tired because you were tired yourself.

You don't owe him anything, why do more for her?

Do what you can, if she leaves you because you can't meet your ability, then don't let people have limited ability, for example, Mano wants a BMW, and you can't give it, so you can only let him leave, no way.

That's a burden on your mind or a self-confidence problem, and if you're very confident in yourself, you won't have these problems.

If you love her, try to give her what you can...Care about her, love her, don't think too much, I wish you happiness.

When you're in love, people often have some delusions, hallucinations, and hallucinations.

Be more confident, I'm just like you.

If you are genuinely considerate of others, then your troubles today may become a powerful asset for you in the future. It's not a bad thing, it's important to insist on everything, but it's not to force it. A person's virtue cannot be changed by saying that it can be changed.

Love to think about others, if you feel happy you will keep doing it, if you are tired do not do it.

I'm a person like you, but I think it's meaningful!

Huh

Is it a girl?。。 In that case, it would be a rare treasure. In other words, do today's girls still think about others everywhere?

You'd be stupid if it's a boy! What kind of society is it now? Your innocence is going to be eliminated. Unless you live in seclusion in the valley; Otherwise, society will not tolerate you...

Me too!

Personally, I feel that it varies from person to person. If you meet a kind person, he will also be good to you; If you encounter something that is not authentic, it will look down on you and even take advantage of your characteristics.

There is also the fact that between friends, you think too much about him and are too polite, which will make the two of them separate.

It's worth asking yourself for what you've gained.

Do you have these people to help you when you are in trouble.

Do they appreciate your efforts.

Is it worth it If it's valuable, it's valuable.

If the pay is not proportional to the gain, there is no need to be persistent.

It's a bit selfish to think that way, but you can't do it all your life for someone else, and you end up empty-handed.

Whoever tries to always think about others will always be tired, but don't give up easily at this time, after all, this is a quality worth cherishing, but in the future, you have to use the right place, worry about worthy people and things, and be brave enough to let them know that you are caring and helping them, you may need to adjust it, if one thing is not within your ability, try to avoid too much'For the sake of it'. The above is a personal opinion only.