The boyfriend said that he would not ask his parents for a penny when he got married, including buil

The bride price is a must, but it still depends on the actual economic ability of the other party, for the person I love I think it is worth it, if I meet the person I really love and my ability allows, I want to give more. I don't want to wronged her. If you want to have a small wedding price, we have a wedding bride price of as little as 5-60,000 yuan, more than 7-90,000 yuan, without wine and other trivial expenses, such as red envelopes for the woman's relatives, and at least for the girl herself, at least a few thousand or more tens of thousands.

My cousin gave 70,000 yuan in a bride price for his wedding alone, not including jewelry and red envelopes. If you add wine and other things, it will be 90,000. However, it can't be generalized, and there are few like my sister who only need 36,000 jewelry 10,000

The 10,000 is still my sister's fight for the death, of course not for the man. It's for his family. Because my brother-in-law and mother are stepmothers.

It's better in the future Although my family has suffered some losses, I haven't fought for anything anymore when I see that the two of them are doing wellBut I'm from Jiangxi, I don't know if you're the best guy or your boyfriend, so the customs are different in different places. As long as we live happily together, don't worry too much about anything else, but the bride price is a must, you give it to him, of course, you have to treasure and value you, girls should be reserved, let him know that you are very important, it is rare.

Finally, I wish you all happiness.

Your husband did the right thing, and it was not easy for our parents to raise us, so if you can rely on yourself, you can rely on yourself, not as a last resort, don't rely on your family.

Marriage is a matter of two people, and engagement is also a matter of the two of you, if you want 20,000 yuan, and he doesn't have it, then don't get engaged. If you are not satisfied with him, you can leave him.

You can't assume that your parents don't agree with it ... For this reason, he went back to ask his parents for money. You are so selfish!

Think only about the feelings of your own parents, not the feelings of other people's parents.

Everyone is a woman, I still can't help but criticize you, if you really love him, you should understand him and support him. If you don't think he loves you enough, you can leave him. There's no need to quarrel and hurt feelings.

Men have their own thoughts, you know? I think so too. So don't blame him, understand him, support him, and talk to her.

It's not so simple for 2 people to live together. Learn to be tolerant and understanding. Hope you all have a happy ending!!

You should understand him, the pressure on men is generally very high, and it is also very face-saving, you have to give him enough self-esteem, so that he has the motivation to struggle. In this way, it is the real husband and wife, who should not only know how to take, but also not to give.

I finally married my wife in December last year, with a gift of 8,000, which was sent over at the right time, and then my wife took more than half of it out to sell electrical appliances.

To be honest, being able to marry her must be the luckiest thing in my life.

Men are too idealistic, and few can achieve it.

Summary. Hello, this can't be said to be an excuse, in today's society, many people have been instilled with the idea that they must buy a house and a car when they get married, and your boyfriend has also been affected by this.

My boyfriend's family asked us to get married, and I want to get married too, but my boyfriend said that he would wait until he bought a house, is that an excuse?

Hello, this can't be said to be an excuse, in today's society, many people have been instilled with the idea that they must buy a house and a car when they get married, and your boyfriend has also been affected by this.

That's why he said that, and he also wanted to have a house, so that you can have a place to settle down when you get married in the future, so that you can live happily.

Because of this incident, we have quarreled several times since the Chinese New Year, and every time we quarrel, he goes back to his hometown, and he feels so tired.

Don't be tired, don't be tired, dear.

The body is the capital of the revolution.

In fact, you don't have to quarrel because of this, one of you wants to get married and the other wants to buy a house, and the two of you will work together to earn money and fight for a down payment to buy it.

Then you can get married.

Two people can't quarrel when they encounter a problem, they must learn to find the loophole of the problem and solve it.

in order to go the long way.

Have fun. Towards happiness.

He went back to his hometown after this quarrel, he said that he felt that he was arguing and arguing and had no sense of happiness, he was afraid that he would quarrel like this when he got married, he didn't contact me, and I didn't give him a **, I felt very humble, and I was anxious to marry him.

That's the problem, pro.

You're in too much of a hurry.

It would make him feel cheap.

He will also feel that you can't live without him.

He was even more unscrupulous.

That's why they leave as soon as they quarrel.

I'm sure you're going to go back to him.

His temper is like this, every time he quarrels because of anything, he said that I was unreasonable in this quarrel, and he said to his relatives in his hometown during the New Year, he and his relatives said that he would not get married until he bought a house, why didn't I believe him, he said that he didn't want to quarrel too tired, he asked me what I was going to do, I said either get married or break up, he said whatever I wanted.

I could see that he himself had a feeling of disappointment, tired.

He also began to go numb.

I don't want to communicate with you anymore.

In fact, every quarrel is consuming feelings.

I've seen a couple who never had a fight.

They lived happily and to the fullest.

Teacher, what should I do now.

Do you still love him, do you still want to marry him?

There must be love.

If you still love him, you might as well talk to him, take a step back, in fact, it is not impossible to buy a house and then get married, so that the future life is more ***, and you don't have to worry about the wind and sun, the life after marriage is all about wealth, rice, oil and salt, having a house is really critical, you are afraid that he will run away now, and you urgently need to get married to lock him, you might as well believe him and communicate.

I think so:

1. Marriage is a matter of two people, how much money others spend is their mind, more money is more, less money is less, there is no obligation to say how much it must be, and there is no need to care;

2. Living with his parents, you can save the rent temporarily, save the money and buy a better house in the future, there is no rule that the marriage house must be prepared by the parents.

3, if you say that the gift money of the three sisters is to be returned, it is not your business, if his parents have to pay it back, it is okay, and this relative will not have to leave in the future.

4. If you don't pay it back, his parents must give it to you, because the money for the marriage is spent by you, and the gift money will naturally belong to you. If you don't give it, it's okay, let him make up for the cost of marriage.

5. In the future, relatives will return the gift, you can agree on the approximate amount, a one-time settlement, or you can give it at that time, his parents are inappropriate to do so.

6, whether your boyfriend is good to you or not can not be measured by money, after all, everyone has parents, and it is difficult for him to do it, if the parents are really like you said, he can't help it, there are very few men in this world who don't get along with their daughters-in-law and their parents, of course, on the contrary, there are very few people who don't get along with their parents for the sake of men.

7. If you regret it, leave now, and don't wait until the raw rice is cooked and ripe. If you choose now, don't regret it in the future, if you regret it, this man's lifelong happiness, as well as your own happiness, will be ruined.

8, don't use a beauty camera, make people look like ghosts...

You still have to communicate well, in fact, you are all the same, you are sandwiched between him and your parents, he is sandwiched between you and his parents, you still have to communicate well, but it is best to have a bottom line, don't live with the elderly, there will be a lot of things, small things can be negotiated and compromised with each other, but there is no room for negotiation for principled things, if you don't solve it now, it won't last long after getting married.

If you don't receive the wedding money and bride price, you feel wronged, and the expenses are common to two people, and you think it's unfair, then you tell him what you think, ask him what he thinks, and the two can't always start from their own interests when they are together, so they really can't get married. You have to let him understand that he is married, not just the son in the eyes of his parents, and at the same time you have to think clearly yourself, before marrying a person, no one forces you to marry him, so you must think carefully, don't marry and feel wronged, waste time, the personality of the two people, the reconciliation of the contradictions between the two families, all need the two of you to work together, one side alone is not enough, so say your thoughts, and then the two of them solve the problem together, if it can't be solved, then there is only one way to break up.

This kind of marriage is not married. It's boring, his family doesn't care at all.

What's the big deal if you don't accept gifts from his sisters Is it easy for you to fall in love for a few years Don't lose a big one because of a small one!

Hey, don't wait, think about it carefully, and see what your fiancé's attitude is