I feel that my girlfriend and girlfriend are more important than me, should I break up?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Consider whether your girlfriend is important in your heart, if it is important, love her well, loving someone will want her to be happy and happy, not every relationship will have results, but will enjoy the process. If you love her because she loves you and feel that she doesn't love you enough, then break up if you want to.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    shouldn't break up, maybe the relationship between the two still needs time to get along, the more they get along, the deeper the relationship, girlfriends and girlfriends get along well, this is normal, don't be jealous.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It depends on what kind of person her best friend is, if her best friend has a good character, and your girlfriend's character is also very good, then you should be happy for her to have such a best friend, if her best friend is not good, and your girlfriend is not good, then break up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I advise you to divide it quickly! It doesn't make much sense for you to continue dating him, because her best friend has become an indispensable part of his life. And you, just an application that she can replace at any time.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It shouldn't be, girlfriends are the ones who laugh and cry with her, girlfriends are also very important, but girlfriends are girlfriends, you are you, you don't need to be jealous with your girlfriends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sometimes, when she talks like this, it is also a coquettish performance, if you think her best friend is more important than you, then don't communicate again, just these few WeChat, can't say anything. So you have to make your own decisions, and if you feel suitable, you will be together, and if you can't stand it, you will separate. Very easy to solve things, simple, not too complicated!

    It's going to be tiring!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Then you should think about why they have a good relationship. Girlfriends will be with you at all times, can you do it?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't feel like anything, it's my girlfriend's best friend, girls have a better relationship together, no matter what the problem is, it's understandable, it's different from the boyfriend's feeling, there's no need to be so exaggerated, she just said that, you should understand. Thank you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's actually good that girlfriends and girlfriends have a good relationship, at least she has someone to accompany you when you're busy, this is the idea of a little girl, the relationship between her and you is two different things, one is friendship and the other is love, men should be generous and get along well, don't break up thinking about these. Unless your relationship is not suitable for each other.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If I encounter such a love, I feel that I can't grasp or can't have this love, I will endure the pain and break up, because I think that if I am really like driving, I can't drive a car, and I force to drive, but there will be some unexpected accidents, so love is the same.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Young man, you're too stingy, who doesn't have a circle of friends, don't think about breaking up at every turn! How many singles are waiting!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, why is your girlfriend's best friend more important than you, you should think about it carefully, you work outside, do you spend very little time with her, and it is not her best friend who often accompanies her to go shopping.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Generally speaking, the relationship between a girl and her best friend is different from the relationship between a girl and her boyfriend, one is friendship and the other is love, so boyfriends don't have to be jealous, girls also have friendship, they also have to go shopping together and whisper together.

    But if you break up with you because you can't find a girlfriend, it's a bit too much, if she's just a coquette, then forget it, boys can be generous. There's a benefit, too, isn't it?

    Of course, you can't go too far, if you go too far, it will also make people uncomfortable, so you need to communicate with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If your girlfriend's best friend is a woman, then you are thinking too much, and if she is a man, then you should break up on your own without saying anything.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, you have to be clear that your girlfriend doesn't care about you, whether you care about her or not, if you don't have these, you still mind if you share it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it's a male girlfriend, divide it!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girlfriend: Girlfriend is a Chinese word, also known as "girlfriend", which refers to a good friend who is good, intimate, and has nothing to talk about. The name is derived from "close friends in the boudoir", which is usually used to describe women, but in recent years, more and more girls have used this pronoun on male friends, deriving the term "male girlfriend".

    It shows that your girlfriend values friendship more, and it also shows that you are still as close and good as her best friend.

    You should first explain this matter to your girlfriend and ask her to spend more time with you.

    If she doesn't react with remorse, and you really love her, then you have to take the initiative yourself. Make a good relationship with her friends. Find out what they talk about and do together.

    Women should take care of men in action and life, and men should take care of women psychologically. Find out more about what your girlfriend likes. Try to say things you can both enjoy when you're with her.

    Try to take the initiative to change the status quo, if it really doesn't work, then accept the reality, she doesn't care about you so much but she loves you. Don't care too much about the time together, care about her heart.

    Break up first and then like, the least morality.

    Truth be told, you're really scumbag! Eating what is in your mouth, thinking about what is in the bowl.

    Love is a commitment between men and women to rely on each other, tolerate each other, and stay together for a lifetime. Therefore, love has uniqueness, selfishness and exclusivity, and no one wants to share their love with others.

    If you make a mistake, correct it immediately, take the initiative to admit your mistake, and as long as you sincerely apologize, you can exchange forgiveness. Otherwise, the consequences are quite serious.

    It's all important, so why compare them together.

    The girlfriend asked what you think.

    Your relationship with your female ticket:

    That shows that your girlfriend is interested in you, maybe she has a crush on you. Or maybe I just want to care about you.

    Hope, thank you! Tell her that you love her very much, and that it's because you love her that you respect her decisions, and you respect her friends.

    And then wait for her, and when she knows how important it is, she will take care of everything and come to you.

    You have to believe that it's yours and you can't snatch it away, it's not yours, and you can't keep it.

    This is because you have not yet developed to the stage of marriage, and women are allowed to maintain the habits of their girlfriends, and they should not be overly blamed. This is also inclusiveness.

    Personally, I think you're a little bit possessive and give you a piece of advice:

    When you try to hold a chain of sand, the sand will run away from your fingers.

    If you spread your fingers, you won't lose the sand.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Choose to believe.

    Trust between couples is very important, and if there is no even the minimum trust, then there is no point in being together. A relationship of mutual suspicion cannot survive for long. So, when your girlfriend has a male girlfriend, you don't need to panic, she also has her own social circle and her own friends.

    Since she chose you as her boyfriend, you should trust her. To love her is to believe in her, this is the best start of a relationship.

    2. Take time to spend more time with your girlfriend.

    Sometimes because of busy work or some other reasons, I will communicate less and less with my girlfriend, resulting in my girlfriend's own inner emptiness, so I will find a male girlfriend to fill the emptiness in my heart. If you want to replace your boyfriend's position in your girlfriend's heart, first of all, you have to do what your boyfriend usually does to your girlfriend, so that your girlfriend can feel that you are more important to her.

    You must know that people are not plants and trees, how can they not fall in love for a long time, not to mention a man who is unabashedly between the opposite sex, such a man becomes a girlfriend, at least it proves that a woman appreciates this man and likes this man. It's just that due to the ethics of society and the reality of marriage, being a "girlfriend" has become the best excuse. It's like when a man is looking for a "confidante" and says to his other half, "We're just friends who are different partners".

    With a man's understanding of a man, it will make men feel uneasy that their women have "male girlfriends", so they will always do everything possible to obstruct the "girlfriend" relationship between two people. Even if a woman is unhappy because of a man's hindrance, the man still won't give up.

    When your girlfriend has a male girlfriend, you should cherish the person in front of you, love the house and Wu, and believe in her, so that the love can last for a long time. Girls are very sensitive animals, as long as you can treat each other sincerely, you will definitely be able to exchange her for a sincere heart.

    If this is the case, it is recommended to have a conversation with a girlfriend! Let's solve the problem and see what she thinks! See if you're okay with it, or if your girlfriend is willing to change! Then think about thinking about whether to break up or not!

    Here are a few suggestions for you.

    1. Have a calm mind, believe in your relationship with your girlfriend, and believe in their friendship;

    2. Don't put pressure on your girlfriend, and don't quarrel with your girlfriend because she has a male girlfriend;

    3. Become friends with your girlfriend's male girlfriend and get to know each other;

    4. Communicate, often care about girlfriends, and maintain a balance in feelings;

    5. Pick up your girlfriend often and give her enough security;

    6. Communicate properly with your friends, and give your girlfriend and her male girlfriends enough space;

    7. Even if you finally break up with your girlfriend, don't have excesses and adjust your mentality.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    should take the initiative to break up, it can be seen that the stupid girlfriend and the boring friend don't love themselves at all, and the girlfriend treats herself worse than the male girlfriend in life. It shows that this girl cares about her boyfriend very much in her life and doesn't care about her boyfriend.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You should choose to break up, which means that your girlfriend doesn't particularly love you, so she is not as good to you as her boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    should break up with the other party, it can be seen that the other party is not suitable for himself at all in life, and the other party actually has a male girlfriend, saying that he will not tell himself about some things in life with the other party, and may tell the male girlfriend directly, and the distance between the two people will be chaotic or open.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Both are important. On the one hand, there are best friends whose relationship is very strong, and on the other hand, they are partners who may spend the rest of their lives together.

    Maybe she has been disappointed in men before, messy or feels that love is not as stable as friendship. Girlfriends play a very important role in a woman's many times. For example, when you break up, when you pursue a male god, some women's "little secrets".

    In fact, the problem is not which is more important, but the subject may focus on the girlfriend, but the girlfriend cannot pay equal attention to herself.

    The relationship still needs to be maintained by two people, if this is really the case, it is better to express your feelings and feelings directly to the female ticket, tell her that she is uncomfortable being left out, and communicate with each other.

    I don't think the answer to this question should be found in two people who are in love, but from the best friend. A real good girlfriend is a good girlfriend who is either a good girlfriend who eats and drinks and chats to have fun, and a real good girlfriend is a pistachio when she is depressed, a guiding light on the way to the lost, and a companion when she is lonely, rather than sticking to you every day, chirping with you and your boyfriend this and that.

    It will not occupy the public time of two people who are in love, excluding these points, how can there be conflicts between boyfriends and girlfriends, and this problem no longer exists.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    should be broken up, because normal boys generally have few female girlfriends, and after having a girlfriend, they will keep their distance, so that there are many female girlfriends who can't have boyfriends.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Should break up, such a boyfriend has no sense of responsibility, and such a boyfriend has no sense of boundaries and will hurt you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It is time to break up, and you can see that your boyfriend is very excessive, and he is also very careful, so you should break up to protect yourself.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There will only be one girlfriend in life, but just having a girlfriend is enough for you, you know? Friends are also very greedy for this kind of thing, the more you want to make more friends, in fact, it is also an unreliable thing for yourself, as long as there are one or two people who can really understand you, can listen to your heart at least don't step on you, and I think it's enough. How nice it is to have girlfriends.

    1.Emotional outpouring.

    Everyone is lonely, longing to be surrounded by love, and this loneliness makes us yearn to interact with others and find the necessary connection with the outside world. Loneliness is a self-protection mechanism produced by the individual. Psychologists have found that loneliness is generally stronger in women than in men.

    Most men prefer to be alone, while women like to be in groups because men are more likely to digest and enjoy solitude, while women always break solitude. Women very much need a narrator to listen to their inner needs, and this is the importance of the existence of girlfriends. They choose to vent their emotions to the outside world, so they will find someone to tell them.

    2.Security.

    It seems to be a well-established fact that women are inherently insecure, and this has a lot to do with women's physiological characteristics and innate environmental factors. As long as women have problems, they like to look to the outside world for strength, so we find that women prefer to rely on others because in this dependency relationship, women can gain security. Girlfriends can be relied on to a certain extent, and the more people who can let us down our psychological defenses, the greater the group power behind us, and the stronger this sense of security will be in the subconscious of women.

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