What should I do if my boyfriend proposes to break up, and what should I do if my boyfriend proposes

Updated on society 2024-05-08
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then break up.

    If you don't have the same income as him.

    Even with him, you won't be happy.

    The family looks down on you, and he will slowly change.

    It can be seen from the opposition of his family that he proposed to break up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You can feel through your description that your boyfriend is very good, but are you just as good as him? As long as you are good enough, your boyfriend likes you, and you like your boyfriend, then family conditions are not a problem. Your boyfriend and you propose to break up, you have to figure out the real reason why your boyfriend and you proposed to break up.

    If it's just the opposition of the family, you can face it together and persuade your parents together, but the average boy proposes to break up, and the possibility of breaking up is generally higher. If it really reaches the point of no return, dignified letting go is also a way.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The twisted melon is not sweet, the two of you are not right, the household is not right, it is difficult to maintain a relationship, he likes you and is confused for a while, and he will dislike it after a long time, besides, without the blessing of his parents, he will not be happy even if he gets married, so the long pain is better than the short pain, and breaking up is your wise choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Now that everyone has proposed to break up, what else do you have to hesitate about? None of your parents looked down on you, and their sons agreed with their parents. It can be seen that your boyfriend has no feelings for you.

    And you don't deserve to have him fight for you and your own parents. Let go happily and find your like-minded partner. Finding your partner is not just about external conditions.

    The most important one is not good for you. No matter how much money you earn, I don't want to spend it, what's the use?

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If your boyfriend proposes to break up, it means that he doesn't really love you. If he really loves you, he won't care about his parents' objections. Because you can live alone after you get married.

    Since he proposed to break up. It can only show that love is not enough, in order to have real happiness. You should also let go and let go for the sake of your own true happiness.

    To find the happiness that truly belongs to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Hello everyone! The boyfriend proposes to break up, break up and break up, there is no need to force many good men in the world, the twisted melon is not sweet, there is no grass at the end of the world, let it go! Go looking for your next relationship.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The twisted melon is not sweet, since your parents do not agree, if you are together, it is difficult to get the blessing of your parents, so that if your life is not satisfactory, there will be contradictions, it is difficult to have a happy life, it is better to break up, find someone else, there will always be a person who really belongs to you waiting for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Divide it, he can't stand the pressure from his parents now, and if you get married in the future, if you have a conflict with his parents, then he should be more biased towards his parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's too far away, and it's also a trouble.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If so, there's no way around it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    My boyfriend proposes to break up, what should I do? I don't know what your reason is? I want to break up.

    I had time to spend with her and have a good chat. What does he recommend? What the reason is that I want to break up with you.

    If you really can't continue to deal with it, then cut it in two. Break up early. Better a finger off than always aching.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since it was he who proposed to break up, then break up, and there is still a big gap between his parents and your disagreement. If you don't have a common language, you won't be happy together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your boyfriend proposes to break up with you, and you agree, why don't people get along with you anymore? If you don't break up, what are you doing, right? Women must be ambitious, and women must live with ambition.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    That shows that your boyfriend is also a more obedient and well-behaved person, since he listens to his own parents, he doesn't listen to his own heart, I think even if you save it, there is no room for it, because she has been biased towards his parents.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    <> boyfriend proposes to break up, you just need to say yes, and then turn around and leave as soon as possible!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    How to get back after the boyfriend mentions the breakup.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Leave generously, if it is true love, I will come back to you one day!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The first point is that since you have broken up, then don't linger on the past again, and don't try to redeem the other party! Doing so will only make you fall into the dust, and even make the other person more and more bored with you! Girls, what you have to learn is self-respect.

    The second point is that there should also be a clear degree of venting emotions. No matter what you do, there must be a limiting line, even if you are sad about the breakup, you can't cross this line, because that will not get you out of pain, but will make you more troubled!

    The third point is the proper comfort of the self. Girls, love is not the only thing in life, it will not be the whole of your life, without this time, you can still look forward to the next time! What is lost is equivalent to saying that it is not for you, and you should not let your emotions be immersed in mistakes that cannot be relieved!

    Fourth, don't refuse to communicate with the outside world! This kind of self-isolation will only make you more and more extreme, and it will not help you anything, but talk to people more, complain and complain about the stupid things of those years, maybe at a certain moment, you will suddenly want to open up and completely liberate! Moreover, the comfort of friends will also make you understand that there are still people who care about you in this world!

    Fifth, put your focus on other things, and stop thinking that you broke up, you fell out of love, which will only make you more pessimistic and sad the more you think about it! You can ask a friend out to hang out, or pick up your hobby again, and when you look back one day, you will suddenly find that it is not about self-degradation to be out of love.

    Sixth, tell yourself to accept reality. This is very similar to the first one, which means that you have to step out of the shadow of the past and bravely step into the future, and drowning and nostalgia will only make you stop where you are and fall into endless sadness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There is no proposal to break up, in this case, if you still love him and don't want to break up, go and keep him, with your sincerity. Use your sincerity to see if you can keep his heart, if you really can't keep it, or you have no feelings for him. At this time, he proposed to break up, and it was okay to break up with him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You should still think about this relationship with your boyfriend, if you no longer have this kind of relationship for your boyfriend, I think you should still directly agree to your boyfriend's breakup conditions, or else directly save your boyfriend.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If your boyfriend proposes to break up, first ask your boyfriend why he wants to break up, what is the specific reason for the breakup, if your boyfriend says he doesn't love you anymore, then you don't have to redeem and break up directly.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    The other party proposes to break up, there must be a reason, you have to see these reasons, is it the real reason for your breakup? Is there a way you can solve these problems? In this way, the two people can get back together.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Sometimes, there must be; When you hit, don't force it.

    Just let it be!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you want to divide it, you can divide it, and if you don't want to divide it, you will try to get it back.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's communicate well first, whose reason is to make mistakes and correct them.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think two people get along for a while, and now they have decided to break up, it is really necessary to explain the reason for the breakup, if you don't explain the reason, you will break up in a daze, so that the other party's second monk is confused, and he will always live in a guess about the reason for the breakup, which will make his heart never settle down. Tell the other party the reason for the breakup clearly, then the other party will be at ease and no longer think about it.

    In fact, love is just a process of running in between the two parties, if in this process, both parties feel very happy together, there are many common languages and common interests, everything can be said together, thinking together, it means that two people are suitable for being together, this situation will generally not be separated, and even slowly develop to the point of talking about marriage.

    If in the process of love, the two parties do not get along happily, and even often quarrel, and they can't say anything together, it means that the two people are not suitable for being together, in this case, breaking up is the best choice, so that they can find their other half.

    So don't care about explaining the reason clearly, what harm will it bring to the other party, if you don't explain the reason clearly, it will make the other party have psychological damage. So if you really decide to break up, you should sit down and communicate calmly, indicating that the two people are really not suitable for being together, but only for being friends, so that the other party can also accept it happily.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    The vast majority of girls will have the following three reactions after a breakup:

    The first reaction is depression and constant self-doubt.

    The second reaction is: stalking, begging for an explanation or trying to get back together.

    The third reaction is: the heart is angry, pretending to be cold on the surface, and even blocking the other party.

    For people who want to get back together after a breakup, especially girls, these three reactions are not the right way to recover, and they will not lead you to achieve the goals you want. If you want to win him back, you must first return yourself to your peak state before you can rebuild your attractiveness.

    How do you find out what you're looking for?

    1. First of all, since you want to return to your peak state, it means that you are still far from your peak state, so you have to determine which stage is your peak state, whether it is when you are just together, or when you are in love?

    2. Secondly, after finding the time period of your peak state, you have to summarize what good qualities you have attracted him when you are at your peak, and are these qualities now lost, or are they overshadowed by your shortcomings?

    3. In addition to some of your own good qualities, what kind of good qualities does he like girls have, and is there a way to add these qualities to himself?

    4. It is to find out the shortcomings in yourself that he cannot accept, and then learn to change and make himself a better person.

    5. When you really do this, you yourself have returned to the top state, not for a certain man, but to become a better version of yourself.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think that a full-time girlfriend wants to break up and ask for compensation, which is unreasonable, love is a common thing for two people, a willing thing, and a breakup cannot be compensated.

    1. Don't force the other party to break up first, although it is difficult to say that we break up, it may be because of your own feelings or falling in love with other people, but you are not willing to be the person who takes the initiative to break up, so you use various methods to force the other party to take the initiative to break up. First, there is no need to bear the responsibility of preparing for the love complex, and secondly, the successful imitation of Hu Bend retains the image of the victim in front of outsiders. It's disgusting to remember this kind of behavior.

    2. Propose to break up face-to-face, say let's break up face-to-face, this feeling of sitting and talking about it is the best way in my opinion, you can see the other party's emotional actions, this way of communication can better allow you to communicate and comfort the other half.

    3. Remember to maintain the self-esteem of the other party, how to say that there will be some disputes when breaking up, and it is inevitable that emotions will become agitated, so you need to prevent yourself from complaining in advance, which not only maintains the dignity of your lover but also your own dignity. You should give the other person an honest explanation as to why they can't continue.

    4. Love is a matter of two people, it is willing, there is no fate, there is no feeling, it can be broken up.

    I personally deleted the person I liked, because I knew that that person was no longer mine, love was not something I could control alone, and people who were not suitable for me had to be deleted.

    There used to be a person who likes you, loves you, thinks about chatting with you every day, wants to care about you, cares about you very much, doesn't want to lose you, no longer chats with you in the future, no longer annoys you, that's not that he doesn't love you anymore, but because you no longer need him in your life, and you don't give up loving you, but you yourself give up a person who loves you very much, and you won't bother half a minute in the future.

    The pain of being a woman: when she has a physical relationship with the man she loves, she naturally sees this relationship as a kind of eternity, but men can be different, and they may only think that it is another way of living. As the book says:

    Between men and women, before the commitment of marriage, it is better to maintain a simple relationship, otherwise, there is really no time to turn back.

    The best love is that after being with the right person, even the friends around you think you are more cute, instead of living every day in the worry that the other party cares enough about you, and if you can't take care of yourself, you are determined to change for him. In a relationship, the two do not owe each other, you don't have to be accommodating in order to become what the other party wants, let alone who pays more or less, get along plainly, always be yourself, and the other party can still like you as much as they did at the beginning.

    I'll remember your name, although we don't have a story.

    Love is a matter of one person, and love is a matter of two people. So I choose to love you, there is a kind of love called letting go, I let go and let you go and find the things of those two of you. I will always be by your side silently.

    Will the love engraved behind the chair be like a flower on the cement, blooming with no wind and a lonely forest.

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