Why is there a weakness in everything??? 30

Because there are many kinds of human inner stipulations or needs, and they are almost inexhaustible. However, there is nothing in the world whose attributes and characteristics are capable of fully meeting or satisfying all kinds of human needs or needs, and therefore, everything has weaknesses of one kind or another.

And judging whether something is a weakness (or weakness) or a strength is ultimately based on the inner needs and regulations of one of us, certain people, or certain groups and collectives.

It is difficult to imagine that there is a thing that fits all things or that is completely free from weaknesses (defects) unless one constantly changes the rules of one's mind so that they conform to the properties and characteristics of external things.

You can think of it this way.

Everything has a cause and effect, and if you seek an effect, then its cause is weakness. If you want to see the weakness of one thing, then look for the reason for it.

Not everything has weaknesses, for example, do you have weaknesses in eating, what kind of weaknesses are these?

Tao begets one, one life, two begets three, three begets all things!

There are two sides to everything! Since there are advantages, there are inevitably disadvantages! In fact, when we encounter difficulties, we just have to go with the flow and be normal! And that's it!

There are weaknesses, and that's okay. Flexible people can use weaknesses to improve themselves and even benefit from weaknesses.

For example, the elderly are given preferential treatment and the disabled are not subject to conscription.

Just as the pros and cons of everything are of the same nature, there are things that need to be discovered in order to see their weaknesses.

So far, I haven't found anything or something that doesn't have weaknesses.

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From the analysis of the "split in two" method, it is emphasized again that anything, when viewed from different angles, will embody different characteristics. For example, from the opposite point of view.

The law of identity in formal logic can also identify weaknesses, such as the lack of variation.

Because "absolute perfection" does not exist.

Dear, what is your weakness? 1· People have weaknesses, heroes who charge on the battlefield also have weaknesses, I can't see the suffering of others, the first can suffer their own losses and can't be sorry for others, the second is always for others, ignoring their own gains and losses, third, I always think that I am kind to others, others will also be kind to me, in many things, it is common to suffer losses, but I firmly believe that I can know that I am not stupid, those who always want to take advantage of it, in the end it is a big loss. 2· It is not only your own weakness, but also your own short version, you know it well, through your own efforts, try to overcome it, and learn from the successful experience of others to learn from each other's strengths.

Showing one's strengths is often talked about, and it is fun to show one's weaknesses. A person's weakness is like a scar on the body, there is good medicine, even if it is bitter, he will try his best to swallow it. In a complex social background, it is not easy to survive, and people's hearts are unpredictable, and you have not been able to get friendly comfort when you expose your scars, and no one is allowed to take the opportunity to sprinkle salt on your scars, which is even worse.

Everyone has weaknesses and shortcomings, and they can clearly understand this and redouble their efforts to make their own advantages as great as possible. The gong still needs to be hammered, not to mention that you still have some weaknesses and shortcomings, you have to work harder and stronger, and you can be invulnerable when you are strong.

The biggest weakness of human nature is not being able to see our own weaknesses, because we are unwilling to admit that we have shortcomings, and most of us are self-centered.

For example, when it comes to a matter, we think that we are right in our view of things, and we don't want others to point us at our own mistakes. We will habitually hear others praise us, and automatically block other people's criticism of us.

We can't always see our own shortcomings, as if we don't want to admit that our idols make mistakes, we will selectively ignore them, thinking that our favorite idols are not wrong. Most of the time we are irrational, unable to calmly analyze our own mistakes or shortcomings, and often have too low requirements for ourselves and high requirements for others.

In fact, it's not that we can't see our own shortcomings, but we habitually ignore our own shortcomings, and it is normal to always feel that we have some small shortcomings, and we don't need to correct them, because others have the obligation to tolerate our own small shortcomings, and this kind of thinking is wrong. Because others will not tolerate your small shortcomings, especially in the workplace, if you do something wrong because of your own shortcomings, then you must learn to bear the consequences of this matter.

But it's hard to correct your shortcomings, so it's a big reason why we ignore our shortcomings. Pretend that you don't have a flaw, and then magnify someone else's flaw. This kind of behavior is actually the most annoying.

Only a person who seriously reflects on his actions can probably face up to his own shortcomings, and can also see his own shortcomings. Some people can see their own shortcomings, but they just don't want to admit it, so they can only deceive themselves and pretend to be confused. We must not only see our own strengths, but also our shortcomings, and face them squarely and reflect on them.

Of course, there are also people who can face up to their own shortcomings, and it is precisely because they know their imperfections that they will work harder to make themselves better. This kind of talent is more likely to succeed, so that's the difference between us and others. Because when we find that we have shortcomings, we choose to ignore them, and others choose to correct them.

Different choices, there will be a different life, instead of complaining about fate, it is better to use substantive actions to change ourselves.

Because we always think that others have weaknesses that we definitely won't have, we feel really good about ourselves, and we all like others to talk about our strengths, so we will automatically block our weaknesses.

Because people subconsciously think that they are the best, and will selectively forget their shortcomings, the biggest weakness of human nature is not to see their weaknesses.

At all times, people selectively ignore their weaknesses, which will lead to others taking advantage of them, so this becomes your biggest weakness.

The reason why it is said that the greatest weakness of human nature is that it cannot see its own weaknesses is because people themselves think that they are perfect and cannot see their own shortcomings.

Because people's eyes only focus on the shortcomings of others and tend to ignore their own shortcomings, people's biggest weakness is that they can't see their own weaknesses clearly.

Because I always think that I am very good in my heart, I can't make such a mistake, I am a little arrogant, I don't care too much, even if I know it in my heart, I will find all kinds of excuses to shirk.

Because people are very arrogant, they feel very good and powerful from the bottom of their hearts, and they often can't see their own shortcomings, which is also the reason why many people fail.

Because everyone wants to be the best, everyone will only focus on their own strengths, so everyone will subconsciously ignore their weaknesses.

Because people's eyes tend to be focused on other people's weaknesses, people naturally don't see their own weaknesses.

Because most people are self-centered, isn't there a poem that says: I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain, which is probably the truth.

<> "Why Avoidance Is Good at "Hiding Weaknesses"?

Why can't avoidance confront vulnerability?

For them, admitting their weakness is like openly admitting that they can't fail.

At the same time, they believe that "any act of asking for help" is a sign of weakness, so many times they feel that everything should be done by themselves.

Even if they don't know the answer to their question, even if they know that one person can't do everything, even if it would be more efficient to seek help from others, they just like to do things alone, even if it makes them more lonely and miserable.

Until in the end, the burden on them became heavier and heavier, and they had to go to "procrastination".

From a psychological point of view, the reluctance to admit one's weakness is actually the psychology of saving face. Ordinary people have the psychology of loving face, which is out of the need for people's self-esteem.

However, if the need for self-esteem is excessive, if you refuse to ask others for advice, if you are unwilling to admit your own failures, if you can only listen to praise, if you are unwilling to accept criticism, if you are concerned about anything that hurts your own face, and if you refuse to give in, it will become an excessively extreme behavior.

In other words, such "self-esteem" is overly dependent on "otherness" to maintain, which is essentially a manifestation of inner inferiority.

Therefore, the difference between true and false self-esteem is also whether you dare to expose yourself and face your vulnerability.

In fact, it is not a shame to admit one's weakness. It is only when we truly accept our weakness that we can truly know ourselves.

You can try:

1. Develop all fact-based habits of mind.

You need to be careful, don't be happy because of unrealistic praise (you don't have to work so hard if you knew it), and don't deny yourself because of emotional accusations (hey, I really can't do it and can't do it well).

2. Appropriate psychological cues and learn to laugh at yourself.

Love to face criticism, and tell yourself in your heart: "The mouth grows on others, and they can say whatever they want, as long as they know what is going on." ”

For criticism or attacks that don't need to be considered, smile and say to yourself, "It's my freedom to say what is his or her freedom and what kind of feedback to make." ”

If someone says something unpleasant, you'll blow up. It's also too easy to "take the bait". In other words, you are not firm enough to believe that you are "okay".

3 If you don't dare to face yourself, you will feel even inferior.

If we do not dare to face up to our weakness for fear of losing our training, then we will not take positive action, but allow ourselves to hide behind difficulties and be intimidated by them at every turn. It's easy for us to develop an inferiority complex.

After shouting for a long time, I didn't dare to do anything. Evasion only procrastinates the problem, not the problem.

The water pipe is leaking, and covering it with a rag can only maintain the "safety" of the surface. Find the cause and repair it to eliminate the hidden danger.

From this point of view, weakness is not terrible, but hiding weakness is "terrible".

The bad places need to be corrected, developed, and enhanced, and they must be analyzed and recognized, and they should come up with measures or conclusions to do, and dare to be responsible for themselves.

1.Too honest and easy to be deceived; 2.doesn't know how to speak, and it is easy to embarrass others; 3.I don't know how to love; 4.Lack of attention at work; 5.I don't know how to resist.