Is love obligated to be maintained? What sustains love?

You're not talking about love, it's a shackle, if you're maintaining it, forget it, it's good for you and her, and you don't have to waste each other's time and experience!

Long pain is better than short pain, you yourself say that early love, you should still be young, focus on your studies.

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it does require both parties to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, Ridge Rock Attendant Understanding, and Trust.

These three factors are indispensable for a cherry blossom, is the essence of Zaoling in all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have a long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely come true.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.

Love needs two people to maintain together in order to be happy, and the farther and farther it goes, it is useless for a person to work hard

Love needs to be cared for by both parties, this is life

Love needs two people to maintain together in order to be happy, and the farther and farther it goes, it is useless for a person to work hard

Love is not a one-person thing, it requires the joint efforts of 2 people, otherwise no one will be able to accept it after a long time, and sooner or later there will be problems.

Love needs to be cared for by both parties, this is life

Hello! In this case like you said, I don't see a reason to continue.

It doesn't matter if he graduates from elementary school, as long as he loves you and is self-motivated, money is not a problem. But now the question is, he cares about playing games every day, if such a person is not irresponsible, or what? Moreover, he doesn't love you, girls just marry and come home to hurt, but does she care about you?

If you go home and he doesn't send it, he's not afraid that something will happen to you?

Maybe it's because you've been together for a long time, and he feels that all this has been taken for granted and doesn't matter, so he doesn't know how to cherish it. However, a boy can't beat his girlfriend no matter what, and he wants you to get out, has he thought about your self-esteem? Don't listen to him say it won't be like this in the future, I tell you, it's hard!

The country is easy to change, but the temperament is difficult!

If you don't want to do this again in the future, just break up, the long pain is better than the short pain, and everything will pass.

Finally, I wish you happiness!

I'm sure he loves you, and you love him even more! But he loves too proudly, he knows in his heart that you love him, so he does so many incomprehensible, selfish and hateful things but doesn't think so, and even gets angry with you in turn, in fact, his pride ** knows very well in his heart that it is difficult for you to leave him, which has increased his momentum a lot, if you make up your mind to break up with him, he will definitely be more uncomfortable and painful than you, and he will definitely bow his head and beg you. I advise you to be ruthless, this is his personal essence problem, if you choose to continue to want to get a happy and stable life, I really think it's difficult, from your content I think you are a very good girl, less feminine sensibility, more rational, rare, only by leaving can you have real happiness, bless you!

There are no conditions for loving a person.

If you love, accept the good and the bad together.

If you don't love it, just go away and don't look back!

Forget it, it's useless to keep some feelings. Don't wait until you're married to regret it. Who hasn't shed tears, hasn't been sad about the past, not only you will encounter such a thing, feelings will be met by anyone, and there will be different results.

I'm still happy now, because now I'm better off than before, I have someone who loves me, and I love her and cherish her. Anyway, if I had to choose, I would not hesitate to choose her now. She's the one I'm looking for.

After that time, I learned a lot and grew up, but I didn't lose my happiness because of it. Because I know what I want and how I want it.

Break up happily, he doesn't deserve you like that, I am afraid of such a man, how can I treat you like that, he is too machismo.

He should love you, otherwise he would have left long ago after four years. So what you're thinking about now is not whether he loves you or not, but how to give up playing games. A lot of couples are broken up by the game, so I think Hello should try to enlighten him and make him understand that the game is unreal and you are the reality.

He should value you, not the game.

If the man doesn't know how to be humble, he will walk together, and there will be cracks in the future, so it is better to choose as soon as possible.

What exactly do you like about him? Such people obviously don't like your ...... at all

He's the kind of guy who's obviously fascinated by games, and he may still love you, but now in his heart, games may be more important than you. You try to pull him out of the game world first. If it really doesn't work, then divide it.

Money is important, but it can't be compared with love, money can buy everything, but only true love can't buy happiness. Shen Yin fights a person, even if you have a lot of money, but you are not happy at all, so what's the point.

Truly in love.

Two people get along together, the most important thing is to achieve mutual trust, mutual respect, mutual understanding and mutual help, only to achieve these minimum requirements, two people will be happy together, each other's feelings will be sublimated and will continue.

True love can withstand any test, and will not be affected by objective factors such as time and distance.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope that every minute you can see him (her), when you don't, you will always think about him (her), when you see it, you will be excited, your heart beats faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) is in love, you will look forward to bringing him (her) with all your love The greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and I am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Love is not a memory, a process, and an outcome. Love requires both parties to invest Mutual tolerance Caring for each other Love can't be said But it can be described in words Love can't be opened But it can make you regret it for a lifetime Love has laughter and tears There are bitter and sweet Love, sweet and sour, all kinds of tastes, love is easy to start Breaking up painful love The process is beautiful Absolutely beautiful The process is absolutely beautiful Absolutely beautiful Love Sweet and sour All kinds of tastes Love It's easy to start Breaking up painful Love The process is beautiful Absolutely beautiful Absolutely beautiful Love Love Sweet and sour All kinds of tastes Love It's easy to start Breakup pain Love Journey Beautiful Absolute Descent Desirability Descent TOtherwise, love needs to slow down the pace of love will fall if you run too fast Love is like a game of two people and three feet Love needs a little tacit cooperation Love is built in the hearts of both parties Love is not the only thing in life but it is the focus of life Love is beyond the age of time and space There is no distance from love Let the two hearts be close to each other Affection makes you ignore everything Love is a nonsensical joke Love can't catch it Love can't feel its existence Love can clearly understand its departure Love is only suitable for two people together Love can't be perfect But it's always a translation But it's always a translation People look forward to love is a kind of happiness Love is a cup of coffee with milk Sweet and sweet love makes people powerless Love needs to be blessed Love needs to trust each other Love is not a race No loss Love Every minute has to be bad luck to face seriously Love Be honest Face Love Don't run away from love You have to learn too much, you have to understand too little, you can't do it all over again, it's not a game, you need a lot of learning, you need to learn a lot, you need to learn it, you need to learn it, you need to learn too much, it's hard to say it, it's not easy to say it, only love, Because when you don't protect true love, it will lead to love being short-lived, and you will think that it won't last long Love someone to trust each other, love someone to understand each other Love someone to be tolerant of love a person to be broad-minded, love someone to respect each other's thoughts and opinions A person should support him (her) more behind his or her back, not to block Love someone to face him (she) When you can't accompany you, don't complain, say to him (her) with a smile I'm good and happy Love a person to hide their inner fragility and grievances, don't let him (her) know to love someone too much love, maybe some people can't do it The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, you must make him (her) happy, only he (she) happy and happy, is the most important.

Love needs to be maintained, of course it is necessary, Valentine's Day because of the sense of ceremony, you remember the touch of that moment, remember the words you said and the places you went that day, remember the breeze and sunshine that day, the clothes you wore that day, and the light in his eyes when he stared at you.

Of course, the sense of ritual in marriage doesn't have to be created through anniversaries and Valentine's Day. In the early years, the love of the fathers did not know what Valentine's Day was, but they may always remember to make a basin of foot wash for each other at night; Some couples never celebrate Valentine's Day, but they may always give each other a kiss before they go out and as soon as they get home. It's not the festival itself that matters, it's how you treat life and each other with care.

Whether it is Valentine's Day, anniversary, or the expression of love in ordinary life, all of these reveal people's sense of ritual in love, the importance of each other, the cherishing of marriage, and the love of life itself.

Finally, please believe that these rituals you have carefully arranged for your marriage have not evaporated out of thin air, but silently infiltrated your marriage, making your marriage more radiant with the passage of time, rather than just leaving a piece of chicken feathers. And your life, because of this intention and fun, retains a freshness and softness, which is enough to resist the ruthless invasion of the soul by the years.

In the marriage bank, do you save more or withdraw more?

For friends who come to do marriage counseling, I often make an analogy, if you treat marriage as a bank account, look at your account, how much have you actively saved, how much have you withdrawn along the way, and how much is left now?

When you are in love, the unforgettable heart and the resonance of each other's hearts are a big savings;

Many small romantic details when in love are many small savings;

A well-planned wedding is about savings;

A good trip for two is savings;

Careful care when you are sick is saving;

Never giving up when you encounter misfortune is saving;

Mutual consideration and tolerance after marriage is savings;

After marriage, the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and the problem of children's education are pulled again and again;

When the wife gives birth to a child, the husband does not come back to accompany him, which is a withdrawal;

The husband's work and entertainment were complained by his wife, and it was withdrawn;

More working hours and less time with family members, which is a withdrawal;

One party bears the hard work of raising children alone, which is a withdrawal;

A quarrel over divorce is a big withdrawal;

Prolonged apathy or lack of sexuality is appropriation;

Always unwilling to change himself, but always expecting the other party to change, is a lot of silent ......

If you are honest enough about your marital status, many people will be shocked to find that their marital account is constantly being depleted rapidly, and even overdrawn. - Those marriages that seem to be calm and not a big problem, but one day suddenly fall apart, are probably like this.