My boyfriend asked me to borrow money, which was annoying My boyfriend asked me what my psychology w

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't lend it to him, I lent him 7,000 yuan when I was with my boyfriend. At that time, he said that he had solved his immediate need. Later, after the breakup, I asked him to ask for it, and he actually scolded me, saying that he never took the initiative to ask me to borrow money, I took the initiative to give it to him, and now he is using this to hurt people.

    I was stunned at the time, yes, he didn't take the initiative to borrow money, but he said that he was difficult, and I said that I should find a way. He said no, and five minutes later he asked me if I knew his bank account number. I said I didn't know, and he told me.

    I understand what's going on, and I want to ask me to borrow money, and I don't want to lose face as a man.

    It's good now, but he also insulted me, saying that I was selfish, that my love for him was fake, and that women in the world were all the way. Do I owe him in my last life?

    My relationship with him for two or three years, so what, he has changed, he has become so terrible, so strange. It's ironic.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Ask what to borrow money, if it is true and legitimate, you can consider borrowing (I am talking about consideration), and then there is what is the point of your relationship, if the two of them have a deep understanding, they have talked about marriage, money is not a problem, if you just met March, I think you have to look at his character.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How to say it, the problem of money is a troublesome thing, I'm having a girlfriend, so I'm still in this situation, if he really needs it, if you love him, give it to him, don't be separated because of these things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    But look at it yourself, maybe he thinks that his girlfriend's money can be repaid, and they will be a family in the future, and the family will say yes or no. On the other hand, he sees you as his family, so it's normal to think of you when he's in trouble or something

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Does the water know what's going on with you? My girlfriend and I have always had money together! Since you love him, why do you make Jing points so clear, as long as he borrows money not because of gambling or betraying you, but because of family difficulties, if you have the financial strength, help him!

    It makes your lover, not your enemy!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We and my girlfriend also put money together, if the relationship is really good enough, your problem is not a problem at all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The reply here is already very complete.,I don't have anything to say.,Anyway,I don't think 3 months is enough to understand a person.,And you said text refusal.,You won't meet on the Internet.,If that's the case.,I think it's impossible for everyone to agree.,After all, the authorities are confused.,Maybe you think it's a good reason.,Let a sober bystander analyze.,It's simply an excuse for boredom.。

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you keep borrowing money from women, I don't think this man is reliable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Maybe he really needs money, first of all, to figure out what he is doing with it? Again, find out if you really love each other! Write down his good and his bad on a piece of paper, and the problem will be clear.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I've only known each other for a few months, and you've been borrowing money all the time? What do you mean? What to do after that, Sensei talked about it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I think that you will break up immediately, you will not have a happy life in such a life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then you don't borrow him to pull, see what initiative he has, maybe he is using the money.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's better not to dwell on money, don't worry too much about small money, and if you have big money, I think it's best not to borrow. My former boyfriend and I are a little unhappy with money, similar to you, he often uses my money, I don't think I'm very happy, he thinks I'm stingy, I take money too seriously, and then I don't spend money on him, and he left me not long after. It also made me see a lot of things, although sad, but also grew a lot, and now it is much better.

    But I still hope that you don't break up because of money, you will feel very sad when you think about it in the future, mainly to see if he is good to you or not, whether you really love each other!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Upstairs Yan Shuyu Don't talk so fast, if you want the two of you to go better, if you are for your girlfriend, I suggest you use the money separately, of course, I am not against you lending money to your friends, I also lent money to my girlfriend, and I never mentioned paying it back. Reasoning aside, you'll know when the time comes.

    As for the question of hugging the lord, my opinion is: Do you understand what he is used for, because it is very strange, his family is in difficulty, does he need you to support him, can't his family live without your girlfriend? This is a very real problem.

    I won't say much, but you have to stick to your principles and stay sober. And, more importantly, as a woman, you have to pay more attention to what I say.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    There was a lot of talk upstairs, and I was speechless.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Don't lend it to this decrepit man who eats soft rice

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Whatever the reason.

    This kind of man. Don't.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Summary. First of all, based on my years of experience and psychology, I think if your boyfriend borrows money from you, he doesn't feel too much about you, because if a guy is particularly fond of a girl, then he will not borrow money from him.

    My boyfriend asked me what my psychology was about borrowing money.

    First of all, based on my years of experience and psychology, I think if your boyfriend borrows money from you, he doesn't feel too much about you, because if a guy is particularly fond of a girl, then he will not borrow money from him.

    His job is that the teacher told me today that he would arrange for the teacher to eat at 600 in the evening, and asked me if I had used it for him first, and suddenly I felt outrageous.

    In fact, in such a situation, I don't think you should give it to him, because 600 yuan is not a lot of money, and he can ask for it with his buddies or other people. There is no need to meet you at all.

    Suddenly hit ** and asked me to take it.

    I think you should say that, I don't have any money these days, or I'll borrow it from you and others.

    I now wonder if he really likes me or if I will lend it for the first time, if there is a next time I will definitely not borrow it, I have begun to doubt that this relationship is fading.

    I don't know why I really didn't expect him to open his mouth to ask me to borrow money to fall in love for half a year, and he didn't say that he had sent me a red envelope or anything, I really felt speechless.

    I don't think you should have lent him the first time, after all, you are in a relationship between men and women, and it was just at the beginning, I think that rejecting him is the one who thinks in your heart, it's not that you don't have the money, it's because you think he is frivolous in doing so.

    I found myself in love and getting carried away.

    In fact, this is a common phenomenon, because most people have such a situation, because in the face of love, everyone sometimes can't tell a lot of things, so we don't need to think too much, we just need to be ourselves, if he loves you, he won't be bad with you because of such a trivial matter.

    I didn't expect him to open this mouth for me, I always thought about him, and today I suddenly feel so complicated inside.

    In fact, you don't need to think about it, it is possible that he is also a person with a more straightforward personality, thinking that you are his girlfriend, and you should be more reliable than other people.

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