How can I avoid being too easy going with people?

I actually have my own ideas every time, but every time I find that others are a little unhappy, I am very worried, afraid that they will ignore me. My friend said that I always had to gain and lose, and it was not good. Later, I heard what others said, you need to have your own opinions, first raise your own character, in order to make people have a good impression of you, don't be too sensitive, maybe some people look at everyone annoying, not necessarily your fault, when you find something wrong, you might as well reflect on what you have done in the past few days.

Don't grovel to others so much, you have to have your own unique style, be your own self, when others conflict with your opinions, discuss with others calmly, let them know your truest thoughts, but before you say it, think about it in your heart, if you are a listener, what is it like to hear your own words. And if you want to point out other people's shortcomings or your opinions, say it tactfully, don't put your tone too high, and give people room to think about it. Remember, a smile can melt an iceberg, and a smile is not cowardice, but the elasticity of life.

If the personality is too easy-going, it will appear unobstructed. The advantage of being much more open is that it is easy for people to approach, and the disadvantage is that it is too easy for people to approach. The consequence of this is that if you dare to be easy-going, others will dare to treat you casually.

You can win likes, but you can't earn awe and respect. Learn to start being alone, doing only ordinary things, and no longer giving up your time or opportunities for others. I don't listen to or look at other people's words and faces.

Insist on what you think is right, reject other people's wrong ideas gracefully, and do things must have your own opinions, in fact, now people with personality and self are more likely to make others pay attention to them, let others take them to heart, you can try it.

In fact, my personality is similar to yours, in fact, people like us are because of the lack of affirmation, I don't know how to behave in the world, in fact, my heart is very kind, I am afraid of hurting others, no matter what, everyone has their own way of life, as long as they are happy, don't care too much about other people's eyes. Everyone is unique and has their own strengths and weaknesses. If you can appreciate your own strengths, you will be confident and not blindly compare with others; If you know how to accept your own shortcomings, you will consciously improve yourself, neither blindly confident nor blindly inferior.

A comprehensive and objective understanding of oneself is conducive to planning one's life.

If you care too much about what other people think, argue and speak loudly, after all, if you don't say it, no one knows what is in your heart. In fact, it is often useless, because the personality is too "easy-going", and they don't know what to say or do when arguing with them, and even if they do, they won't believe it.

The best way to do this is to ignore them and do what you want. If I look down on you today, I will wait for tomorrow to be high. The more you ignore them, the less they despise them.

In the end, you have done what you want to do, and you look at them again, and no one will despise you anymore.

People are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, I also feel that I am too easy-going, I try to agree to what my friends say, but no one listens to what I say, and some people who are not familiar with me generally do not say too much, they all feel that they are easy to bully, and they must learn to go to the appropriate not to be easy-going in the future. Stick to your ideas.

To live alone, you must have a few good buddies. It's different from many people, called brothers. If you want them all, it's really great.

But it will leave you with injuries and you will be torn between a few sides. When the time comes, you will know it. You should have a brother of your own.