What should I do? I feel so tired for love. 40

When you're tired, you go to your own break, you're in a relationship and not in a game. Always blindly giving and not getting a response from the other party is a problem to get along.

Your parents' opinions are 50% correct, and I advise you to listen to them. Everything else is to blame.

If you have persevered, if you don't get something in return, it's better to withdraw early, love is mutual.

Tired! Is it paying off? Love is selfish!

But you have to find someone who is worthy of your own love to love! Barely maintained, it's better to give up! Find someone who knows how to cherish you!

Be honest with each other! You can chase what you like, but don't be too ...

If it makes people feel tired, it's not love.

I think it's a joy to love someone, and if you're so tired, break up! Maybe leaving is the best

If you are tired, it means that you are using it to love, and I believe that the result will be very good, bless you.

When all the novelty fades, true love begins to emerge, and if you can't accept the blandness, then you will never escape the cycle of freshness. <>

I don't know what kind of tiredness you are talking about, in fact, falling in love is tired, I even thought about not falling in love before, but I still met someone worthy in the world, so I still talked about a serious relationship, the early stage of love is almost the embodiment of sweetness, I tasted all the sweetness of love, he will spoil me, take care of me, and take care of me very well, at that time I felt that there was really nothing wrong with falling in love, it was really good to fall in love, but will it always be like this? Of course not. <>

Slowly, the tiredness in love began to emerge, my tiredness is mainly manifested in the tiredness of the heart, sometimes I will find that two people can not communicate in many aspects, and even there are problems with the three views, I will be hysterical because of some trivial things, he will put on a look of not caring to make me more angry, I am very tired, I believe he is also tired, because I have a bad temper, I will use various reasons to make noise.

But we still love each other, we will prepare gifts that each other likes, and we will prepare a lot of surprises, he will remember my taste, I will accompany him silently, it is normal to be tired, as long as we still love, then two people can be together. <>

I think first of all, we need to face up to this kind of tiredness, two people live is good and bad, even in the family, there will be times when you feel physically and mentally exhausted, but the best way is for two people to huddle together to keep warm, since you love each other together, then it proves that you know each other better than others, you can communicate more, or do some things that both people like to do together, such as watching a movie, or reading a book, more common language, and explain the problems in love, Make corresponding changes according to the other party's requirements for yourself, pay attention to the other party's emotions, and think more about the other party's good to you, I believe that through this way, you will definitely be able to solve your estrangement.

Often many times, some people may really just be suitable for love, but not suitable for getting along, isn't there a song lyrics, love is easy to get along with difficult to get along, in real life is actually like this, love is very easy, but it is indeed very difficult to get along, because many times people's temper, personality, living habits are completely different, getting along is the moment to test whether it is true love.

And you love her to be tired, how to say it, maybe it is what we call easy to love but it is difficult to get along, you love her very much, but you may not necessarily be suitable, if the right two people, together will not feel tired, on the contrary, the really right person, the two people who really love each other together, will work together to deal with some small contradictions between you, and will not make each other feel, in the end, the impression of this relationship is only tired.

If you have to change and don't want to make yourself so tired, I think you can consider your own feelings, in the process of getting along, for example, whether you can no longer be so accommodating to each other, no longer so unreasonable by the other party, but try to make your relationship equal, not just you are blindly giving, while the other party is consuming your love.

If I were you, I would try to adjust my attitude towards her now, no longer like before, maybe you used to be on call with her, everything by her, but you will be tired, so now can you selectively let her, selectively spoil her, tell her to blindly accommodate her, make you very painful, I hope she can understand you, if you don't understand, I think this relationship can actually give up, because it's just your love, and others probably don't love you.

Many times when you are tired of falling in love, just think about whether the current way of getting along is what you like, if you don't like it, change the way you get along, maybe you won't have such a feeling.

You are a little tired, but you still love him, you can go to someone, and then associate with him, and then slowly forget about her from the heart, and slowly change and shrink him from the position of your heart little by little, so that he is replaced by someone else, and he is reduced little by little from the position of your heart, so that other people are used to replace his things.

You can separate it appropriately, the separation I said is not really separated, for example, you can go out alone for a few days, whether it is traveling, whether it is deliberately working overtime, whether it is an excuse to go on a business trip, in short, open up a little distance, so that each other has some free space to come out, and a short separation often allows everyone to be quiet and more able to see their hearts clearly!

Then you can continue to love him in a more relaxed way, there are actually many ways to love. Let yourself control the strength, don't use too much force, otherwise you yourself will be very tired, and the other party will be uncomfortable.

Try not to quarrel. Because as long as there is a quarrel between couples, it will hurt the feelings, and don't say something hurtful. At the same time, you have to respect the other person and make the other party feel that you are still very reliable. Make these two changes, and I believe that your relationship is getting better and better.

Maybe it's because you don't communicate with each other, talk to him more, go out for a walk, because life is always the same and it can make people feel tired. Change the rhythm of life, let life have more fresh feelings, and you will have a different feeling.

If you love someone, you shouldn't feel tired, find out why, the two of you should be happy and relaxed together, find a way to change it, reverse the current situation, and communicate more to each other to give the most intimate feelings.

Has she ever loved you, love and liking are different, since she said she was tired, it may be because you care too much about her, give her some freedom, leave some space for each other, and everyone should leave some space in their hearts to pretend to their own affairs.

Since you love it, it doesn't matter if you're tired, but you still have to love him, and don't give up on this little thing because of this little thing. There is no love, only if there is effort to love him, so that he can be happy.

Since you still love him, let yourself recover your feelings first, sometimes it takes time to love someone, indifference can also make the relationship between two people become more and more indifferent, you need to make him wait for a while, and when you recover, you can return to him.

I think it's very important for you to communicate with her at this time, so that you can solve the problem and have a happier ending between you and her.

In this case, you can give yourself a break and give the other person some time to think. After a while, if she doesn't show that she cherishes you, then you can consider leaving her.

I'm a little tired, but I still love him, how can I change that? You love her, why can't you change for him, say you, you don't love him as much as you think, love someone can give everything for the other person, do you want to change something, don't love him, or want to change him.

If this love makes you feel tired, then both parties should calm down, calm down for a while, and see how their hearts choose.