I lack initiative in love, what should I do?

Love is actually very simple and simple! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true! For love, we don't expect its fulfillment, but we can make it true...

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far? So love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; It becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money ...

At this time, love has lost its beautiful aura and has become realistic and worldly... Is there still true love in this society? Yes, but very little, modern people do not know how to cherish love, when they have it, they will suck the essence of love recklessly, do not water, do not fertilize, so the flower of love will not be long before it withers...

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me, but unfortunately there is no regret medicine in this world... So when you have a good love, cherish it ... To love someone is to care about him and want him to be happy, and his joys, sorrows and sorrows also affect my emotions, but I just want him to be happy.

If you love someone just to make him love you, then you are misinterpreting the meaning of love. If he could live happier without you, then you should be happy, shouldn't you? Your fulfillment may make it a lot easier for each other, friend, why bother so much, there are many unfair things in the world.

The fate is determined by heaven, and the share is artificial, maybe you are not suitable to be together. Bury that love deep in your heart, as long as you silently bless him, one day you will also be blessed by God and meet your real him. Now if you have the same mindset as I do, you will be happy.

It's right to love someone, it's just that we love the wrong person

It's not okay to have no initiative, you can try to make yourself more active, since you're still afraid of anything together, you should take the initiative to hold each other's hands at the right time, etc., if you have been in a passive state, the relationship between the two will not be very good. Oh.

Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.

On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words. Feel it with your heart!If my answer can help you, please give a 5 star, thank you.

obviously loves each other very much, but is unwilling to take the initiative to take a step forward, and in the end the relationship is missed in vain. Obviously, I want to intersect with each other, and I have a lot of things on my mind that I want to share with each other, but I am indecisive and lack courage. This kind of ambivalence actually exists in the hearts of many people.

How do you think about the emotional outlook of whoever loves me, and I love whom?

From a psychological point of view, this has to do with a person's self-esteem. People with low self-esteem often lack courage and are passive in both interpersonal communication and love; They don't have the courage to expose themselves, to show themselves to each other, and they lack the most basic courage. In interpersonal interactions, people with low self-esteem tend to have a low opinion of themselves.

Others don't care about what I say, and if I take too much initiative, it will add trouble to others; If I disturb someone, will they hate me? And in the relationship, their attitude is often: "I don't dare to take the initiative, if I grasp it too tightly, he will immediately treat me."

In the minds of people with "low self-esteem", they are very eager to gain the initiative of others; Because only when others take the initiative, can they recognize themselves, prove that he is needed, and prove that he is not disgusted by the other party.

How to find a balance in a relationship?

First: Try to share it with the other person.

The best way for couples to warm up their relationship is to keep sharing it with each other.

The desire to share is often an important criterion for measuring the depth of a couple's relationship.

You see flowers on the side of the road, stray cats, you eat delicious food today, you have a happy thing, and you can share these with each other.

Because your positive emotions can affect the other person and make the other person happy unconsciously.

When you encounter something in trouble, the first person who comes to mind is him, doesn't this mean that he has a high status in your heart?

Second: if you take the initiative, the other party will also take the initiative.

Since you love each other, don't think about separation.

People who are too proactive, try to slow down and wait for the other party; People who are too passive and too silent, be more proactive and let the other party notice your changes.

This balance is important.

Don't always think like this: I took the initiative, if the other party doesn't take the initiative, what should I do? What should I do if I take too many initiatives, and the other party hates me?

You have to understand that people who truly love you will not hate you because of these things; On the other hand, if the other person becomes cringe and wants to flee because of your sharing, your initiative.

Essentially, the other person doesn't love you enough.

Isn't it a very cost-effective thing to exchange your own initiative for a stronger love, or to see that the other party is not a worthy person?