What do you think of people who like to cry to gain sympathy?

To win sympathy is to beg for pity. From the ancient way, the poor man must have something to hate. Life is not about winning sympathy with tears, but about getting applause with hard work.

This kind of gaining the sympathy of others is because you are too dependent and afraid of others. Because I always feel very weak, but I must realize that my fear is self-made, and change must start from the subconscious and action before it can be completely changed. This requires a professional psychology**.

This is also a way of doing things and a strategy, taking advantage of the kindness of others to do what you want to do well. As the saying goes: crying children have milk to eat, and they take advantage of this human weakness to achieve their goals.

Personally, I think this is a kind of protective consciousness formed by people, when she feels that she is weak, she will naturally have corresponding practices, everyone's methods are different, you will also have such thoughts, but the way you behave will be completely different from hers.

You have to know people. Then we must keep learning, learn from books, learn from life, learn from success, and learn from failure. If you want to succeed, then living is like being on the battlefield, learning war in war, you are like a god of war, and you will not win without a fight.

Of course, if you give up "survival and development" and want to be a great good person, like the saint "Teresa", it is also very good, she won the Nobel Prize! She had completely lost herself. If you don't want to succeed, as long as you are happy, you can play how you like.

If you want to succeed, there is still such a sentence, "Under the premise of legality, establish the right goal, keep working hard, keep learning, get up again when you fall, summarize the lessons, and work hard, this is an eternal road!" ”

The forest is big, and there are all kinds of birds. Everyone's family, environment, school, society, and family education are different, and people's inner hobbies, inner talents, and inner understandings are different. But there is one thing in common, both to survive and develop.

Under the premise of legality, in order to survive, seek development, keep working hard, fall down and get up again, and work hard, this is an eternal road. You can only proceed from reality and rely on your own judgment to determine what to do at the moment, and do it. The practices are very different depending on the place, the time, and the person.

Because of his lack of strength, he felt helpless. To win sympathy is to attract the energy of others to replenish oneself, so as to make oneself more confident and secure.

Sometimes we have to be dominated by our feelings, and this is especially true of compassion. If you only know a person or a thing from the surface or feelings, it is easy to go astray, because people's hearts are separated from their stomachs.

Actually, there is no need to wronged yourself, all the choices in life are your own choices, and it is also a choice to compromise and seek perfection, of course, if you use this as a means, it is completely fine.