How to think that the post 90s prefer to be alone

In fact, everyone has a different innate temperament, and what you said has nothing to do with the age, but more of a characteristic of a type of innate temperament. You may need space, even self-recovery is done in solitude, you have a lot of thinking, you will be more sensitive and emotional. But in fact, it can be quite fun to be amused by acquaintances.

You may be the melancholic type of your innate temperament. There is no problem with this, there is no need to put other people's standards on yourself, people are different. About innate temperament, you can learn about Lin Wencai's books in the mainland, psychological nutrition, and the above introduction.

Each innate temperament has its own strengths, and it is not surprising that everyone has several innate temperaments, and some people will have one or two more simple ones. Is it okay to allow yourself to be different from others? ‍‍

I think it's because the post-90s generation pays more attention to and cares about their inner world, so they are not afraid to be alone and enjoy being alone.

The post-90s generation grew up in the world of the Internet, and after 2000, they can have personal computers and mobile phones, and in such an era, both communication and living standards are higher than those of previous generations. In the era of mobile Internet, whether it is the post-90s and post-80s, it is a common phenomenon to bow down, playing with mobile phones during dinners, playing mobile phones when traveling, and playing mobile phones when partying, isn't this phenomenon a kind of solitary behavior? It's a social behavior, caused by the environment.

This is a transitional period, with the aging of the post-70s and post-80s, the post-90s are also following in the footsteps! Now the Internet is talking about the world of the post-00s! Even many post-00s openly say that 90 is an aunt and uncle!

It's an awkward stage! is not understood! Can't go up, can't come down!

So I prefer to be alone. ‍‍

I love to be alone by nature, and I feel envious of seeing others make friends and be more flexible than you, so I have also tried to amplify my extroverted side and try to make friends, but I am too tired, and in the past few years, I have looked back on the friends I have made in the past and found that there are not many people still alive in my circle of friends. can't be too absolute, thousands of people have thousands of faces, and the ancients also had those who liked to be alone and those who couldn't stand loneliness. ‍‍

Me too, I like to cook alone, read books, live alone, because I am an only child, I have played more alone since I was a child, and my parents are not around when I work, so I can't help it at first, I can only be alone, and then I am used to being alone, and then I like to stay alone, and I feel that I am completely accustomed to a person's life, and I don't like people who disagree with me to disturb my life. ‍‍

Loneliness is a norm, but liking to be alone does not mean that you are lonely and introverted, it is more like an ability to learn to be alone with yourself, so that even if you are lonely, you will not let your heart feel helpless. ‍‍

Some of the post-90s generation are almost 30 years old, and they are no longer children, and they are becoming more and more stable.

The post-90s generation is a generation that advertises individuality, everyone's personality is very unique, and it is understandable that they like to be alone, but if they are alone for a long time, they will also feel very lonely.

I prefer to talk to myself than to say a sentence in three minutes hahaha. It's so easy to be alone, you can go out without makeup, you don't have to wear a bra, you can order a lot of takeout, and you don't have to worry about being sincere and not being treated well. ‍‍

I think it has nothing to do with age, it's still a reason for personality, or it is recommended that you participate in more physical activities, socialize, and slowly get better. ‍‍

Liking to be alone has nothing to do with you being a post-zero generation, which is the reason for the way you get along with each other.

Personality dictates, enjoy being alone and quietly waiting to think, do things, and don't like to be disturbed by the outside world.

Being alone allows a person to concentrate more on one thing. Just be happy.

I think it has something to do with personal personality, there is no such thing as the post-90s and post-80s, people who like to be quiet will want to have time alone.

Everyone's lifestyle is different, and being alone can make me easier and more enjoyable.

I think this has also become a habit, because the post-90s generation is almost the era when the one-child policy began, so most of the post-90s are only children, because of the reason of being an only child, so they have been alone since childhood, and they are used to the way of being alone, and it is more difficult to change.

There's nothing wrong with staying by yourself, it's a very confident and independent performance, being more tolerant of others, and not taking care of things. No one is perfect, we will inevitably make mistakes, and we need help from others at some point. Don't worry too much about small things, usually take the initiative to do more, eat some small losses that do not hurt your own interests, and also help yourself accumulate assets.

In fact, it's very good, most of the post-90s generation are only children, used to being alone, more often they don't know how to get along with others, and their tempers are relatively hard, they are very individual, and they feel that others don't understand. Therefore, it is more comfortable to be alone, without worrying about what others think.

I think it's good for me to be alone, which shows that the post-90s generation has their own interests and hobbies, and can do what they like to do outside of work. This way of being alone is their own way of life, and there is no need to be too entangled and blamed. In addition, maybe they will be a little withdrawn in terms of personality.

Whatever the reason, though, I feel like being alone is a way of life, and there's nothing to say.

It's not so much like it, it's better to get used to it, because most of our generation after the 90s are only children, and we didn't have brothers and sisters when we were young, and we were basically alone, so that when we grow up, we are more accustomed to being alone and like to have personal space. This is the background of the times is different, we are now more independent in our era, and love or anything is not necessary, so there are more people who like to be alone and single.

Because as our economy develops more and more, our material life is getting better and better, so our pursuit of the spiritual world is getting higher and higher, so the current post-90s generation hopes to have their own independent promotion space, they like to be alone, like to feel the charm of loneliness quietly, and find their own direction in solitude.

The impact on myself is still quite big.

I am a young man born in the 90s, and I find that I like to be alone at the same time, I always hold my mobile phone or sit in front of the computer every day, and I wear headphones when I eat or on the street, and I don't have the habit of communicating with others.

In fact, this kind of living situation does not belong to young people, living in a world of one person every day, I believe it will not be very happy, we should learn to share, learn to communicate, so that life will be more fulfilling, more satisfying.

Love. This thing.

Not really. You want to do it.

You can't do it. Not really.

You did. He or she can understand.

Or gladly accepted.

Like what. Morning, noon and evening, each pose a **.

Maybe. You'll find it annoying.

Right. Old man.

Let me tell you about my experience.

When I was in college.

I was in my classmate's dormitory.

Accidentally fell asleep.

Suddenly felt. Something pressed on his body.

Confused, I opened my eyes and looked.

It's a classmate.

Covered me with clothes.

That's it.

Then we became good friends.

Though. The relationship was also relatively good before.

They all attach great importance to each other.

So. Care about this thing.

It's best to have no regrets.

Silently giving.

Things don't have to be.

How great. Just cover a garment.

Maybe. Someday.

The other party felt it.

You care about him.

It is impossible to find a fan stove.

You can't deliberately hide it.

Or acting. Remember.

Don't be deliberate. That's it.

You yourself will be tired.

Maybe the other party will also find it annoying.

Just do it. Shh

It's okay to Sui Zen.

Got it?? Good luck, I am sincere and sincere, and I hope to get your affirmation.