What is the best way to get along with each other?

I'm eight years behind my brother and he's already working. He will tell me about the problems he encounters at work, and he will also tell me about everything he does in his daily life. I shared with him when I did the test, and he would comfort me to continue working hard.

My brother is the kind of person who will buy me clothes, shoes, all kinds of good food (to make me fat) and buy me counseling materials. I think it's good to care about each other, but it doesn't interfere too much.

Knowing each other and relying on each other without respecting each other is like a guest. If you get too close, you will be ambiguous, and if you go too far, you will be estranged. The ancients said that love is deep and long-lived, strong and humiliating, humble and gentleman, gentle as jade, this is what it means.

Brother and sister is a relationship, a kind of tolerance, a kind of love between brother and sister, a kind of mutual help between brother and sister, the brother should protect the sister, and the sister will not let the girl take advantage of the characteristics of the brother not to beat the girl to be bullied.

My sister is five years younger than me, and when I was a child, we loved and killed each other. On the bright side, in front of the elders, in front of outsiders, she is obedient to me, and she does her best, and once she is behind the scenes, I can be killed by her.

My brother is three years older than me, and he has really quarreled since he was a child. My brother told me on the day of his wedding that he was another woman, at that time I was very depressed, graduated that year, in the name of graduation travel to go out for a walk, after coming back everything is light, there is no so-called sour, this year my niece is 4 years old, I also got married.

At most, it's just like a sister, but psychologically it's absolutely different. It depends on the feelings of both parties, and if you want to be a brother and sister, you should pay attention to it, if both parties have feelings?。。

Family harmony, love for yourself and the people you love, close friends, satisfactory work (or successful career), life is like this, what more can you ask for? But hope is not always fully realized, and maintaining a good attitude is the most important thing. Today becomes a beautiful memory for tomorrow; Tomorrow, however, gives us courage; Happy, sneak into the night with the wind and moisten things silently!

I also have an older brother whom I recognize. Our relationship is really better than that of brother and sister.

I met this brother when I was at work, and he had a girlfriend at that time. He would call me to his house for dinner every time he paid or on weekends, and of course his sister-in-law was there. At first, the family said that he must have a purpose, otherwise why would he be good to you.

But I didn't downplay the relationship, and I still got along, so I didn't believe that he would have an intention on me. A year later, the family began to change, because they could see that he really had feelings for me as a sister.

Now not only the two of us, but even our adults also get along very well, every New Year's holiday or the birthday of the elderly of any family, will participate, when not both parents, we are naturally called each other's parents "Dad" and "Mom". My parents would go to his parents' house when they were fine. They are also called brothers.

I now introduce this to my friends that this is my brother, and knowing that I don't have an older brother, I will say that it is the son of the uncle's family.

Friends who know me say that I am lucky to have a real friend.

In life, you can often meet some people, they are not brothers and sisters, but a kind of brother and sister, so what kind of relationship mode should get along with each other is the best? I think it's best to get along with each other if you have the following characteristics. First of all, the brother-sister relationship between two people is not for a certain interest, or for a certain purpose, and the brother-sister relationship is formed in a situation where two people care for each other, respect and love each other, and the brother-sister relationship is the healthiest model in my opinion, and it is also the premise that I think to become a brother and sister, because not all people are like this, there are many people, she retains a certain amount of scheming, and it doesn't matter if she becomes a heart, this kind of relationship through means or with a certain purpose is unhealthy. It is also immature.

Secondly, I think two people should care for each other, but in terms of feelings, they support and encourage each other rather than disturb each other, there are many people who are not known and ambiguous with each other, so it brings a lot of pressure to the other half in time, and they feel unrelieved and insecure.

This is a phenomenon that we often encounter in daily life, there are many people in the name of brother and sister, but do more than brother and sister should do, and gradually lack patience with their other half, and then be as loyal to their other half as before, I think this is a lack of responsibility, and half-heartedness is a manifestation of a lack of responsibility. <>

I think everyone will have their own different emotions about the brothers and sisters they recognize, so they will have their own different ways of understanding this issue, and everyone's understanding is based on a certain foundation, so from my personal point of view, the above point of view is what I think is the most suitable mode of getting along between the two little beauties, and the characteristics that should have it, may be different from other people's views, but this grade point.

It should also exist.

It should be a mode of mutual respect, tolerance and understanding.

1.Respect each other. In getting along with each other, the most important thing is respect, you only respect others, then others will respect you, when your brother and sister do something, first of all, you have to respect their practices, even if they do not do well, then you should also respect them, so that they will feel your importance, will choose to respect you when you encounter things, so in getting along with brothers and sisters, respect is particularly important.

2.Be tolerant of each other. In the process of growing up, it is inevitable that there will be a lot of conflicts between brothers and sisters, when we encounter contradictions, we must learn to tolerate each other, so that you will be more attentive to each other, if you encounter problems and you do not tolerate each other, you will quarrel.

This affects the relationship between siblings very much, so we have to learn to maintain it, only in this way will the relationship between siblings be long-lasting, and we can help each other when we encounter difficulties. 

3. Understand each other. The most important thing in getting along with people is understanding, and only when you understand others, then you will tolerate the faults of others. If you can't understand, then you will be estranged from each other, and there will be quarrels when it is serious, everyone thinks differently and does things differently, when the other party does not do as you want, you have to learn to understand, so that your relationship will become more long-lasting, which is also the best way to maintain the relationship between brothers and sisters.

Everyone has their own brothers and sisters, only if we know how to maintain this family relationship, then we will become happier and happier in the process of growing up, and will understand the value of family affection.

How siblings should get along with each other.

Social life is diverse.

Concern. The relationship between siblings is a legacy of the extended family era, and it is still a relatively common problem today. Especially after the siblings have established their own families, how they still don't know how to get along, and don't use some small skills and arts, it will inevitably affect the harmony of the family.

There are about a few factors that make us not get along with siblings:

One is to think only about small families. Only pay attention to your own small family and abandon everyone. In the hearts of some people, the small family is the most important and the core of life.

Large families are loose and sometimes negligible. Since there has been a gap between the rich and the poor, it is inevitable that there will be a gap between the rich and the poor in small families. Each has its own life orientation, its own life goals, and its own pursuits, and everything is more light, of course, including family affection.

In the big family, especially on the issue of parental support, the first thing that comes to mind is not the issue of parental support, but the first thing that comes to mind is to lay a good foundation for oneself.

The second is not listening to the opinions of others. In fact, siblings must establish an equal relationship after they have started a family. It is mainly manifested in daily interactions, words and deeds.

When the elder brother becomes the elder sister, he adopts an arrogant attitude towards the younger siblings who can no longer have the legacy of the era of the big family; Younger siblings should also respect their older brothers and sisters, and be able to take the initiative and be humble. And some people tend to only think about their own ideas, never take other people's ideas into account, especially when discussing family affairs, which will give others a sense of oppression, or to put it bluntly, they don't know how to respect others and are self-centered.

The third is to only pay attention to interests and not family affection. Regardless of blood connection, relatives are distant and close, only take interests as the starting point. Whoever is helpful to me, I will kiss him; Whoever can help me financially, I will be close to him.

The unspoken rules of social communication are applied to brothers and sisters, and they only pay attention to ushering in and sending, and do not care about actual needs. Ignoring the priorities of the things encountered by his brothers and sisters, he only holds on to the purpose that has nothing to do with him and has nothing to do with him, and ignores everything else. To put it mildly, it is "if you have milk, you are a mother".

Through a few incidents, other siblings will be sad, which will also affect the family relationship between each other.

Fourth, never consider the situation of others. While considering some of your own needs, you should examine and analyze their rationality and feasibility from multiple angles, rather than just doing what you want, let alone imposing your will on others. On the premise of understanding the current situation of society, understanding others, and understanding oneself, we should handle the relationship with our brothers and sisters in line with the principles of calmness, mutual care, mutual respect, courtesy, and communication, and there will not be so many things that make relatives painful.

Fifth, too much consideration of personal gains and losses. I just want to give back and don't want to give. With mutual comparison, there is a deformed mentality. When encountering good things, regardless of the ins and outs, regardless of it.

1. Know how to be generous, the so-called generosity, one must be tolerant, and the other is to be kind. No.

Don't listen to words that go against your ears, don't see things that go against your own, and don't listen to the words of others. Since.

They are brothers and sisters, so even if there is something wrong with them, they should be lenient with them. Sibling.

There is no need to engage in any competition and comparison, let alone any jealousy and sowing discord.

Dealing with siblings will inevitably involve material interests. When it comes to brother.

In matters of money and material affairs between younger siblings, appropriate modesty is made in order to promote the relationship between siblings.

The unity of the upper is worthy of the elders, and the lower is worthy of the younger generations.

2 Loving brothers and sisters should be unconditional.

What is not expected to be reciprocated is not only the support of material interests, but also the communication of spiritual and emotional feelings.

For this kind of love, it is necessary to appreciate it. In particular, we must have the courage to accept criticism and accusations for the purpose of love.

3 Pay attention to tactfulness, some people think that since brothers and sisters don't need to be so unfamiliar and polite, then you can think.

Say whatever you want. However, the so-called "the speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart" lacks tactful words.

Words are often difficult for people to accept, and hurt the self-esteem of others, thus branding family relationships.

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4 This requires us to pay attention to ways and means when we speak to our brothers and sisters, even if it is for education. Only tactful expressions can better reflect respect.

The best way to get along with brothers and sisters is not to argue, not to pay too much attention to interests, and to pay attention to family affection!

Because you are relatives, there is only your relationship in this world, the closest, it is possible that you grew up together, so this kind of family affection is difficult to measure with material, but do not affect this relationship because of disputes over material interests, because in real life, we often see such a situation happening, some people for the house or inheritance, and finally die of old age and do not get along, so I think this is not a good way to get along!

Brothers and sisters must communicate with each other, communicate with each other, and don't worry about trivial things, so brothers and sisters should move around often and help each other when they encounter difficulties, which is the best way to get along!

The best way to get along between brothers and sisters is not to compare themselves with each other, to play together, to play together, not to play together, not to play together, not to kidnap each other with family affection, not to kidnap brothers and sisters with morality, it is not your own choice, but God's choice, you do not have the ability to choose who to be your brother and sister, because this is something that cannot be chosen, but we can choose to use the appropriate way to get along with sisters and brothers, such as respecting each other and loving each other, Don't make comparisons, don't make small reports.

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1. Brothers and sisters are a family, as the saying goes, when you encounter difficulties, in fact, it is your parents and brothers and sisters who help you the most, among which your brothers and sisters accompany you the longest, and they have always relied on each other when they are old and older.

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Clause. Second, the conflict between brothers and sisters is inevitable, this is a thing we should know when we get along with brothers and sisters, because we have established a family with each other, it is inevitable that there are some problems that need to be communicated, but we must deal with these things reasonably, [harmony is precious] is the main principle of brothers and sisters to deal with things.

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Clause. 3. When we get along with our brothers and sisters, we should take more care of them and give them more care, especially when our brothers and sisters are in trouble, we should actively help them, so that the relationship between brothers and sisters will be very harmonious.

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Clause. Fourth, brothers and sisters should communicate with each other frequently, no matter what kind of things, they must consult with each other, whether it is to take care of their parents, or the collective interests of the whole family, everyone should understand and tolerate each other, brothers and sisters understand each other is an important part of family stability.

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Clause. Sixth, we must understand that the relationship between our brothers and sisters is an irreplaceable family relationship in any interpersonal relationship, and it is also a kind of blood relationship that is constantly severed, so we must maintain this relationship, so that we can make our big family prosperous.

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Clause. 7. Brothers and sisters have a blood relationship, so they must remember this relationship with each other, so that they can get along in harmony, and at the same time, as brothers, they must love their younger brothers, and respect their brothers as brothers.

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