My boyfriend and I go to work together, and he hasn t contacted me for two days since he came home,

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, girls in love always have such and such uncertain thoughts, which is also normal, after all, the relationship between couples is also like crossing the river by feeling the stones, if you feel uneasy, you can take the initiative to contact him, maybe your boyfriend has been really busy recently, you play ** in the past, it's actually nothing, just relax, there are more suspicions in love, but it is easy to change, just get along with each other.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Curiosity kills the cat, love him means understanding him, maybe he is really busy, maybe he doesn't have you in his heart at all. Either way, don't act rashly and think twice before making a decision, otherwise it will hurt your feelings or hurt yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Are you suspicious of him? You can contact him, maybe he didn't contact you when he was busy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Most of the girls are reserved and passive, and they hope that the boys will take the initiative to contact them. I feel that I have taken the initiative, as if I am lowering my body, afraid that the boy will not cherish it.

    But in your case, you can call him and ask him how he is. Feelings will not always be taken by one party, you are waiting for your boyfriend to hit ** at the same time maybe your boyfriend is also expecting you to take the initiative.

    He will always feel tired if he takes the initiative, and the boy will also be suspicious and unsure if you are interested in him.

    It's also possible that you have spent too many days together day and night, and it is rare to be separated, and your boyfriend feels that he has his own time and space. Sometimes distance produces beauty.

    But I think he's out, and it's right for you, as a girlfriend, to ask him if he's arrived safely, which is the minimum amount of care. By the way, wouldn't it be nice to know about his movements? Both of them are holding back, which is not good for the relationship.

    Feelings are originally a push-pull race between men and women, don't be too sticky, and don't be too indifferent.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's normal.

    Because my boyfriend went back to my hometown. There must be a lot of relatives and friends in my hometown. He's told you all, he's playing with his friends.

    They haven't seen each other for so long, so there must be a lot to say. Definitely drinking and chatting together. It's human nature.

    You don't have to worry too much. You have to believe in Him.

    In addition to friends, he also has to catch up and chat with relatives at home. Didn't get in touch with you in a timely manner. Hope you can understand him.

    It is often said that a long absence is better than a new love. When he leaves for a while and comes back to you, you will have a very beautiful experience that you have not seen for a long time, and you miss it very much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This situation is very, very normal. Because he suddenly returned to his hometown, he may need to go to many friends' houses and relatives' houses to meet some people and some people for dinner.

    So I didn't talk to you for a while, it's really normal, he has too many things to deal with when he comes home.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal, it's understandable to be so busy a day or two before you go back, as long as he can contact you within a day, but it's not normal if it's like this for a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's normal, when you go back to your hometown to get friends and relatives together, he must be very busy, you understand him more, try not to disturb him with anything, let him feel that you are a reasonable girl, and when he has time, he will take the initiative to contact you, I wish you happiness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Personally, I think it's very normal. Because it may be a long time before your boyfriend can go back to his hometown once. When I return to my hometown, I will visit relatives and friends.

    Get together with friends and family. Talk to your own family. It's going to be a little busy, and there's no time.

    I've been chatting with you a lot. I think you should understand him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's normal to do this, when he goes back, he will definitely get together with his friends in his hometown, go out to play together, then eat, reminisce about some good times together, and then be busy for a day, if you want him, you can give him a **, two people still need basic trust together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's still relatively normal. There are many friends when I go back to my hometown, and it is normal not to see each other for a long time, and most people will be like this. The boyfriend should be given a certain amount of space and freedom.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    My boyfriend has returned to his hometown, and he hasn't talked to you much for a day, he said that he is a little busy, and it is normal to play with friends, and he will definitely go back to his hometown to play with friends and relatives who have not seen each other for a long time, or chat, you don't want to be cranky.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal, it's rare to go back to your hometown once, there must be a lot of things to do, there are a lot of friends to meet once, you can completely understand, give him some space to arrange freely, the two of you have been together for a long time, and you don't care about a day and a half, and the two of them should understand and trust each other when they fall in love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When my boyfriend goes back to his hometown, he naturally wants to party with a group of friends, and he has already told you that "today is a little busy". So I think it's normal for your boyfriend to not talk to you much throughout the day!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Well, it's also possible that because he went back to his hometown, his friends also want to see him, his family is also busy, and his relatives have to talk, and it's normal to be a little busy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If your boyfriend goes back to his hometown, if he doesn't contact him all day, he must be busy, and when he goes back to his hometown, there are a lot of things to do, and there are many relatives and friends to go for a walk to contact him, maybe your situation is quite normal.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It should be normal, because I don't usually go home much, and I must be very busy when I go home occasionally, you don't blame him, there is something to do when I go home, so I am very busy Personal opinion for reference.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This is also very normal, after he returns to his hometown, because he has not been with the hair children for a long time, he will definitely eat and drink with them, and you don't have to worry too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There's nothing abnormal about this, there must be a lot of buddies who want to drink when you go back to your hometown, you have to see relatives chatting, etc., these may be facts, but they may not be facts. And you shouldn't ask him to talk to you every moment of the day, right? To keep him on a leash, you should focus on improving your abilities and qualities.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend hasn't spoken to you for a day when he goes back to his hometown, he said he's a little busy, playing with friends, I think it's normal to be like this, after all, when you go home, many relatives and friends need to move around.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe it's because I finally went back to my hometown, I have family to accompany and friends to meet, and I have a lot of trivial things to be busy, which is also normal.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think if the matter of going back to your hometown didn't lie to you, then there should be no problem, after all, it's rare to go back, and everyone will get together with their former friends.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    First, I don't love you anymore, so I don't want to see you.

    Second, I am busy with work and have no time to see you.

    Third, there is a third party, and there is no time to see you.

    Fourth, I want to break up, so I'm struggling with whether to see you?

    What do you think?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    There will be many reasons for this: it is possible that your boyfriend is busy during this time, so busy that he has no time to meet, and of course he has no time to make ** or a micro message [Do you believe it?] 】;Maybe you're running out of novelty for him, and he's busy currying favor with ...... new target

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is the test, you will know after a long time, and he will know whether to see you after a long time.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1. It is inconvenient for parents to be at home

    Many people don't let their parents know when they first fall in love, because they feel that the relationship is not very stable, and they don't want to develop in the direction of marriage, so they won't tell their parents at this time. So if your boyfriend lives with his parents, it will be a little convenient to call, so he rarely calls you.

    2. There are other people in the family

    If your boyfriend doesn't live with your parents but rarely contacts you when he comes home, then it's likely that there are other women in the family, so you need to find out if your boyfriend is single or not. If you are single, it is impossible not to contact you when you get home, so it is very likely that he is either married or has other girlfriends at home, which is a worse situation, so you should pay more attention.

    3. When you go home, you play games with your brother

    Many boys' entertainment is to play games, and when they get home, they start to play with their good brothers, and then they don't care about anything as soon as they play, so naturally they don't have time to play ** for you. It's understandable that a situation like this is, after all, everyone has to have a way to relax, so there's no need to be too tight, as long as it doesn't affect the relationship between you. Although he doesn't give you a **, but if you hit the arc, he will definitely pick it up, then there is no problem.

    Conclusion:

    In short, in addition to the above 3 points, there may be other reasons, then this requires you to observe and understand yourself, if you find that the results are not good, then you should also accept it, after all, many times a relationship is not controllable, don't be sad when you meet a scumbag, hurry up and come out, the next relationship may be better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Summary. Hello dear! Together for half a year, did he tell you about the situation at home? Did I say anything about marrying you?

    I haven't taken my boyfriend home to see my parents for more than half a year.

    Hello dear! Together for half a year, did he tell you about the situation at home? Did I say anything about marrying you?

    If he hasn't told you about his family for more than half a year, then you have to pay attention to his family background.

    Men and women who fall in love who don't want to bring their girlfriend home to their parents to see, unless he has other secrets.

    Said, because he was divorced, the house was awarded to his ex-wife, and now he has nothing, and now may not be the time to take me back?

    That's probably why.

    He also made it clear to you about his affairs, which means that he still cares about you, and it is not appropriate for him to take you back in this case, so be patient.

    Maybe I'm too anxious, whether I think more about the second marriage.

    Of course, how can he also think about you, since he has nothing, he will take you back, if he promises to give you happiness.

    But I'm also afraid that after a few years of falling in love, I will break up again and waste my youth.

    So, you have to sit down and have a good talk.

    It's even worse to drag it out like this.

    If you feel that you don't have a future for each other, then say it early.

Related questions
30 answers2024-05-26

Girl, to be strict: he's having an extramarital affair, and you're now kidnapped as a third party. I listen to the economic radio "Ip Man has something to say" every day, there is no good ending in this situation, don't listen to him say: >>>More

11 answers2024-05-26

In fact, you are used to arguing, and when everyone quarrels, they don't want to let each other be conscious. It's really bad like this, it hurts your feelings, and after a long time, you don't care about each other, and if you don't consider each other's feelings, there will be problems. My suggestion is that you can really find a good opportunity, calmly and in line with the attitude of being responsible for love, open your hearts and have a good talk, and make three chapters of the law with each other, although you are already engaged, don't rush to get married, try to be together for a while first, and decide whether to get married according to the time situation. >>>More

23 answers2024-05-26

Two broken hearts can no longer go back to the past.

What kind of mistake did you make? Would you use the word forgiveness? Why is there any trouble? >>>More

30 answers2024-05-26

Are you surprised that you can't speak.

That's right, I mean you want to break up. >>>More

23 answers2024-05-26

Hold on. I'm sticking with you. Have time to take him to meet your parents. >>>More