Why do so many men have the courage to boldly pursue girls?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    That's because you haven't met the person who makes you hug each other all your life, and when you meet, you will know that feeling, in fact, there is no difference between men and women, as long as the two feel good, pay for each other regardless of the return, then it is your other half, meet, choose to chase, nothing, hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Are you useless, damn it, will this society still let the weak? Reflect on it and punish you for thinking about it behind closed doors for 77 49 days without food or drink

    Hey,,, I've had a crush for more than ten years, I've been thinking about it for more than ten years, I've been in love for more than ten years, and I've been working hard for more than ten years, but because I haven't confessed, this woman you love the most in your heart In the end, I became someone else's pillow Don't you say this is the biggest regret in your life? Big brother, you have to take action, or how will people know that you are interesting to her, right?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Be a man, be more confident, in fact, it doesn't matter if you are handsome or not, the important thing is that you can speak well, and remember not to look at beautiful girls too noblely, then you will have no courage to chase. As long as the other party is still single or will not hate you to the bone, your chances are still great

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The status is equal, you are too timid to pull, what's so great about women? What's so scary about chasing women? and do not break the law, how bold and prolific a person is, if you don't chase it, you will never have a chance.

    You're too conservative and pull the same as when I was in high school, be bold, beautiful women are coming, brother is a role model, learn from brother :)

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are introverted, in fact, you have no experience, and after a first time, you know what to do. It's best to try it for yourself, it's normal to fail the first time, and the key people have to take the first step.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Actually, don't look at them very brave, maybe they are just like you in their hearts You can also try it, maybe, in the future, someone will see your actions and think you are very brave And then he will also ask the same question as you when he knows it, hahaha

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because they have experienced failure and are not afraid to fail again, and you are afraid of failure!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really meet someone you like, you won't think about it so much, and you think so much because you haven't met someone you really like.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Equal pull, of course. But it's not necessarily after being together...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The cheeks should be invulnerable

    The girl doesn't say it on the surface, but she doesn't know how much she wants to tell you: love her!!

    Women can pretend to be pure on the surface

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Women can also chase men.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In my opinion,It is a very normal phenomenon for girls to take the initiative to pursue boys, this is because both boys and girls have the right to actively pursue feelings, so when girls find a boy they like, they take the initiative to pursue each other without any problems。Besides, the behavior of a girl who actively pursues a boy can easily leave a good impression.

    1. There is nothing wrong with the girl's active pursuit of the boy

    To be honest, in today's society, many girls no longer choose to wait, but will take the initiative to pursue a relationship of their own when they find a boy they like. So in this regard, it is very normal for girls to actively pursue boys. And from the perspective of behavior, the bold pursuit of love by girls can not only firmly grasp the right to pursue love in their own hands, but also not easily let themselves miss the right person

    What's more, in the case that both parties already have a good impression of each other but have some gains and losses for each other, if the girl can take the initiative to take a step forward, she can also pierce the last layer of window paper in this relationship, so that the two people who are already together will not miss it easily. It can be seen that when girls find a boy they like, there is nothing wrong with their active pursuit of each other.

    Second, the behavior of girls actively pursuing boys is easy to leave a good impression on people

    From the perspective of a bystander, it is easy for a girl to actively pursue a boy. The reason for this is partly because this attitude would have been appreciated by many people, and partly because it is bold and easy to make a very good impression. That is to say, when people see a girl who dares to take the initiative to pursue love, they will think that this behavior of the girl is a very brave behavior, and the evaluation of the girl in their hearts will become higher.

    It can be said that it is very normal for girls to actively pursue boys, and there is nothing wrong with this behavior.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I think it's normal, it's very good, whether it's a boy or a girl, as long as you meet something you like, you should take the initiative to pursue it, otherwise it's easy to leave yourself with regrets.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can understand that this current society is particularly open, and girls have the right to pursue their own love.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because girls have a better face, are particularly introverted, are particularly shy, and like to be reserved, and are particularly sensual, they need boys to take the first step bravely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Boys themselves are more generous and brave, so they should be more courageous, and the success rate is relatively high.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think that in the pursuit of girls, boys must have enough courage to be able to chase the girl they like.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because girls generally don't like to take the initiative, only boys can pursue girls if they are braver.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because love requires investment of enthusiasm and effort, and after investment, it may not be able to slip the bridge in return, and even be hurt by love in turn. In a loving relationship, it is not all about happiness, and it is also necessary to take on a lot of responsibilities, and there will be all kinds of unforeseen difficulties. In Western-style weddings, this is what the priest means when he asks both parties.

    Love is so hard, and even when it comes together, it will encounter all kinds of sudden challenges in the long daily life. Therefore, many people dare not love because of low self-esteem or selfishness, they feel that they have no merits and cannot bear the responsibility of love, so they dare not establish a loving relationship with anyone, let alone get involved in the guarantee of love.

    It takes a lot of courage to love a person, this sentence is true, even if you love someone, you must tolerate and prefer to understand more and help, this is true, because no one can be 100% excellent, there will always be some small shortcomings, and at this time you must try to understand and tolerate, of course, the shortcomings must be corrected, then you must help him get rid of his shortcomings, so as to like each other more.

    When any girl is being chased, her psychology is very complicated. She may be happy, but with a little trepidation, she has an ambivalence about this boy who has broken into her peaceful life, she doesn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, and she's afraid of getting hurt.

    Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away. If your initial confession is rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what's going on in this girl's mind?

    Maybe if you confess it twice, she will be moved by you, a good girl with a good heart is very easy to touch.

    You may make a lot of sacrifices in a relationship, for example, if you are in a long-distance relationship, in order to choose to be together, you may choose to give up your stable life and job to start over in the other party's city, which requires a lot of courage, and for example, if you have a child, someone will have to give up your own open career, which also requires a lot of courage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's the kind of expectation that boys have for girls, so he also needs to take the initiative, that's it.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maybe Chun Rang is because he is too inferior, he is relatively timid, he doesn't dare to pursue the other party, he feels that he is not worthy of the other party, and he feels that he is not capable enough, so he will not be brave enough to pursue girls.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Because girls like brave boys, I think brave boys are particularly responsible and responsible.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Because girls are more emotional, more inward-looking, more reserved, and thinner-faced, Tsai Changlu said that boys need to take this step bravely and dare to pursue girls.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It depends on whether you are interested in chasing that woman for you, if not, choose the latter, after all, others have been waiting for you for so long, and the consolation prize is also to be sleepy and give a Zen, right? Try to get along with the latter.,It's not suitable to be separated again.。。

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A girl in love who takes the initiative will not make all boys excited, because every boy has his own preferences and ideas. However, girls take the initiative to play a very important role in romantic relationships.

    Here are some of the reasons why a guy might be tempted:

    1.Embody feminine charm and confidence. Women's initiative is more likely to show their charm and confidence, which may attract guys.

    2.Reduce the embarrassment of boys' silence. In love, boys may not dare to express their emotions for various reasons, and the initiative of girls can improve the comfort of boys.

    3.Make the love process more interesting. If a girl is too passive, it may lead to a monotonous and boring love process, while a girl's initiative can make the relationship more interesting.

    4.Show love. Girls taking the initiative can make boys feel their love, so that boys will respond more passively to girls' emotions.

    This statement does not necessarily apply to all situations.

    1.Both men and women should take the initiative to express their emotions and thoughts in a relationship in order to build a healthy and stable relationship. Whether you are a boy or a girl, you need to learn to take the initiative to communicate, approach each other, and express your love and concern.

    2.Boys may have difficulty expressing their emotions because of shyness, low self-esteem, fear, or other reasons. At this time, the girl taking the initiative may make the boy more receptive and tempting.

    However, there are also some guys who may not like girls to be too proactive, and they prefer to maintain their own rights and dominance.

    3.Therefore, we cannot generalize, but need to consider it on a case-by-case basis. In a relationship, both men and women should express their emotions and thoughts equally, respect and understand each other's needs and feelings, in order to create a beautiful love experience together.

    4.Girls take the initiative and need to pay attention to the way and to what extent. Being overly active can be stressful for boys, so you should show your initiative appropriately according to your boy's thoughts and feelings.

    At the same time, it is also necessary to follow the principle of respecting the other party and not to cross the other party's bottom line.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    For girls, their opposite-sex attraction or charm has two aspects: external and internal, and the external is also the most intuitive, and it is easy to find out whether the external influence is love at first sight, and whether the internal influence is long-term love. So I don't dare to chase it, and the destruction shows that the inner charm does not have the boys to take the initiative to pursue.

    For boys, when confirming that they like a girl, the conditions they often pursue are self-confidence and timing, after all, there are a few beautiful girls, and there are a few handsome boys after all. Or many boys are waiting for the opportunity, waiting for others to pursue the result, and then through others to measure whether their comprehensive situation has the ability to pursue success.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are several reasons why you don't dare to pursue the girl you like:

    First, they are not confident enough in themselves and are afraid of being rejected.

    Second, there is not enough meridian Qi Jiji to bring cherry blossoms, afraid that he will not be able to give each other happiness.

    Third, the disparity in fortune and status is too great, and I feel unattainable and dare not pursue it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think there are many reasons behind this, one of which is that the woman is too demanding and can't do it herself. I don't think I have enough financial means to make the girl happy. There is also the fact that there are often sky-high bride prices in some places on the Internet, which will only set off people's comparison psychology, and will compare who gives more bride price and who gives less.

    This invisibly put a huge psychological pressure on the boy. You may want to get married, and you need to run to ask your family to borrow money to make up the bride priceThis makes many boys think that they will simply not go to girls and make friends in the future.

    Another aspect is that the boy himself has always been a very independent person, thinking that he can live well alone. There are also some boysI usually have a good relationship with girls.,It's a good time.,So I can't bear to destroy these friendships.。

    There are still many people who think that today's girls are too materialistic and the cost of falling in love is too high. When you fall in love, you want this and that, and many times you are blindly pursuing enjoymentSome boys feel that their charm has not reached that heightSo I don't have much confidence in myself. Much of this is because of this inferiority complex.

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