When do you feel inferior because of money? Do you feel inferior because you are poor?

Every time I was put in the spotlight and compared to everyone during the Chinese New Year, I felt a little inferior because of the money.

Everyone has their own life, and in the process of growing up, the living conditions will be different due to different abilities. We don't feel anything in our daily lives, but when we compare ourselves to others, the lack of money always makes people feel uncertain.

Harm always arises in comparison, and there may be no harm without comparison. In our daily life, our family lives quite independently, we don't have much contact with family and friends, and we only occasionally have dinner with a few friends. Most of my friends are people in the same circle, and their living conditions are similar, and there will be no situation where anyone looks down on whom.

However, I will always occasionally involve other life circles in my life, and when I compare with others, I always feel that my income has been completely destroyed by others, and my living situation is much worse than others.

I don't know if it's just their braggadocio or their real lives, but every time I listen to someone talk about these topics, I always feel like I've been hit with a hundred thousand points inside me.

Every time I compare my life with my family and friends during the Chinese New Year, I always feel inferior because of money. We don't have much contact with all our relatives in our daily lives, but we always get together every year during the Chinese New Year. At such moments, everyone likes to talk about what they have gained during the year, and I, as an observer, always feel depressed inside.

Some people my age have already bought two houses on their own, some people who are slightly younger than me have bought a good car, and some elders are always talking about how much they make a year, and I can only look at all this.

I really don't know what to say, after all, I can't afford to buy a house or a car, I don't have any savings, and my salary is not very high. Every time someone asks me, I feel embarrassed and have some low self-esteem in my heart.

I think this is the low self-esteem that comes from lack of money, and I know that this mentality is not good, but I always can't help but think about it.

Everyone's life doesn't have much to do with it, but when you start comparing yourself to others, the hurt will always come unconsciously. We always think that other people's lives are the best, but everyone has their own troubles in life.

We don't need to envy other people's lives, as long as we can be happy.

When I was sick, it was because of this time. If you feel that you don't have money to see a doctor, you have a special low self-esteem. The impact was also huge, and it was a big blow to me.

1.When I have graduated from college and still can't find a job and have to bow down to my parents to borrow money, I feel inferior to my money.

2.When I really want to buy something but have to give it up because of the balance on my bank card, I feel inferior for money.

When I walked into the mall, walked into the specialty store, and took a look at the ** I liked very much but couldn't have it. When I walked into the crowd and was watched by others that I was not dressed in high fashion.

When you can't afford to buy your favorite things because they're too expensive, even if you have the ability to buy them, it costs half a month's living expenses, and you can't buy them in the end, so it's better to live a good life.

When my friends used 10,000 yuan for iPhones and 20,000 yuan for computers, I felt that I just had no money and had a slight inferiority complex.

Seeing someone else buy a car in life is the same as buying a piece of clothing for yourself, and you will feel this way.

Yesterday I had a barbecue with my favorite girl last night, and when I paid the bill, I found that I ate 120 yuan, but I only had 93 yuan left in my Yue Bao.

Money can buy more material comforts, but it can't ** inner inferiority complex. Inferiority complex is a profound psychological experience, which arises due to underestimation of oneself and lack of self-identity. It can be triggered by a variety of factors, such as family environment, learning failures, rejection, failures, etc., and sometimes even experiences that appear in childhood can affect one's inferiority complex.

Whatever the reason, low self-esteem is a negative emotion, and it is necessary to have the right mindset to overcome it.

Money may bring material comfort, but it can't inferiority complex. It can fulfill some needs that you can control, like buying a new outfit, but it can't meet your innermost needs, such as gaining the approval and confidence of others. When your inferiority complex becomes stronger, simple material conditions no longer seem to be able to change your mentality, and even make you feel that you are almost useless, and your inferiority complex will become even stronger.

The first step in overcoming low self-esteem is to acknowledge the negative emotions you have and find ways to overcome them. Low self-esteem is essentially caused by low self-esteem and low self-confidence, so the most important thing to overcome is to improve self-confidence and self-esteem and establish a correct sense of self-identity. Secondly, you can try to change your own perception and use your failures and shortcomings as an opportunity to learn, so as to enhance your self-confidence.

In addition, you can also insist on participating in some activities, such as gaining self-confidence by joining clubs or participating in competitions, or communicating with different people to improve your abilities, so as to change your inferiority complex.

Therefore, money can not ** the inferiority complex in the heart, only by working hard to improve self-confidence, establish a correct sense of self-identity, can effectively overcome the inferiority complex.

No, because I feel that even though I am poor, there is nothing in my life that I cannot go on. I feel like I'll aspire to a more refined and affluent life, but I won't feel inferior because I'm poor.

First, I don't think it's easy to define poverty.

I think that no matter what stage you are in, you will feel poor because there are always people who are richer than you. For example, in the beginning, I had to rent a house, and I would think that those who own their own houses are rich. Later, I bought my own small house of a few dozen square meters, but I still envy those who own a house of several hundred square meters.

Everyone will be dissatisfied, but in fact, the gap between rich and poor only changes the quality of life.

Second, we must know contentment.

In fact, no matter whether you are poor or rich, as long as you live a full life, the people you love love you, and there will be no things that make you unbearable in daily life, then there is no need to feel inferior, right? We must know how to learn to be content, of course, this does not mean that we have no ideals and ambitions, but when we are pursuing our own ideals and pursuing a higher level of life, do not complain about ourselves who are now struggling at the bottom, and do not feel that because we are poorer than others and do not earn more than others, we feel sorry for ourselves. As the wedding vows say, whether you are rich or poor, you are willing to go down with her.

Although there is no money, it is absolutely impossible, but money is not omnipotent, don't let money dominate your life, don't let poverty disturb your thoughts. Learn to be content, learn to use the money you have to give yourself a satisfactory life.

Third, as a poor college student, I have never felt inferior.

I really haven't felt inferior because of poverty, although I also envy those who make money every day, although I also yearn for that kind of life. But now it is also very important to live my life in a down-to-earth manner, and I can still fight and break through in the future, so I can't be inferior because of poverty now, because I know that my future life is still very long, and I will continue to work hard.

The answer is yes for most people, it's just that the scenario in which you get this feeling is different, but the reason behind it is because there is no money!

For example, someone drives a car for 200,000 yuan, but you can only get 11 routes; Others can travel as soon as they have time, travel all over the world, and you have never been out of that small county town for 10 years; When someone else buys new clothes, but you can't afford to sell them; When a girl you like has a birthday, someone else gives her a gift with a very noble personality, but you can't afford a decent gift.

These scenes may have a recognition that it is just envy ......, but why envy it? Some people may say that it is good not to compare, and it is good to live according to their own strength, but these words are self-deception.

If you don't have a reference object, how do you know how high and big your level and ability are?

But inferiority is not a bad thing, any emotion or I have two sides, inferiority is not a big and slump, because inferiority knows its own shortcomings, so that wine can generate motivation to think and work hard, only then can it be possible to go up.

Beautiful things are only possible after yearning, so dreams still have to be had, what if they come true?

No, it's completely irrelevant! If you feel inferior, it should be that you are not good enough! Just let yourself grow, integrate into the excellent environment, and change yourself.

When I first stepped into the city, I just felt that everyone in the city was working every day, and they were all very good. But after more contact and broadening my mind, I found the reason in myself! That kind of repression may be what you call mild inferiority.

Let go of your thoughts, don't sink into it, the environment will infect people, if you have been maintaining a depressed mentality, after a long time, you will be grumpy and impatient, but there is also a good side, he will make you realize the gap between yourself and others, and strive to improve yourself, so that you can become excellent!

Instead of being inferior and depraved, it is better to let yourself grow! The environment is just a part of life, you can't just be in one city, one corner in your life, and never move around! From parks to commercial buildings, to schools, supermarkets ......The environment should be different in every place!

Why don't those people feel inferior, but you want to say that you have inferiority, in some ways, everyone has inferiority, everyone will have inferiority, just the difference between mild and severe, inferiority is not terrible, what is terrible is that in an environment that is originally active and hardworking, because of your negative emotions and affect the work of others, what is terrible is that you do not recognize the reason for your inferiority, and you meet someone and say it once! Just like a person, if he is injured, he still doesn't go, and he says that every time he meets someone, he uncovers his scars, shows off to others, or meets everyone, he will uncover his scars once, tell others that he is injured, but never go **! You say, right!

Everyone is the same at the moment of birth, and it is also the same in the beginning of growth and development, and it is not the environment that changes our destiny, but ourselves. "When you think of yourself as a poor person, then you are poor at that moment – poverty of thought, poverty of knowledge, poverty of life experience, and so on. "There's no need to have low self-esteem at all, if you don't feel good enough, try to grow yourself!

Get in touch with some new areas, touch on some fresh knowledge, and prepare yourself for counterattack! No one is born rich, everyone has roughly the same starting point, and what determines the trajectory of life is nothing more than the constraints of external and internal factors. The external is the environment, we can't change the external environment, we can only meet and touch it; But intrinsic factors allow us to decide; Maintain the confidence to move forward at all times, and never back down the courage, you will definitely be able to get the resources you need, and what limits people's growth is only the mentality of "resting on your laurels"!

So it's enough to relax yourself, keep yourself in an "empty cup mentality" without inferiority, arrogance, and take your life seriously!

1. Hahaha, this is different from person to person, if you particularly like to compare, you will definitely be silent about your family background, but as a personal experience, I can see it quite openly, the family background is the result of the efforts of parents in the final analysis, and, how to live, is the result of their own efforts, in school often joke with classmates "how our village, how our countryside is .......""2. No one cares about your family background, whether you are a classmate or a colleague, everyone just values you as a person, whether you are suitable to be a friend.

3. Maybe due to my age, I went all the way to graduate school, and most of my classmates around me were from ordinary families, and there were many in the countryside, and everyone was very open-minded, and often laughed at each other, "How do we ...... in the countryside?"”

Of course, there are classmates with good family backgrounds, but that kind of people will naturally keep a distance from you and will not get very close, so there will probably be a circle of classification, in the final analysis, it will still come together with people whose family background is not particularly different. For example, if you have 5 suites at home and drive a luxury car, this kind of person will naturally stay away from you, and no one around you will care. Therefore, there is no need for inferiority.

Money may be able to alleviate the inferiority complex to a certain extent, but it is difficult to completely ** because there are so many problems involved. If you want to overcome low self-esteem, you need to understand yourself correctly, attribute it correctly, change it from the environment, and change it from your behavior.

1.Know yourself correctly, take a moment to understand yourself in a quiet time, write down your shortcomings, and then write down your strengths. Not only do you have to realize that you have shortcomings, but you also have advantages.

2.Correct attribution: Don't assume that you are incompetent because of a failure. As everyone knows, the reasons for this failure are likely to be many, not necessarily caused by a lack of ability.

3.Change from the environment: Psychological research shows that the environment plays a subtle role in a person's psychology, and a positive environment can make people have a positive mindset. You can meet more sunny and confident friends.

4.Change your behavior: Do more activities to broaden your mind and body, such as running and walking. Exercise can speed up blood circulation, speed up metabolism, psychological research shows that people when exercising the heart rate faster, physical and mental activity, negative emotions will be soothed.

If the effect of self-adjustment is limited, you can seek the help of professional psychological counselors and psychologists to overcome low self-esteem through psychological counseling.