What do you think of your ex for?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    <> when I walked to a certain street alone, I suddenly thought that I had walked on this road with him for a long time, back and forth, you send me and I send you, and finally both of them went home late, as if every day with him is like this, always feel that there is too little time together, on the way home together has been walking, my house is in front, he sent me to the door, and said do you want to send me, at that time I still think this is okay, forget it, send him, the two of them walked to his house again, and he didn't worry about me, sent me back again, and the two people at that meeting were really reluctant to part for a moment.

    I went to a cold powder shop, remembered that he ate cold powder without chili peppers to put a lot of sesame paste, went to a snack bar, remembered that he always likes to put vinegar when eating, and all the time together seems to be used to stick together to find food, we have tasted the delicious food in the whole town, know which enema is the best, which hot pot tastes the best, which signboard is, stand to eat at a store, you will think that we have eaten here before, this dish is quite delicious.

    When I was with him, I did many things together, I went to many places together, I thought about the future together, I walked through the heat of summer together, I walked through the white head of winter, I have been together for a long time, two people will have a lot of memories, maybe these memories will be blurred with time, as long as you have a trigger point, you will remember the beauty of the past, although you are not together now, but my best memories are all him, both of them are in love for the first time, and often wonder if they will not be separated if they are together now, I feel that it doesn't matter if I think about this, I really liked it at the time, and I really separated, I hope he can live a good and happy life, and I hope he will have a better her by his side.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course, I will think of my previous ex, after all, the two were very in love with each other before, even if they are separated, the other party is still in our memories, and occasionally I still think of it. I'm sure everyone has an ex of their own and thinks of them in the dead of night.

    Although we have broken up with our ex, the happiness that our ex brings us is still in our minds, so we still have some memories of our ex, and occasionally we still think of them, and we will miss the previous days, although we have broken up, but I think the joy he brought us is unique and worthy of our nostalgia.

    Although I have been separated from my ex for three years, I still think of him occasionally, because of the time I was with him, I was very happy, the two of them are no longer together tonight, and have become the most familiar strangers, but I feel that my ex is still the most important person in my life, although his future life has nothing to do with me, but I still remember, because during that time, there was our sincere dedication.

    Some people will say that thinking about the previous ex means that you haven't let go of him, for this sentence, I disagree, after all, the ex has appeared in our lives, even if we have let go of them, they are also the people we are most familiar with, so it is a normal thing to think of them occasionally, don't think that thinking of your ex, that is, you still love them, you are wrong to think like this, because those who really love someone are reluctant to be separated from each other, and they want to be with each other all the time.

    Feelings are inexplicable, so after we break up with each other, we should do our own things, live our own lives every day, even if we miss the happy life before, don't do anything else, and occasionally miss it in our hearts, so that you can really let go, and you can start your new life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Yes, once in a while, I think about it. I think of that good time, that unforgettable experience.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Won't remember the ex. After all, they have all broken up, and their ex is already in the past tense. We should look ahead and look for those who love ourselves and those we love. Don't dwell on the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think it's a very normal thing to think about your ex once in a while, and there are many people who can't let go of their ex after a breakup.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes, I think about my ex a lot, because my ex is my first love, and many things in life can trigger me to think about my ex.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes. At some point, I will inadvertently think of my ex. Will think of her good. She's used to what she's said. This is normal.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think of my ex once in a while, because my ex is still very good in my heart, and she is also very good to me, just saying that we didn't have much contact with each other and broke up, so I still think of him sometimes.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I will, because the two of us had a very good memory before, so after a breakup, they will think of each other when they walk the same road or eat delicious food.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    At the beginning of the breakup, I would often think of the memories of the life and contact between the two people, but after a long time, this memory slowly became blurry, and I would not think about it often.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I won't. Because we've been apart for a long time, and now that I have a significant other, I don't think about my ex.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't have an ex, and my ex is married to me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Pink, thinking of his ex, may have some good memories, maybe at this time I want to get back together with her.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is relatively normal to be able to think of your ex, which proves that you have a very deep relationship with your ex, your ex is a very special existence, a person who can't forget and won't be in contact, just like a junior in someone's heart.

    Generally, when getting along, when you find that the current one has some big shortcomings, or is not as good as the ex in many aspects, it will remind you of your ex-boyfriend (ex-girlfriend) due to the psychological gap. Many times, you may even regret breaking up with your ex in the first place. It takes time to go from sadness, entanglement, anger, to helplessness, regret, to acceptance, and calmness.

    It's like an experience, and you grow up after it's experienced, and there's no need to deny everything. Live your life well, still believe in the beauty of love and work hard to make yourself worthy of something better. But time is the best medicine, after a long time, it will be forgotten, think more about the current good, don't always reminisce, people, always learn to look forward.

    Hope it helps!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    This situation is normal, people will be dependent on the other half when they are in love, and after a breakup, some people will treat each other as their own, and at this time, they will unconsciously think of each other. However, this situation is normal and will be fine after a while. If you want to forget about the ex, then you have to turn your attention to the current one.

    You can focus your energy on work or study, so that you will slowly forget about your ex.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because the ex made a deep impression on you, when you were still a blank slate, he used to paint you beautiful landscapes. All you will never forget.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's normal to always think of your ex when you break up.

    People are emotional animals, and the so-called "ex" is the lover who has ever gotten along, and the so-called relationship must be imprinted in the depths of the memory of both parties.

    These memories don't disappear immediately because of the breakup, and they don't even need to be remembered intentionally.

    There is a song sung by Gao Xin, lyrics by Li Shoujun, and Wang Hao.

    The song composed is called "I Will Think of You When I Break Up" is to describe this mood, and the lyrics are written like this:

    Time really is a good thing.

    You can wash it away that you want to forget.

    From pain to sorrow and joy.

    I used all my strength.

    Time is really not a good thing.

    Always make memorable deposits.

    From vivid memories to occasional recollections.

    I used it for half a century.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Would like to hear from you as well.

    I always thought I could forget.

    It turned out that they were all deceiving themselves.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Will you think of me.

    At the beginning, I made an appointment to rely on each other for life and death.

    Now you're here again.

    Time is really not a good thing.

    Always make memorable deposits.

    From vivid memories to occasional recollections.

    I used it for half a century.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Would like to hear from you as well.

    I always thought I could forget.

    It turned out that they were all deceiving themselves.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Will you think of me.

    At the beginning, I made an appointment to rely on each other for life and death.

    Now you're here again.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Would like to hear from you as well.

    I always thought I could forget.

    It turned out that they were all deceiving themselves.

    I'll think of you when I break up.

    Will you think of me.

    At the beginning, I made an appointment to rely on each other for life and death.

    Now you're here again.

    Now you're here again.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Judging from your question, there are many possibilities for this, and I will give examples of sentences below, first of all, generally a person will always think of another person, this situation is, a kind of longing, want to see each other, because I haven't seen each other for too long, I want to see how the other party is, but for your situation, you break up and often think of each other, this may be that you feel that you are missing a person who is often with you and laughing, that is, the company of relatives, so there is less of a company similar to that of relatives, so it is a little lonely, It's a bit boring and so on, which will often evoke the thoughts of the ex-girlfriend, and it is also a manifestation of not following a good substitute, so either find a better one to replace, or find an ex-girlfriend to try again, or find more meaningful things to do, and strive to shift your attention to other places, the absence of a similar kind of companionship will affect many people, some because they can't find a better one and cause a lot of illness, and some don't want to eat, in short, this feeling is very sad, so you must go on, Don't stop and go, let alone stop and go, this kind of love is meaningless.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Even if you break up, you and your ex still have a good time together, so you will always think of him, think of the time with him, and then there is the fact that people always have habits, who they are used to being with, and suddenly leave, they will naturally feel unaccustomed and will think of each other.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It's very normal to think of your ex after a breakup, because you still have nostalgia for each other after the breakup. I will often miss each other's goodness in my heart. So I think of my ex a lot.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It's normal to think of your ex when you break up, after all, it's someone you've loved, after all, you have feelings, and you will often think about it and miss it often. But you also have to understand that since it is an ex, it means that it is in the past tense, you should let go, look forward, and not sink in the memories.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Why do you always think of your ex when you break up, you mean that you haven't fallen in love again after you break up, if you fall in love again, you may not think of your ex again, this is a situation, another situation, you fall in love again after you break up, but in the process of falling in love, you find that your love again this time is not as ideal and beautiful as the love before the breakup, so if you are in between these two situations, you will often think of your ex, which is also a relatively normal psychological state.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Why do you still think of your ex when you break up? Everyone has this kind of nostalgia for the past. It's like we're all nostalgic now.

    After all, they have been in love together. So his impression lingered in his mind for a long time. Whenever I encounter difficulties or encounter something, I always think of my ex.

    It shows that the ex still has a certain place in his mind.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First, although you broke up, you still have your ex in your heart, and you still have that love, and second, your ex has left too many memories and memories in your life, so that you can't really get rid of your ex after breaking up.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    When you break up, you will always think of your ex, because you had good memories together in the past and gave your sincerity, but now you still can't let go after the breakup, so you will think of him and the bits and pieces you have together.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    This is normal, people have feelings, even if they break up, they will think of their ex's good, because there are still a lot of memories and nostalgia during this time together. But that's okay, it will fade over time, as you date new people. Wouldn't it be nice to have a little good memory, don't pay too much attention to it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Why do you always think of your ex when you break up? Because you like your ex very much, and you love her very much, when you are with him, he must often give you some surprises and joy, so whatever do you do? There may be a shadow of him, so I will often think of him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    When you break up, you will always think of your ex, which means that you used to have a very deep relationship, or now the boyfriend you talked about does not feel as good as before, in fact, people should know that since you have found a new boyfriend, you must forget about your ex, otherwise you will not be happy.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

    It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

    If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

    Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other are separated for some reason, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

    Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

    But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and open the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

    No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't cling to it, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

    If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

    Leave the wrong feelings.

    The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

    If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

    For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

    Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

    In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

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