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What does the end mean? I don't think it's important to jump to conclusions. If you have a way to go on, you should also consider carefully when you separate.
First, if there are children or not, it is better not to separate, which is really unfair to the children. Second, do both parents agree? When you choose to combine, you are destined to be responsible, and when there is a new choice, you must weigh the responsibility of the shoulder suit.
And is it really possible to be happy to be separated? Then there are no good memories of the happy time together? So what you have to do is to weigh it well, calm down and sort it out, and reflect on the shortcomings.
Talk to your best friend and maybe feel better. Remember that life is passed.
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Family discord is the main problem you have. So the main reason for such a problem is that we can not be busy, let's first look at the most fundamental problem of the Imperial Banquet: you have a certain dependence on him emotionally or financially, and you can't find a good solution for the time being.
He does this because he knows your weaknesses in this area (of course, part of the reason is that everyone has their own shortcomings, and he may be more anxious), and it is impossible to solve them well. Then we can improve this problem from the active and passive aspects.
A suggestion to take the initiative to solve: If you can not rely on his emotional charity or financial support, then he may do this to you? So can you first understand your own strengths, such as going to the industry where you have an advantage, such as a store salesperson or something you think you can do, of course, this should be done in your spare time after doing housework, so that he understands that you can not rely on him.
It is better to talk to him if he is happy one day, and go to work after getting his fellow townsmen).
A suggestion for passive solution: One day husband and wife hundred days, even if the above questions are completed, you still have to complete the following things, because you are his wife. Find out why your husband is doing this, is he tired from working outside?
Or is it too much mental stress? Or is it that the relationship on the outside is not going well? Let's find out the reason for his tantrum first, of course, there must be some reasons for his personal personality.
When you know the reason for his temper, try to change him slowly, or let him have a reasonable channel to vent his psychological depression.
Be a bosom friend of your husband, some questions will be good to communicate)
You're a good woman (I don't know if it's right to call you that), don't be discouraged.
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I feel the same way, but the best thing to do is not to quarrel with him, because it is ourselves who hurt the most every time we quarrel.
So no matter what he says, you just have to tell him, you don't think it's this filial piety I can't do it, and it only happens that Chongxiang will get along with the two in the future.
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It only makes sense for a lover to have two people pay at the same time.
Trust each other, sell each other, and care for each other. Mutual respect, mutual support, mutual understanding, and mutual care;
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You have to think more about how good he is to you.
Since this is the case, my personal advice is to leave and not look back. And to be honest, your husband's life is intolerable to ordinary women, why don't you start another family? Or you have a good communication with your husband yourself, if your husband really doesn't want to part with that woman. >>>More
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Listening to you say this, things are a bit troublesome, is it that your husband usually offends them and they don't know, or your husband is too bad at interpersonal relationships, otherwise why do they squeeze out your husband together, you should first recruit the reason from your husband, if not, you should find a way to tie up his colleagues, as long as there is a good impression of you and become friends with you, you will take the initiative and can speak from a friend.
The normal phenomenon of Chinese, looking at American families, is generally the elderly live by themselves, the husband and wife live by themselves, the children grow up and live by themselves, pure and independent family life, life is for enjoyment, not for bearing. We must find a way to change this outdated concept of Chinese and be happy and free people. First of all, your mind needs to change. >>>More
Let's see if he really doesn't love you anymore, and if he really doesn't have any feelings for you. Sometimes my husband likes to say things like that. It depends on the context in which he speaks. >>>More