What should I do about my marriage with my husband?

Since this is the case, my personal advice is to leave and not look back. And to be honest, your husband's life is intolerable to ordinary women, why don't you start another family? Or you have a good communication with your husband yourself, if your husband really doesn't want to part with that woman.

Then you should stop paying attention to your husband and cut off relations with him!

I think do you think your husband still loves you, does he still love you, does he still treat you like he did before you divorced, if there is nothing you are still doing there, leave quickly, because you are no longer a husband and wife in law, put away your heart and live your life well.

You and your ex-husband are living together, and he now has other women outside, and you can't interfere, he thinks that it is his own business to go around several women like this, and this is not a good thing for you, you measure it yourself, and you don't want to live with your ex-husband, so you leave him decisively, out of sight and out of mind.

Let's talk to him. This kind of thing can't be felt by others.

I think if the problem of the third party is not solved, you can divorce him, who has been separated from this society.

Divorce! Your husband's heart is not in you anymore, you scolded that woman, what's the use? Nothing can be changed! The children have their own small families, so there is no need to continue this marriage for the children!

The question is that you came back because your son got married, but did you and your ex-husband remarry after you came back? If not, you can't interfere in his life, and since he feels much better about his current girlfriend than you, it proves that he doesn't love you anymore, so you should reorient yourself to find the direction of your life, and your relationship is only a relationship of shared children.

I feel that as long as you are married, you should keep your distance from the opposite sex, and you can't have other thoughts, if there are such signs, you should disconnect from them in time at the beginning, and you can't fall in love with each other deeply.

When I just entered the company, because I was more beautiful than Qi Shengnian, with a good figure and a good temper, the manager of our company had that idea about me, but I knew that he was married, the other party was 35 years old, just the right age, and the company's manager was treated better, capable, and handsome, at least much better than my husband in all aspects.

So I immediately resigned, I didn't want to stay here, even if this job is more suitable for me, but this atmosphere and this environment are not suitable for me, I am afraid that staying here will become someone else's junior.

Mutual understanding and respect for each other can appreciate each other's strengths and tolerate each other's shortcomings.

I've never regretted marrying him now. Getting married is a big event in life and requires careful consideration, but I know I made the right decision. I'm glad I'm married to him now.

We met in college, and we didn't think about being together at the time. But over time, we discover that each other are soul mates. We share similar interests and life values, and we are able to enjoy life together and face life's challenges and difficulties together.

He is a very kind, considerate and caring person, which is one of the reasons why I love him so much. At the beginning of our acquaintance, he cared very much about me. He would take the initiative to ask me if I had eaten, if I had rested, if I needed help.

He has been selfless in my support when I needed it the most, and has been with me through many difficult times.

After we fell in love and got married, he took more care of me. He would take care of me and care for me when I was sick. In terms of housework, he will take the initiative to share a lot of housework, so that I have more time to focus on my work and hobbies.

In our marriage, he often tried to make me happy and make me feel his love and love for me. All of this makes me feel very happy. I think it's very important to care for and care for each other in marriage.

His kindness to me made me feel the warmth and beauty of marriage. Our marriage wasn't all smooth sailing, either. We have gone through many difficulties and challenges, but we have never given up on each other.

We support, understand and support each other, and we grow and progress together.

Marriage is not a one-sided effort, but the result of mutual care and support. His kindness made me see his sincerity and sincerity, which is also the key to the long-term stability of our marriage. I believe that with our joint efforts, our marriage will get better and better.

It happened that his kindness and care for me also made me more willing to give and care for him. This kind of marriage is a marriage where both parties can be satisfied and happy, and I am glad that I am married to such an excellent person.

It can be observed and judged from the following points:

1. When you sleep.

The man who loves you always hooks up with you when he sleeps, either holding you or holding your hand, in short, he can't escape his perception. Otherwise he will be insecure. In addition, if he doesn't sleep too closely with you, he is also afraid that you will feel that you don't love you and make you cranky.

Second, when eating.

The man who loves you always puts you first when he eats, orders what you like, tastes according to you, pulls chairs and prepares dishes and chopsticks for you. And will take the initiative to pick out what you don't like to eat, in case you feel unhappy and uncomfortable eating. Men who don't love you come by their own when they eat, and then they just play with their mobile phones and don't care about you at all.

3. Whether to introduce it to relatives and friends.

Some men have a girlfriend, and they are happy to tell the world, and they will introduce their girlfriends to each other when they meet people. But the man who doesn't love you will hide you, as if it would be a shame to tell you out.

Fourth, mobile phones. The mobile phone of the man who really loves you is not confidential to you, even if it is set, the password will be told to you, and his mobile phone will store your **, and even the cover may use your group photo. But a man who doesn't love you is not willing to let you touch his phone at all, let alone **.

Fifth, when doing housework.

The man who loves you is not willing to make you too tired, and if he sees you doing housework, he will take the initiative to go up and help, because he knows that this job is not exclusive to women. But a man who doesn't love you sees you doing housework as if he didn't see it, let alone help you do it.

Girls also need to cultivate their own temperament to keep their partners interested after marriage:

1. Standing: Standing must be upright, raising your head and chest and abdomen, don't look up to the sky, don't stand out your chest, everything should be flat, this is the minimum standing posture, and no matter in **, on what occasion, as long as you are standing, you must maintain this form, and it will form a habit for a long time.

If you say no, I can't stand up to that effect, then go home, heels, buttocks, shoulders, and the back of the head against the wall, put your hands vertically, and stand in an upright position with your legs together for half an hour, every day, I don't believe you can't stand up that effect.

2. Sitting, the sitting posture must be elegant, the upper body should be upright, the buttocks should only sit one-third of the chair, the legs can be caged to the left or the right side, or one leg can be placed on the other leg, and the legs will hang down naturally. But don't spread your legs apart or tilt your legs on a chair, and if you're not used to it, use the break from work to exercise yourself.

3. Walk: Use the word "stand" first, raise your head and chest and abdomen, and don't always look down and count your toes. Walk on the road as your home, your T-shaped stage, but it is not to let you go rampant and domineering, if there is no one next to you, do not squint, walk out of your own momentum, do not rush to shoot stars, and do not walk for fear of stepping on the ants on the road, not fast or slow, steady.

The rest is to walk in a walking posture, you can twist, the twisting of the hips shows your waist posture more, but don't move your upper body all the way, give people a sense of frivolity, both hands vertically, gently swing back and forth, don't take a military posture, not take a straight step, be natural.

After getting married, if your husband is willing to share things with you in his work and life, and he will care about you and try his best to solve any problems you have, it can show that he still loves you very much.

After getting married, if you feel sweet and sweet every day, then you are happy, and you can take the initiative to whisper to your husband every day, and it is normal if you are very enthusiastic.

Whether he loves you or not, he will definitely show something in his married life, and he will feel it, if he is indifferent to you and unwilling to communicate with you, then he will definitely not love you.

In fact, there is still a big difference after marriage compared to when you are in love, after all, it is from love to marriage, and the expression of feelings may change in the middle, but loving a person can always be experienced with your heart, and you can see it by looking at his eyes on you.

You can feel whether he loves you or not, if you feel that there is less freshness after marriage, you can create some small surprises from time to time, which will make your husband love you more and more, come on.

If he can call you wife every day when he comes back, and when he comes back, he will ask you what you have done, ask if you want me, and if you have these words, you can basically be sure that he still loves you.

Whether a person loves you or not, this is easy to perceive, words and actions can deceive others, but what a person's eyes reveal really can't be avoided For example, before you get married, he is willing to wait for you to put on makeup for an hour, and he can urge you half an hour after getting married, this is an obvious change, whether you love you or not, are expressed from some subtle places

After you get married, if your husband treats you the same when he falls in love, creates small surprises for you in life from time to time, can take on the responsibilities of a family, take the initiative to take on housework, and understand your hard work, this is a manifestation of love for you.

Willing to spend money for you and willing to take on household chores with you. Even if he is busy with affairs after getting married, he will find time to share the affairs of the family with you. If the conditions are okay and he is busy, he can hire a nanny to share with you.

There is also the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex outside of marriage.

He really doesn't know how to be considerate and tolerate you. Patience is poor!

You chose him, you should understand his shortcomings. Since you are married, you can either adapt to him, or if you can't, you can choose to divorce.

In case he does it again, you have to call the police decisively! Domestic violence will never be tolerated.

Our happiness is in our own hands, the result of our own choices, not given by others. Be responsible for your own happiness! Be brave enough to say no to unbearable living conditions!

The most painful thing is not the tragic encounters, but the "acquiescence" to those encounters.

Supplement: It's useless to think about it for nothing, he's right, you can't accept such comforting words, you don't have to deliberately pretend, you should think about his words. It's good to want to open a little.

Before you ask for it, ask for it.

Maybe you have done a lot for your family, but he doesn't feel it.

You have to have direct devotion to him.

Love must be spoken directly.

He feels that you don't care about him, but you need his care all the time, so he is unbalanced, he also needs love, don't always think about yourself.

And there may be some problems with the way he thinks about his personal life.

These problems can only be solved with love.

And not with suspicion and demand.

If you want to get it, you need to pay first.

The law of the universe is that everything you do will eventually come back to you to give love to yourself and receive love ...

In the past, he had the experience of hitting you, if it was intentional and not missed, this man is not worthy of being entrusted with his life at all.

A man who beats a woman must not be a good man.

For a bad man, do you expect him to love you and comfort you in reality? He's lucky that he didn't bother to hit you again.

Find a man with a good heart who loves you and live a good life. Otherwise, you will be forced to divorce when you are old in the future, and it will be difficult for you to have a chance at that time. (I've seen things like this before).

You don't weigh much in his mind. But you can't get out with him because of this. You don't have to talk to him about anything like that in the future.

Think of a solution for yourself. How will your relationship be in the future, let's take a step at a time. No matter what situation you get into, don't force yourself to be cornered.

He doesn't know how to cherish you, but there will be people who know how to cherish you.

There is no need to be so clear between husband and wife, the husband himself has things to be busy with, and there is pressure, and sometimes he can't take care of you. But who else in this world would understand you better than him? Can you rely on people from the outside?

Is there any bitterness that you can tell them? Your husband can listen to you, which proves that he still cares about you. And don't look down on your husband because you earn less money, a man is always the pillar of the family.

He has to bear the big and hard things, and his pressure is no less than yours, so it is recommended that you ease down for a while, and you can talk to him more sweetly. Since you married him, life has become a matter for two people, and you must not forget each other.