It s helpless to love someone who isn t in your life. That s right

Updated on psychology 2024-05-25
40 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Have you ever seen the stars of the sheep? I haven't finished reading it, but there's a sentence in it that makes a lot of sense! Here's how:

    If I make myself miserable every day because of you, then I might as well stop making my life so uncomfortable. Because, continuing this life, to the end, may only be a dead end; And without you, giving up on you, I can have a million possibilities! "

    I also figured it out after seeing this sentence. In his current life, although he is without him and has another him, he is still relatively happy, happy, happy, although he still thinks about it occasionally"him".But after a long time, it will not be as painful as before.

    Let go a little and what you get may not be the best, but he may be the best for you. What you don't get, doesn't belong to you, and don't want to get it anymore. Cherish the people and things around you, open your heart, and live bravely!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you care about him so much, why not try to fight for it?

    Because we can only live once, if we don't fight for it, we will regret it, no matter what the result is, we must try it, and don't let our lives leave regrets;

    If he is rejected, then treat him as a good memory, because youth is short-lived, don't waste it!

    Loving someone is painful and happy, because if you love him, you will want him to be happy Yes, love is just a part of life, even if you lose him, you still have your family, your career, and your own life

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I know this feeling, I'm in this situation now, although I will**, I will go out to play, I will talk and laugh, but the feeling is not the same, standing in front of me, he who once loved him the most, is so real, but it doesn't belong to me alone, what about good friends, my heart will ache faintly, thinking of the beautiful picture before, it's really uncomfortable, but the reality can no longer change, I told myself that it was no big deal, but the heart told me I cared, but unfortunately there was no happiness, So I hid him deep in my heart, there will always be a place for him in my heart, he said that he doesn't want to see me sad, so even if you are for him, you have to live every day happily, try to smile for yourself, tomorrow the sun is equally beautiful, love him to fulfill his happiness, he will be happy you will also feel happy, you are happy, he will also be pleased! ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I used to have that kind of person in my heart.

    But in the end, we passed by.

    I don't know what I left in his heart.

    All I know is that he still has traces in the deepest places of my heart.

    Now, I'm married to another delicate, careful man.

    He loves me a lot and I rely on him.

    We have many common topics and mutual friends.

    This kind of life is also very good.

    After all, the circles are different, and if you want to walk together, you probably have to give up a lot.

    Even, after this abandonment.

    Love withered.

    I couldn't agree more with the words in the star of the sheep herding quoted by XCW20.

    Give up, and you have a million possibilities. That's right.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is a part of life, and without it, your life will never be lonely.

    You try to make yourself smile and face life. Maybe you can still feel that life is so wonderful.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Didn't you love your life whole?

    Do you think that without him, would you be confident?

    You ask yourself if you love him?

    Maybe he's working hard outside?

    I think you should communicate well, communicate with each other, know each other's situation, contact feelings... I just chose to give up like you, and my love was destroyed by me 3 times, I hope you don't destroy love like me and make you regret it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You're exactly like me, yes

    What if you give up?

    It's just that I'm lost

    Shall he remain in our hearts?

    Silently, silently, bless him.

    There is a good saying''

    To love someone'' doesn't need to get him

    That's it

    Let's make a great one.

    Decide, as long as he is happy'' we will be happy. .!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love someone. There is no need to scruple ......

    Love someone. It doesn't matter what distance.

    Because that person has always been in your heart.

    Love someone. Don't be afraid of what to hesitate.

    Walk over and hold hands.

    Life is so uneventful.

    So beautiful. If you love, don't hold back.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Too many words to say.

    Then you will become the most familiar strangers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give it up, it's painful.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Why is it like I say it ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then it depends on what you think, find someone you love, then you will suffer, find someone who loves you, you will not suffer (if you don't love him at all, then he will be very painful!). Actually, I think I'll choose to love me, because I don't want to be hurt anymore, although it's selfish, but although I don't love her, I'll be nice to her!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Of course, it's the best way to love each other, but relatively speaking, there is always a person in the mountains who pays more, loves more, and doesn't want to work too hard, just choose someone who loves you more, and is the happiest to be loved, haha

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Is there still love now? At most, "I like it very much". But now it's more realistic to find a boyfriend and girlfriend!

    The conditions of the two sides are almost together in the Ho Clan. If you meet someone you love and love you, if you want to be with someone you love, you have to be prepared to take care of you like someone who loves you. It's up to you to take care of yours or what you need to take care of!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Life is not only love, at the beginning is family affection, then friendship, and finally love, don't get carried away for a moment of love, just for the love of the woman is weak, people have to live happily, for themselves and for others, in order to really get happiness, including love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Divide people, because a woman is an emotional animal. In fact, we don't want to be like this, but we can't control our hearts, but that doesn't mean that we have to compromise and succumb to the shackles brought to us by love. As long as there is a little problem in love, it will make you feel down, and even let go of what you should do and worry about it.

    But women also need to be a strong person, and some women value their careers more seriously, but that doesn't mean they don't care about love. Maybe they've been hurt, maybe they've thought a lot of things. Although women will see love as very important, our lives should be as usual, and our mood should not be greatly affected.

    We have to try to enrich our minds in other ways.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    For a lot of women will feel.

    For me, not my friends and relatives around me, none of them have committed suicide for love, but they are still living well, so in fact, women don't take love as everything.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I think it depends on what this man has given her, if this man loves her very much, is very good at thinking about her, and she loves this man very much, she will feel that love is all she has, if the man treats her badly, then she will feel that love is very illusory, very ethereal, ungraspable, untouchable, very far away.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This has to be judged by people, different families, different living environments, will lead to different concepts of everyone, think I grew up in the countryside, never think that love is all I have, let my parents live well is true, love is all floating clouds...

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I would have thought so before I got married, and I won't think so since I got married.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    No, a happy life is the truth.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    No, there's a lot of fun in life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    It depends on what she thinks.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe, I just confessed last night and said to me directly that I am a good person.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Hello. They're together now. Here's how it ended. It's good for people who love each other to live together. It doesn't get much more important than that.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Does the person you like like you too?

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Turn back and manage your marriage well, otherwise the consequences are not something you can predict and control.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Of course, you choose your husband, the person you like, you may not be able to live happily with him, that person may not love you, you have not lived together after all, but your husband is different, he loves you, I don't think you want to let your life go into darkness.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If I had a husband, I would restrain myself from liking other men.

    It is very difficult for a person who cannot control his desires to attain true happiness.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I chose my husband because at least you've spent a lot of things together, so it's best not to split your legs.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's so hard to love someone Su Yongkang.

    Love is not blessed Jiang wins.

    What should I do to love you Qi Qin.

    Ordinary friend Tao Zhe.

    It's hard to accept the truth Andy Lau.

    Leehom Wang's "two people are not equal to us".

    Xue Kaiqi : A person has amnesia, I don't need taffany Ding Dang: instead of guessing.

    Happiness Street: Wedding dress "This song is quite desolate and melancholy, prepare in your heart Ha> Cai Chunjia : A moment of ambiguity.

    Feng Weijun : I've been looking for someone.

    Yang Zongwei: The wind of happiness.

    Wang Ruolin: Have your happiness.

    Wilber Pan: Turnaround.

    Xiao Yaxuan: After that.

    Zhang Huimei: Impulsive, what love is rare.

    My joy. Sky Jolin Tsai.

    One Man's Starlight" Xu Jinglan.

    Confession of Tears" is in Japanese and also in Chinese. Jolin's "Metronome" is also good.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Women's Voices Song 1: I'm Not Your Favorite Woman Song 2: Love Debt Song 3: A lonely woman is so hard.

    Boy's Voice Song 1 I love you but I love him Song 2: As long as you live better than me.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Amorous people always give their souls to whom, confidante of Lan Yan. Missed lover.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't know how to answer, I don't know if I understand it right, I hope my words don't affect you too much, personal opinions are for reference only. I think men are very realistic creatures, they can think more realistically, he may be under pressure from his family or something. I don't understand that he has a fixed job, and your job is also fixed?

    Can't you give up your job for love and go to him? I think if you really love him, you really feel that you can't leave him, and you want to be together for the rest of your life, then one of you will die and go to another city. It is very unrealistic to separate after marriage, and there are more conflicts due to suspicion.

    And since he doesn't care, you may also make a decision, once a man makes a decision to break up, it is a real decision, it is thought about, not like a woman, many times because of impulsiveness to say to break up. He wants you to do well, maybe sincerely, maybe it's just an excuse to break up, and he hopes that you are doing well at the same time, and at the same time, he hopes that he can do well. If he still loves you, I really hope that you can hold hands and go on instead of parting.

    I wish you happiness.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Hello, why don't you take into account where he works to work?

    It's time to get married, don't ask too much, you have to take your time.

    Thinking about so many things is to increase the pressure, and once the pressure is high, it will torment the dead person, think about it, maybe he is tired.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Maybe my answer will be cruel to you, because I can see that you love your boyfriend very much, but I still want to say, he has let go, are you still waiting for someone who won't come back to come back?

    It doesn't matter if the reason why he chose to give up is to make your life better or whatever, what matters is that his heart has left you. So, it doesn't matter what the reason is, don't be moved by the reason, which is similar to the sentence that many girls say when they reject boys, "You are a good person, I don't deserve you (we are not suitable)......It's no different, the point is, he's given up on you and doesn't hold on for you anymore.

    So, don't do any more useless retention, girl, be kind to yourself! Maybe you're going to be miserable now, but if you keep dwelling, you'll be miserable eventually. It's better to be chic and leave him a perfect turn, at least you were once happy. Isn't it?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    1. You love him very much, I can see it.

    2. He has considered giving up, I can see it.

    3. You're still too young, I can see it.

    4. You really don't understand, I can see it.

    5. Love and marriage are two very different things, you can't see it.

    6. The good story between the two places is a small probability event, and separation is basically equal to breaking up, you can't see it.

    7. You can't see it, I don't blame you, it's just because you haven't experienced it yet.

    8. Believing and admitting that you are ordinary people without extraordinary courage, especially without the strength (including material strength) to hold on to your beliefs in the cruel real world. The real world is very cruel, protect yourself and don't get hurt.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Truth love just get married, don't care about anything, it's too tiring

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    What I want to say is that people live for themselves, there are very few people who live for others, no matter who leaves, life must go on, don't get entangled in some things outside the body, the sun rises as usual, and your own life will be created!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    No one thinks the same way, and I think a responsible man would do that!

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