When a person is helpless or disappointed in life, what should he do?

People who are narrow-minded will be hurt and want to die.

Do you have to forget?

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it.

Do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, let him pass in the past, short-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, then you will always be happy.

Don't think about deliberately forgetting something, so that it is not easy to forget, and don't feel annoyed when you think of something, but laugh at it, over time, you will not sigh at your own success when you think of something.

It's not so easy to forget something in your heart, and it's impossible to forget it completely, at most, it's just to think of someone less often, that's all, so when you think of something, you can miss it to your heart's content, and tell yourself that you can remember it happily now, and you don't feel sad anymore.

In addition, you can also find something you like to do, make yourself happy, and let your mind go free.

Time is the best medicine for the wound.

It's hard to try to forget. It's even harder to forget a loved one.

What does it mean to forget? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart.

The feeling of disappointment is very distressing.

I don't know what to change. If he does something that disappoints you, ignore him and forgive him for once.

If you still do it in the future, leave him.

There is a saying: I am disappointed in your disappointment!

Don't be disappointed, give someone a chance, maybe he just can't do it well for a while.

When you are disappointed in someone, you are not required to do anything at this time. All you can do is consider letting go. Don't count on him. Don't expect anything from him, because expectation will only lead to sadness. Rather than that, it's better to let go.

Maybe you are disappointed in someone at the same time, others are also angry at you for interfering too much, people are all oriented to each other, and sometimes you have to let go when it's time to let go. It would be better for him to experience failure alone. Because only by experiencing failure can he reconsider. Calm down from the new.

So when you're disappointed in someone, think about it. Is it that his own requirements are too high, is it that he is too strict. Retailor your goals. It will be of great benefit to you to have a good talk with him in a good temper.

Whether it is a person's existence or not can only be realized after disappearing. Is it true that a person's sincerity often knows how to cherish it after it is lost?

If a person becomes unwilling to speak and chooses to remain silent, such emotions are not caused by a day or two, but appear after a long period of accumulation. It has been said that love accumulates slowly, and it is the same with not loving. When the other person disappoints you again and again, you will no longer have any expectations for him.

What does it feel like to be completely disappointed in a person? I think, this feeling is probably that he is calling you **, your heart is calm and you don't even want to take it, ta says okay, and a trace of disgust flashes in your heart. You even feel that one person's life is happier than the life of two.

If a person becomes quiet, it means that they are forcing themselves to let go. Probably too disappointed, so he kept silent. The real disappointment is not scolding, not crying, not losing your temper at you, but disappointment, the silence after complete disappointment, and the fact that I feel that you have nothing to do with me anymore.

All the happiness before the disappointment is because I care, so I am willing to tell him everything, I want to let the other party know every little emotion, and I want to share the little happiness with the other party again and again. When a person is extremely disappointed, he will leave without hesitation, not because he is not brave, nor because he is afraid of being hurt, but he just feels that he does not want to continue to make wrong decisions for the sake of a wrong person.

In fact, we were all Yu Fei and Dingdian, and the cutting was still messy. It's just that later we all lived as Meng Yun and Lin Jia, and we dispersed.

So don't wait until a person is silent for a long time to ask each other what's wrong, two people are together, you can be a little more careful, you can find the beginning of the other party's emotions to care, to communicate, to solve problems, good feelings need to be managed, if one does not ask, one does not say, the final outcome may be two people to the end. The only thing we can do is to lose and cherish it, and don't let down the people you love.

In the world of two people, there must always be a noisy, one laughing, one noisy, and the other coaxing. Love is not a lifetime without quarrels, but after a quarrel, you can join hands for a lifetime!

When you are completely disappointed in someone, whether it is affection or friendship. Or family affection. You see this person will, very bland feeling.

It was as if he didn't know him at all. And don't want to look at him. Say a word to him.

Or maybe you don't want him to stay in your sight for a second.

If a person is disappointed or even desperate, then he may have suicidal thoughts, such people often look strong on the outside, but on the inside they can't withstand setbacks.

One of my neighbors almost committed suicide by drinking medicine many years ago because of an incident in their family, but fortunately, he was found in time and sent to the hospital in time for gastric lavage, which saved his life.

Here's the thing, at that time, his son bought a car not long after graduating from college, and it can be said that he spent almost all of their family's savings to buy that car, and it was also used to find a daughter-in-law for his son, but it was from that car and his son that things started.

His son was a good drinker like him, and at that time the inspection of drunk driving was not very strict, so his son would often drive to his friends to drink.

One day, as usual, his son went out drinking, still driving his new car, of course.

Then misfortune happened when I came back in the afternoon.

His son was driving home after drinking, and because it was raining heavily at the time, and his son was already a little unconscious, he ended up hitting a couple.

The husband died on the spot, and the woman was also seriously injured, but his son did not get out of the car, and drove home directly with one foot on the accelerator.

Later, the police found the person his son had hit and killed through surveillance footage, and then a line of police cars drove directly to his home.

In the end, the family paid nearly 2 million to the deceased family, but he couldn't make so much money as a farmer.

It can be said that he was really disappointed in his son at that time, and he really didn't expect that a college student's son would still teach him repeatedly after asking him to drink and not drive, and now he finally broke into a big accident.

In the end, he committed suicide one morning in his living room, but after being rescued, he said that it was because his son had disappointed him so much that he felt that life was not interesting.

You may feel that you have lost the courage to face this world, you may feel that you can't do anything, you may feel that you are useless, you may want someone to help you, you may want to leave this world. In my understanding, it will be bad for you, and you need someone to guide you at this time, so that you may not fall into the swamp! I don't think we're a little bit of a bad mood!

I sometimes have that kind of emotion, but not many times, every time I feel that I can accomplish this, I find that I am not as good as I imagined, I will have a huge sense of loss about myself, I feel that I may not be able to do it or I am not suitable for this, others have nothing, they are better than themselves, so I may lose interest in this matter, and I will feel that the world is not as simple as I imagined! It's better to do your own primitive things!

When a person is lost, what I probably want most is to shop, or buy myself what I like to eat, so as to hide that I am not really so lost, and slowly I will find that this is not suitable for me, then there will always be something suitable for me, such as eating, not everyone may be able to reach the level of me, I still have confidence in this!

I think when a person is lost, he should look for things that can make him happy, happy, so that my bad mood will not increase so much, but in fact, when people are unhappy and lost, their minds are full of shadows of their own failures in what they do, and they are all their own shortcomings, so we will lose confidence in the world, then we may embark on a path that we will not like ourselves!

When you are disappointed, you will feel that you are not worth living in the world in this life, and you may choose to commit suicide.

When you are disappointed, you feel that life is not fun, the words are good, only if you are good at observing, you will find the beauty in life, but you yourself, will not choose, to observe the beauty around you, only remember yourself, there is darkness around you, there is no one to help you, your heart is extremely lonely, you have no confidence in the world, you have no confidence in yourself, you feel how desolate life is. <>

Maybe you will choose to commit suicide, because in this way, you can be freed, your heart is not messing around, you don't have to carry any baggage, and you don't have to feel the grief of the world again, so you will stay away from yourself! Get away from life.

When you are disappointed, you may abandon yourself. When we feel very confident in ourselves, you will be happy and do a lot of things, but when you feel disappointed, you feel that you are useless, you will, you can't abandon life, you feel hopeless about life, there are everything you don't want to go, actively participate, you will become sluggish, go to play games every day.

When you are disappointed, you despair of life. You will choose to live an ordinary life. You may no longer have dreams, no more innovations, and will only follow the crowd to have that simple and mediocre life.

Maybe at some point, you wish you could innovate your life, be a little new, and be happy, but when you are disappointed, you will never imagine the future again, you will never have a future again, you will never discover the beauty of life again, you will only choose to listen to them to live.

I think disappointment is relative, it can be that you are disappointed in others, or you are disappointed in yourself. I think it's completely understandable to be disappointed in others, after all, not everyone can do what you expect, but if you are disappointed in yourself, you have to solve it yourself.

I've been disappointed in myself, I've been disappointed in others, but in the end, I've cleaned up my own mood and moved on.

The first thing is that I am disappointed in others, in fact, the person who has disappointed me the most over the years is my father, because I think that being a father, as the head of a family whose grandfather is no longer alive, can make a family very harmonious on the surface, and in fact it is very harmonious, I also admire it very much, and I admire this heart. So there are actually a lot of grievances I have received at home since I was a child, and it is simply a sad moment more than happy.

My disappointment in my father is something I can't change, it's completely my father's own style, and I'm disappointed in why my father is like this, it's sad. But what can I do, he is still my father after all, so I can't do anything.

The second thing is that I'm disappointed in myself, I'm actually a person who doesn't like to read, and I don't want to be bound by just reading. I actually studied hard for a while in high school, but in the end, I couldn't get enough of my interests. So the results at that time can be said to be unremarkable.

When I was a junior in high school, I was the kind of person who might not even be able to go to a triple-B university.

Once my mother called me and told me to study hard, my mother hoped that I could get into a good university. In fact, I felt at that time that I had never done anything good to my mother in my life, so I promised her this time, to be honest, I was also very disappointed in myself at that time, because I was very depraved.

But I was disappointed in myself, and I still collected my mood and moved on, because after all, I am still a person who can't be sorry for myself and my mother, I am already disappointed in my father, and I can't let my mother be disappointed in me.

So at that time, I worked hard and finally got admitted to a second-class undergraduate university, in fact, this was already a big dark horse, and I was no longer disappointed in myself at that time. So when I'm disappointed in myself, I find a way to stop being disappointed in myself.