When I was dating my boyfriend in college and didn t come home at night, should I hide it from my pa

Everyone will have their own privacy and secrets, and it is your own decision whether to tell other people or not, if you want your parents to know, then tell them, and if you don't want to say it, it's as simple as that.

I think so, because parents may not be able to accept this approach.

Actually, I think it's all up to you, it depends on your own family situation, and the relationship between your parents, after all, you are already an adult, so you have the responsibility to decide your own things.

For such a thing, I personally think that you should make it clear to your parents that you have a favorite object, what your boyfriend does, and you can let your parents refer to it, and it is normal for two people to really love someone and be together.

As long as they truly love each other and know that they feel sorry for you, discuss it with their parents.

Don't hide it from your parents, they will always be the ones who love you the most.

Getting married is not a trivial matter, don't be full of parents! Communicate with your parents!

Love life, only if you choose yourself, you will not regret what you are pursuing in the world, isn't it the yearning in your heart.

I think that a girl must seek the advice of her parents before moving in with her boyfriend.

Some of what parents say, some also have some truth, as the saying goes, "If you don't listen to the elderly, you will suffer in front of you" Sometimes it will not be good to listen to their opinions. What's more, every parent wants their children to be well, so no matter what happens, you shouldn't hide it from your parents.

After all, they have traveled and experienced many more things than you, and it is more accurate to judge a person's character based on the behavior of the other party. And, they will help you think about or solve problems in your physical and mental interests.

Therefore, before a woman decides to live together, she can also consult her parents. Don't insist on going your own way because you are too shy to say it, or because you are afraid of your parents' opposition, then you choose the right person, but if you choose the wrong person, it will also make your parents feel sad.

You must not decide after the first cut, you must discuss it with your parents before deciding, and it is best not to live with someone too early! Please be assured that your parents will not allow their daughter to live with a man without a name. The most loving thing in the world is always your parents, living with others, self-esteem, self-love, and shame?

Girls still have to protect themselves, if that man really loves you, he won't hurt you regardless of your reputation. Don't believe that a man loves you and will touch you or anything like that, that's a pretext, he really loves you, and he will definitely endure until you spend candles in your cave room.

Girl, it's okay to fall in love, but you can't lose the bottom line, if you have nothing in front of him, he won't cherish it. Isn't there such a saying? You can't get the eternal commotion, and the favored ones have no fear! Seeing flowers in the fog is the most beautiful.

It's just a boyfriend, not a fiancé Husband-to-be, how do you know he'll be the one to be with you for the rest of your life? This is also extremely irresponsible to you and your future husband.

Let's talk to your parents first, after all, your parents are from the past and will give you some advice.

I think it's best to communicate with your parents, after all, it's a lifelong thing, it's very important, and parents are also very important people in life.

Many parents are against unmarried cohabitation, so it's better to talk about it first and see the attitude of the parents.

Hide it from your parents first, because no parent wants you to live with a man casually.

Let's talk to your parents first, if your parents don't agree, there will be a lot of problems.

It is best to talk to your parents before deciding whether you want to live together, there are many things to think clearly, you can't act blindly, you have to be responsible for yourself.

Generally, I hide it from my parents first, and then tell my parents when the relationship is stable.

Let's start with that, after all, parents have the right to know about it.

Tell your parents first, if they agree that the two of you are together, there will be no conflict in the future.

If he is a confident boy and you understand your place in his heart, and he shows you to his parents, then you can talk to them about living together.

First, is he a boy who keeps his word?

For commitment, many boys are very generous, especially for the "girl master", they know that a girl's love needs commitment! Promises are commonplace, and that's definitely not loving you. People who truly love you don't make promises easily, and once they do, they will do what they say they will do.

Second, what position does he put in his heart?

He loves you, and naturally puts you in a very important position in his heart, and naturally thinks of you from time to time and cares about you in every detail. For example, he will remind you that it is cold and go out with a jacket; If it's raining today, I'll bring you an umbrella; You're coming back soon, and I'll cook you a meal, or buy something good.

Eating with friends of the opposite sex and going on a business trip with colleagues of the opposite sex will be a part of our lives, but at this time, when a boy is jealous, it is also a sign of love for you. Of course, different boys can behave very differently when it comes to jealousy, just like some boys are mature and some boys are naïve, but it is impossible not to be jealous if you love you, and jealousy is not a girl's patent.

Third, did he introduce you to his friends and take you to meet his parents?

In a normal relationship, at least in the middle term, he will be more than happy to introduce you to his good friends, that is, to admit your relationship in front of his friends.

He will take you to meet his parents when the time comes, and let you know that he wants the relationship to be approved and blessed by his family!

Discuss with your parents first and see what their opinions are.

In this case, it is necessary to pay attention to tactics. You can't make excuses, but you have to go out together while you're doing something else. You can do it in advance, don't let your parents know, and then go out together as a matter of course...

Don't hide it, the closest people are your parents, it's best to discuss with them, they will weigh it, you are still young, you will know in the future!

The parents' worries are reasonable, but if there is really something not to say that the night is not home, the day is also a truth, the parents say that it is useless, the main role is still themselves, self-awareness, because it is impossible to stop it, parents can not change their lives, adults have their own thoughts! Grasp the degree.

Communicate when your parents are in a good mood In the case of parental opposition, it is best not to express any opinions, otherwise they will say about you again, they say a word, you take your time with ten sentences, communicate often, and tell your parents that you have grown up, you should have more freedom, you are mature, you will not do children's things, you know what to do and what not to do. Wait a minute. More subtle dialogue.

We're all girls, and I understand how you feel because we're the same. But don't parents do this because they are also responsible for us? After all, they have seen many people with deep experience, they are afraid that you will suffer, and you don't have to go home at night when you go out with your boyfriend, you can tell your parents to go home later, if you want to be free in time, then only let your parents safely hand themselves over to their husbands, they will always rest assured.

Find a reason to quarrel with them before going out, and then leave in the open.

Sisters, what happened to us is exactly the same, and I'm worried about it!

Give up, even if it's late, you still have to go home.

It is advisable for you to be honest and say whatever you think.

It's not that you don't love yourself, and the so-called lack of self-love refers to having sex with a man casually.

Between couples, if they are more sexually open, it is okay to have sex before marriage.

Their endings came together, indicating that they still met the right person.

As long as you are single-minded, people fall in love at first sight, and you should congratulate.

Marriage to my boyfriend at that time is still more single-minded.

When you meet true love, everything changes.

Love is also academic, and she chose love. Apparently she got married before you.

Hahaha, society, there is no truth.

Tube is a matter of course! But first, ask what you did! If nothing bad happens! You can explain it to him clearly and explain it to your family, so as not to worry your family If you are surfing the Internet or playing other improper things, then it is time to teach well!

It depends on what kind of children it is, some children (let's call them children for the time being) have all the children who go out to mingle, so don't worry about it.

I feel that this question is very 、、、 children, should they ignore this kind of problem as parents? As a parent, you should understand your child's inner world in a timely manner, walk into your child's world, and figure out why your child suddenly doesn't go home at night. Nowadays, the mental health problems of adolescents are becoming more and more serious, and we cannot ignore them.

I hope you find a solution soon.

To manage, ask him if he has enough money to spend outside, and not enough to get it at home.

My son is in college, and although he is an adult, he has not yet started a family, and some ideas are not yet mature! As a parent, you should take care of your children, but what kind of approach should you take? It will not cause the child's rebellion, and it will have the opposite effect!!

First of all, as a parent, you should communicate your thoughts with your son, express your love for your child, don't blindly criticize, and don't criticize harshly!! My son is older and has self-esteem!! Be patient and communicate, don't be impatient and lose your temper!!

Secondly, in response to the problem of not returning home at night, ask what is the situation and what kind of classmates do you go to? Are these classmates good or bad? Don't take your son badly, tell your son about your worries, the complexity of society, etc., and finally the situation of your girlfriend, your son has the right to meet the opposite sex when he is older, as a parent can't deprive him, the issue of spending the night at his girlfriend's house, some advocate, some oppose, I personally don't express my opinion, what I want to say is to respect the opinions of the parties, and talk to my son about the way men and women get along at the right time!!

After all, both parents are from the past!!

It's time for college! Never mind it! When your child is older and an adult, don't be afraid that someone will snatch your son away! When the child is older, don't worry about it, there are some things he can handle well!

This question is worth pondering, don't simply think that it is normal for college students not to go home at night, if you can really go out with your girlfriend for the night, this is understandable, your son you know best, so what if you don't go out with your girlfriend? Today's society is complex, and it is also beneficial to ask and manage...

There shouldn't be a problem when you're in college, but you can talk to him and pay a little attention, and you can't blindly say that he's wrong, which will have a counterproductive effect.

Your son is in college, it's not like middle school and high school anymore, he has his freedom.

It said that he has a girlfriend, and he doesn't go home at night, of course, he went to open a room with his girlfriend, this is everyone's physiological needs, and he has to cool them.

As long as you don't do too much, just turn a blind eye and just turn a blind eye.

The son does not delay his studies, and it is permissible for men and women to socialize.

You shouldn't leave it alone, and you shouldn't be too strict! Talk to him more and be like a friend!

It should be more than an overnight stay! Proper management!

This matter can only be hinted at from the side, not said positively.

I don't know what kind of person he is, what kind of person his girlfriend is, you can't control it alone, you can only prompt it.

I've also been to my classmates a lot, and he often comes to my house to play because we're good friends, and that's fine.

Of course, there were experiences of not returning home at night in college, and there were not a few of them.

Seeing this question, I wonder how well-behaved and obedient you are, and your youth has not crossed the line at all? Isn't this kind of thing common in college?

I went to a junior college, and the dormitory management was not so strict. Not returning home at night is something we often do, sometimes staying in a hotel outside, sometimes staying overnight in an Internet café, and sometimes partying in KTV.

At that time, we were wanton and flamboyant, and we had no taboos at that time。I don't think about the future, I never think about the future, I just want to live a chic life of youth at that time.

For boys, it's not a big deal to have a few people staying home at night. At that time, I was addicted to online games, and I would go to the Internet café for an all-night two or three nights a week.

At that time, the Internet café was always full, and it was full of students from the surrounding schools. Everyone is immersed in their own worlds and does not interfere with each other. When you are sleepy from playing, you lie down on the table and sleep, and when you wake up, you can continue playing.

On the second day, after breakfast early in the morning, I went straight to the classroom to check the dormitory? Inexistent. Everyone is already an adult, and they are all capable of taking responsibility for their actions.

According to your description, your school looks like a militarized administration, but it's especially like a high school. In fact, the management of ordinary universities is not so strict, and it is completely possible to put your heart in your stomach.

Many years after graduation, I actually realized how undeserved it was that I didn't go home at night. How good I was playing outside back then, and how stressful I am at work now.

In the college years, you should still study hard and work hard to improve your various levels, so that you can adapt to this society faster after stepping into the society.

Cherish your college years, the last ivory tower, and you will have to face this cruel society alone in the future.