Without thinking, is it really like to be instinctively good to someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Instinctively being good to a person is not necessarily like this person, it may be that your character is like this, you feel that you should help anyone you meet, you feel that his things are very pitiful, and you want to be nice to him, this kind of good old man is a kind of great love, this instinct is to be good to everyone, not just to this person. Maybe you like this person who is good or is of the same sex as you, is that like? Of course, it can also be called like, but it is definitely not like in the sense of love.

    The feeling of love should not be just how good it is to him, but a kind of longing. This kind of longing is not seen for a day, as if every other autumn, always thinking about her every move, every smile, and how can this kind of thinking not think? This kind of brain-like longing will make you only be good to this person, ignoring the existence of others, and will not be good to others.

    On the other hand, it can also be said that it is better not to think, just out of your instinct, or a momentary conscience, which is quite far from love.

    Maybe this instinctive goodness makes the other party feel that you are also very good, maybe this kind of goodness makes you have this feeling of mutual attraction between you, and you have a good impression of each other, and this kind of good time needs to be expressed in words for a long time. Instinctive good is transformed into deliberate good, like a person, just to be good to her, when she is good to her, I will feel happy. If you like someone, you want to know her every move, all her things, dig out your heart to please her, get close to her, help her, and don't think about it can no longer meet the needs of your interactions.

    If you really like someone, you have to think about it, how to be good to her, how to continue to move forward with her, grasp any hope that exists, and strive to show the best side of yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    People's instinctive things are the most real, those behaviors have not been processed and modified by the brain, and there is no careful eye in them, so that is the most real behavior of people.

    If we do something out of instinct, the kind of thing that reacts immediately when we see something, I think it's mostly a monologue in people's inner world, and it's the most important thing that people value. It's like when we see a girl, there will suddenly be an electric current in our eyes, so we can't extricate ourselves from her, no matter what the girl asks, we will do it without thinking, to help her complete, even if it is harmful to our interests, we will do it, but when it comes to this, some people will ask, is there really such a person, such people don't all appear in that kind of romance**. In fact, I feel that the person who asks this question must have never met such a person who makes them feel excited, and if they have also met such a person of the opposite sex, I believe they will not doubt this question anymore.

    This is the power of love, and the power of love can make us strong, to stand tall in the face of difficulties, and we can fight for the people we love. As I read a story a long time ago, a little girl was smashed under a car, and then her father actually lifted the car like a car, which seems incredible, but it is true, this is the instinct of people, and the potential of human beings is limitless.

    When we meet that ta, the one that allows us to help without thinking, we know how real human instinct is, and we have incomparably powerful power at that time.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think I really like it.,After all, there's no reason to like someone.,Always think of each other naturally.,And I'm inexplicably amused by the other party.。

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It may be a liking, or it may be an idea! It depends on whether you like him to the extent that you want to be with each other!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think so, no one owes anyone, and if you don't really like it, you'll be good to others without thinking.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I like to measure my current attitude towards me by how I like someone and how I behave it. I like a person who wants to buy him something, wants to be good to him, wants to give good things, and can't wait to give if I can help him.

    But since we got along, I didn't feel his liking from the details of him, I asked him if he liked someone because he instinctively wanted to be good to him, and he said definitely not, isn't that an emotional master?

    After we got together, I brought up the holiday gifts first and asked him what he wanted. I had a strong feeling that he didn't feel the need to exchange gifts if I didn't mention it, and I later asked if I wouldn't give it if I didn't mention it, and he vehemently denied it, but my feeling told me that he was such a person.

    Double 11 I asked him what he was going to buy after he asked me, I said I was going to buy a bag, he asked what I sent to him, he said I'll buy it for you, I think the two of them together soon said I haven't picked it yet, I'll do it myself, and then he said okay, the bag is only 200 yuan. Actually, I do want to buy it myself, and it's not expensive, but it's quite chilling to be so polite and perfunctory.

    I chatted before and said that I like to eat something, and then he said to ask me if I like it, if you like it, you can buy it for me, in fact, it is a fruit, because he is still in school, I said wait for your internship salary to buy it for me, and then today he told me that he paid the salary, but he didn't say anything. The first internship salary, I think it is quite meaningful, and there has been such a conversation before, and he himself said that I am fine, so soon I left it behind.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can't be controlled by two people.

    There are many reasons why you can't be together, and it mainly depends on whether the two of you can stick to it. Isn't it still deeply in love with each other?,As long as this will definitely have results...

    Go for it. I'm from here. As long as you persevere, you will be happy in the end.

    There is pain to be sweet!

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