Is it easy to be hated if you are too upright in life?

That's true, but you have to understand that integrity itself is right, and why people hate you is because your integrity is incompatible with their meanness. Things gather like people in groups, those people have nothing to do with integrity, so they are not the same people on the road as us, the so-called Tao is different and not a certain one, those who are not upright hate upright people, but do you not hate upright people when you are upright? Of course hate, it's just that the current proportion is a little unbalanced, whether it's for life or what, there are more and more people who are not upright, and with such a large base, there will definitely be a considerable number of people who have climbed to the top.

So, to a certain extent, they have several times as many resources in the hands of the upright people, and the casual and upright people will appear powerless.

But in fact, the two types of people have always been opposites, and there is nothing that is easy to be hated and who is not easy to hate. So, it's not that he's too upright to attract hatred, it's because there are too many people in the opposite camp.

My dad is actually like that, he can't look past anything, and my dad always despises the despicable behavior of some people. But my dad has a bleaker life than this life, and many people have excluded him, if it weren't for his own real skills, he would have been trampled on by those villains.

The reality is that you can't face too many enemies without strength. Because not everyone is as like-minded as you are, an upright person should always be prepared to face some of life's injustices.

But I still think there should be people with integrity, and the more the better. Although I also admit that to some extent, integrity has slowed down the efficiency of our society, but what is related to people's hearts and human nature should be seen in the long run. If there are too many despicable people and let them trample on morality, dignity, and rules at will, the world will eventually decline, or even perish.

I understand that people compete for life, but if you want to kill potential enemies while ensuring your life, then you will do whatever it takes, which is a bit of the animal world.

After all, people are not just trying to survive, they should also take care of their souls, right?

Too much integrity in our lives is bound to invite hatred, and I have experienced it firsthand.

When I was a freshman, I worked in the sports department of the student union, and one of the tasks in the sports department was to be responsible for the morning exercise of freshmen, which may also be that the college would make it clear that freshmen should have morning exercises in order to let students develop a good habit of getting up early, and our morning exercise time is 6:40 every morning, for those of us who go to bed in the early morning, it is very difficult to get up at 6:40 in the morning, so there will be a lot of people who are late, and the requirement of our department is to record the names of people who are late every day. Then the weekly summary is handed over to the college, and the college will give them an appropriate deduction, which will affect the student's year-end evaluation, and will also indirectly affect the scholarship, so that some people want to take a shortcut, that is, they can not get up early and do not need to be registered.

Because our sports department is the morning exercise name, so some of them will tell us not to remember him, and then we are also very embarrassed, are all classmates of the college, if we don't remember by the minister found out, we will be criticized, and the memory will definitely have a bad relationship with these students, if we are too upright, we will not let go of everyone who is late, so that they will not be late, but they will not be so friendly when they see us again, this is the attitude of ordinary people, After all, I deducted points because of this incident, and if it affects the year-end assessment or even scholarship because of this point, they will definitely treat us as enemies for life, so we turn a blind eye most of the time, and try not to remember, but if they are late too many times, they will remember, because this is their own work.

It's not your integrity itself that is hated. It's your integrity that affects their gains from vested interests.

In fact, the preferences of any person in society for others have little to do with a person's quality itself, and how much benefit (vested interests or long-term interests) others can bring to themselves.

It's been said that a true friend pulls you when you fall, right. It will be pulled, because the cost of pulling you is far less than the benefit, there is a saying called the grace of dripping water springs to reciprocate. I prefer that there is no such thing as a friend in this world who will pull you no matter what you do.

If there is, it will only be in your parents.

If we have the notion that if we do something wrong, we must admit it, we must receive punishment, and we must take the initiative to recognize it. Then you won't feel that you are too upright.

However, some of us now have the notion that it doesn't matter if you admit such small mistakes, and that the cost of making mistakes is low. Oops, this kind of mistake is humiliating, you can't admit it, this kind of mistake is fatal, and you need to escape punishment, so don't be too upright, pay attention to a degree in everything.

Then the integrity at this time is very annoying.