What did you do in the first moments after your breakup?

Updated on society 2024-05-10
41 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I still can't let go of my heart, and I want to tell him not to leave me. Will be alone, hiding in the corner and crying. After the breakup, everyone is in a very bad mood.

    Because I felt why I lost her like this? Is it because you haven't done enough and are not good enough? But since you have broken up, you have to enlighten yourself, don't think about it so much, forget about him after crying, and continue to start a new life tomorrow.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    We broke up last night and thought it was nothing. However, after tossing and turning all night, I fell asleep in a daze at two o'clock in the morning.

    The story started last summer when we were taking basketball lessons together. In engineering schools, there are surprisingly few girls. If it weren't for the fact that the school had opened a college of economics and management, Chinese foreign school.

    I guess it's rare to have a few words with a girl in four years. There were only 21 people in our PE class, 3 girls. Three people are a profession and have nothing to say.

    At first, I didn't think there would be such a story. By chance, I added their friends, and after getting to know each other slowly. Often go out for a run together.

    I have been in contact with M for the longest time, and I was also my girlfriend later. Talk to each other about various topics, and fight the landlord together when they have nothing to say. After the relationship is confirmed, the speech is not as presumptuous as before.

    Later, when I came home for the summer vacation, I kept in touch. This relationship lasted almost half a year. During the Chinese New Year, he rarely spoke, and the connection faded.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    On the first day after the breakup, I chose to do what I loved by myself, then read a book, or play badminton, tennis, in short, to fill myself up. Don't think about these things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I went to a restaurant with my parents for a meal, because I thought that since I had broken up, I should spend time with my parents, so I thought it was the right thing to do and it would make me feel better.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    On the first day of the breakup, it was still a normal commute, maybe I would still think of each other in the interval between my breaks, and I would like to elaborate on the shortcomings of the other party, just don't let yourself regret it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What should come will still come, and you can only face it calmly. Be sure that it will get better and better Sadness is inevitable, and it's only a matter of time. If you want to be less sad, find more things for yourself to do. Fill your life to the fullest.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    On the first day after the breakup, I will feel groggy and unable to breathe, such a breakup has not been accepted by myself, I will go to my friends to relax, I will not stay at home alone, drink and sing, and vent my depressed mood.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    On the first day after the breakup, I would make an appointment with my friends to eat, sing, and go shopping with my girlfriends. After all, I must have had less time to make trouble with my friends before when I fell in love, and since I will break up, it must be that the other party and I are not suitable, otherwise I will definitely not break up with him casually. Breaking up is a trivial matter, don't worry too much, after all, many people like us don't have a chance to break up!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    On the first day after the breakup, I chose to organize my thoughts and choose to leave the place where I worked, and he also went to the station to see me off, but I didn't say goodbye to him alone, just chatting with my friends, he pulled me over and stuffed my headphones, and listened to "You are the love of my life", I threw away the headphones and got into the car without looking back. There is no other person in this life.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Of course, it's more sad, two people have feelings together, and the first day after the breakup is usually to lock themselves in the house, take ** leave and not go to work, the spirit is more decadent, and very sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I do a lot of things that I want to do, for example, I really like to play games, but when I'm with my partner, my partner always cares about me, so at this time I have a day of playing games, and I feel more relaxed.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    After the breakup, I will definitely be sad and sad, I will find my best friend to confide in it, tell the grievances in my heart to the other party, and let the other party comfort me, but I know in my heart that each other is not suitable for being together, it will only waste each other's time, and there will be no happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Alas, on the first day after the breakup, because I was in a particularly bad mood, I would lock myself in the house, not go out, repeat some sad **, and keep humming these**, in this way, my thoughts will also be driven by **. We don't have time to think about our own sorrows.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I didn't do much on the first day after I broke up, I ate a delicious meal, and then I slept a lot, and when I woke up the next day, I felt much better in all aspects, and I slowly stopped thinking about some things. It feels okay now.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Abide by the first day of life, naturally lose the places you went to when you were together before to find the original feeling, tell yourself that this relationship has passed, rest assured to tidy up yourself, tidy yourself up, and get ready for a new life and a new beginning.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Actually, I think I do a lot of things, I go out with my friends, or I play games with my friends, because I think it makes me happier.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    On the first day of the breakup, you still have to work to work, you have to study and learn, after all, we still have to live, we have to face reality. We can't just break up and we don't do anything. First of all, learn to be strong and brave.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    On the first day of the breakup, I asked my friends out to eat, kept eating, let myself not stop, went out to sing, shopping, buying, releasing myself, and didn't want to remind myself of the breakup.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I must have been restless, I couldn't eat, I couldn't sleep, so I immediately went to find each other, and now that we're back together, we're still very happy, so I have to be glad about my decision.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    The first day after the breakup was as calm as usual, normal work, regular work from 9 to 5 in the morning, no change, strong composure to stabilize myself, no too much catharsis and emotional output.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    What to do on the first day of breaking up with your lover? Different people will have different choices, but most people will choose to regulate their mood and eliminate the shadow of broken love, but the way and form of choice are also different, many people will choose to ask friends out for a drink, some will choose to travel, and some will choose to sleep at home.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    On the first day after the breakup, I locked myself in the house and didn't go out all day, and my mind was full of him. I feel like my mind doesn't listen to me. And so the day passed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Breaking up is not a big deal, and you can't talk about it for a while. After the breakup, I still went to and from work as usual on the first day, even if I felt a little sad, it didn't have much impact.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    On the first day after the breakup, I slept in a lazy sleep that woke up naturally, and no one woke me up again and let me have breakfast. Then I went out shopping for a few hours and it felt good that no one was pushing me.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    On the first day of a breakup like this, you're definitely going to have to calm down, and if you're putting a lot of emotion into it, you're both going to feel empty and lonely for a while because you love that person.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    After all, an inappropriate relationship can't get through. When two people can't be together, they can finally wave goodbye. What do you do in the moment after a breakup?

    There are a lot of memories between you. Whenever you eat and debate or go shopping, it is inevitable to feel a little sad when you recall the time when he was by your side. There is ** in your mobile phone, which is your eternal memory.

    What do you do with these ** after a breakup?

    Some people will keep it as a souvenir. After all, they love each other and are kind to each other. They taught each other a lot of things and truths.

    If this is something that your new girlfriend can't accept, I think you should consider the possibility of you being together. If it were me, I wouldn't object to my boyfriend leaving his ex-girlfriend's **, as a souvenir, to prove that you really love. I don't care how good your past is, I just need you to be good to me now.

    Even if you tear your ex-girlfriend's ** in front of your new girlfriend, you shouldn't secretly think of her when you pass by somewhere. Don't think about anything in your head. So, you might as well tell your new girlfriend in a big way and leave her ** as a souvenir!

    Because I want to cherish you more! In fact, everyone has a past. A ** doesn't mean anything, just a good memory.

    After all, it's the person you love, so it's good to treat others with a sedan chair.

    If you don't miss that memory, or you want to start a new life, then we can respect your choice and delete**. Because it's inevitable and the club doesn't want to stay in the shadows of the past, it's all up to you.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I will definitely find a way to keep him, because I really don't want to be separated from him in my heart, and I am willing to do anything if I can be with him again. Because I really don't want to miss it like this, I have paid so much. Still want to see a good result.

    I still hope that he can be moved!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    After the breakup, I will cry a lot, and then think about what happened before, miss my previous life, and at the same time listen to ** play games, decadent for a while, and then find a life and object that suits you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I break up, I will be separated from him immediately and will not be with him anymore. I will take away all the items that belong to me in the house, and then say goodbye to each other, after all, I have loved each other before.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then after you broke up, what I did was regret, so I immediately chased the other party back, and after my efforts, now we are finally together, and we are still very happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Usually I have a lot of things to do, I will reorganize myself, another bag, go and find another person worthy of love in my life, live with him, basically that's all.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    After a breakup, I like to stay alone quietly, look back on the time of the two people, find out the deep reason why the two people can't go to the end, and then completely forget about the former and start a new life.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    As the saying goes, in this world, no one can live without anyone, maybe you are used to having someone around you to rely on, give you comfort and warmth, but at this time you should learn to be emotionally independent, maybe you still have attachment to him (her), but this can only be said to be human nature.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    After the breakup, the first thing I did was to go crazy and play, and after the breakup, I would find a few friends who had a good time, go crazy together, go to singing, go to play, and play to an exhaustion. I wanted to cover up the sadness in my heart with an. I don't want the other person to see my sad appearance, I want the other person to know that I am still alive and well without the other party.

    However, when I returned home at night and was alone, I couldn't help crying.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    As hard as it was for us to break up, please accept the bad feelings.

    What you have to do during this time, pack up your mood and get ready to be a delicate and happy single aristocrat, adapting to a single life.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    1.Spend time with family and friends: When we are in a relationship, we often neglect family and friends, and after a breakup, you will have more time to spend with these important people in your life, and you will also learn how to balance your love in the next relationship.

    2.Reading: Reading can not only enrich your own connotation, but also broaden your horizons, and many times a single sentence can change a person's state of mind.

    If you feel depressed, it is better to plunge into the sea of books, the power of words is greater than you think, especially when you are emotionally vulnerable, you should put good thinking in your head.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Thank you for your interest.

    After the breakup, I will do a lot of meaningful things to divert my attention and get myself out of the shadow of the breakup as soon as possible. I believe that many people will feel very uncomfortable in their hearts after a breakup, and it will take a long time to get out of the shadow of the breakup, so we must do something meaningful after the breakup, which can also divert our attention and let us not be immersed in sadness all the time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    After the breakup, I felt that I still liked each other. I followed my roommate's advice and texted each other every day, either to ask about the other person's current situation or to say something inconsequential... insisted on sending it for a whole year, but the other party never replied to the text message. Once I was really uncomfortable, I couldn't help but hit the other party.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Of course, it is very sad, because two people have feelings together, and now after breaking up, the mood will be very sad, at this time, they usually lock themselves in the house, or continue to drink with friends to express the depression in their hearts.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    After the breakup, I would delete all the **s, and then throw all the things he gave me in the trash, and finally clean up all the articles about him.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    After the breakup, I will let myself be alone, find a city I have never been to and stop and go by myself, think about what I have not done well enough in this relationship, whether I have changed when this relationship ends, whether I have made progress or whether it has become better than before, I will summarize this relationship, and then I will let go and start my own life.

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