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Anonymous users2024-02-101.Invite someone to dinner.
Although it sounds cheesy, the truth is that a lot of relationships start at the dinner table, and in the atmosphere of eating, people become very casual, and you can start your interpersonal communication by talking about what you like to eat and whether you have been going well at work recently.
2.Talk about yourself more.
Extroverts like to talk about themselves, while introverts are always silently a listener and don't like to talk about themselves, at most they express their opinions on other people's things. Talking more about yourself is not about showing off what you have and what you are good at, but about making others know more about you and make you look more approachable.
3.Meet 10 key people.
Key people are those who are leading the way in an industry or field. Compared with ordinary little people or people who have no influence, these people are more able to grasp the trend of society and can provide you with some help. For example, if you want to know a marketer, you should get to know someone who knows a lot of marketers, talk to them, and give them as much help as you can.
If you know 10 of these people, you may actually have 100 connections.
4.It is better to develop new friends than to consolidate old ones.
The clothes are not as good as new, and the people are not as good as the old. The same applies when it comes to developing new friends. Don't forget old friends because you develop new ones, you must know that in this world, apart from interests, feelings are the most reliable.
Instead of spending 2 months in each of the 5 clubs for socializing, it is better to spend 10 months in one club. It's not just that you know each other and call it a friend, only after getting along for a long time can you make strangers your friends.
5.Don't think of interpersonal interactions as a hassle.
Another important reason why introverts are reluctant to deal with people is that they think it is troublesome and meaningless. This is a wrong view, to know that if you are in trouble, call ** to your 10 friends you know and ask them to help solve it quickly, or it is faster to find information by yourself. While the same problem can be solved, the efficiency is very different.
This world is all about efficiency, and instead of trying to break your head and not necessarily be able to come up with it, it is better to ask others to help. Therefore, it is necessary to spend more time to socialize, reduce the time cost, and increase the efficiency of solving troubles.
6.Join a favorite group.
I am an introvert and do not like to talk to strangers, mainly because I don't know how to start a topic and how to reach the harmony of conversation with each other. Friends who know me know that I can still talk very well when talking about TV series and **, let me tell her a TV series or **I can talk about it for a day. So, sometimes you don't know how to speak because you don't have a common topic or you don't see what other people are interested in.
Therefore, if you want to exercise your communicative skills and want to exercise your eloquence, start by joining your favorite group.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Sincerely treat those who want to be friends with you, and do a good job of communication.
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