I am more introverted and not easy to make friends, what should I do?

I believe that many introverts have the same troubles, eager to make friends, but don't know how to speak, retreat when they see people, always hide in the corner, and can't fit into the group. Fear of being ridiculed, fear of making a fool of yourself, and social phobia.

Two ways to make you needed by others!

1.The more information you have, the more likely you are to be needed.

For example, in the work group within the company, it is often not the leader or an expert who is most contacted, but the front desk. Because the front desk has more relevant information, such as visitors, contacts, couriers, food orders and other instant information.

2.The more help you provide, the more likely you are to be needed.

Offering a little help doesn't have to be complicated, but it can build rapport with each other. You may say, "I don't dare to take the initiative to communicate with others, how can I help others?" "The solution is to take the initiative to create opportunities and then accept other people's requests for help.

For example, in the office, the last place people want to sit is in the hallway, by the door, next to the water dispenser, next to the photocopier, because it is easy to be disturbed. However, sitting in these positions also naturally increases the chances of greeting and interacting with others.

They may need a little favor from you, or they may just want to have a chat with you. In group activities, if you want to mingle with everyone, the easiest way is to do more service things. While helping others, you can also develop your communication skills.

Therefore, once you are needed, you can improve your self-worth.

The first point is to make yourself very outgoing, so that you can make true friends, the second point is that you should usually chat with the opposite sex more, so that you can make friends, and the third point is that you should make yourself very temperamental and attractive, so that you can make friends.

You should try to change your personality and make yourself a little more open, and we can change little by little, so that we can make friends.

You don't have to deliberately make friends, because friends are not what you want to make, and you have to meet the person with the same three views at the right time to become friends. Making that kind of bosom friend has nothing to do with personality, unless it's a friend of wine and meat.

I think you should try to open your heart, try to socialize with different people, only by making friends extensively, it is possible to find a friend who has the same interests as you, it is not difficult to make friends, but you are not sincere to them, close your heart.

Slowly change yourself, make yourself a little more extroverted, change your personality through your own efforts, and believe that you can make friends after a long time.

There are not many friends, but whether there are really good friends and sincere friends. Being introverted just keeps you from having a lot of friends, but it just so happens that we can have time to be selective friends with people who are worthy of friendship.

Improve yourself by studying books on communication skills. Personality can be changed through cultivation, and making friends can start with learning and communicating with others.

Actively participate in outdoor activities to improve your communication skills. Keep exercising and improve your motivation. Free time to travel and increase knowledge.

At this time, you have to make yourself excellent, strong, and through continuous hard work, you have to change yourself and become valuable, and naturally those people will be attracted to you, so that it is easy to make friends.

For introverts who are not sociable, if they want to network, they always think that they should be sincere, attentive, and friendly, in fact, these practices will not help at all, the only thing that matters is your value.

Li Xiaolai once said: It is better to build a good network than to improve yourself.

At the end of the day, exchanging each other's value is simple, just as it's natural to buy something with money. If you don't have money, why would people give you something?

With the exception of those with similar interests, most relationships between successful people have a value of mutual exchange. For example, you understand psychology, I understand marketing, and he understands investment. Now, in the Internet society, the most important manifestation of this relationship is effective connection.

1. Knowledge will be recognized.

If you really want to know a big guy, no matter what the reason, whether it is the unity of opinion or worship and admiration, the reason does not matter at all. What matters is what is done and how to do it. Mix familiar faces, like more, this approach is really useless.

Comparatively, insightful comments will be more useful. If there is nitpicking in the comments, you can tell the facts and reasons to dispel the dissatisfaction of those keyboard warriors. The big guy will be happier to see it. When you've done this a lot of times, he's naturally going to pay more attention to you.

When you get along with people, thank you and sorry must always be on your lips, the waiter will serve you food, strangers will make way for you, and a friend will hand you a bottle of water......These little things have to say thank you, you are interspersed in the crowd to say: I'm sorry, please let it go, accidentally bump into someone and apologize, many people may think that what era is now, it should be informal, red tape should be avoided, in fact, these seemingly small trivial details, everywhere reveal your respect for others, your personal quality, which is also an effective way to pull into the relationship between people.

Then you have to learn from them, see how people have a lot of friends, learn their strengths, communicate more with friends, and help them more when you can.

You can first learn to speak in the mirror, and then slowly communicate with others, open your heart, and learn to accept others and communicate with others.