Is it right for the elders to do anything, and what should the elders be like

What the elders do is not necessarily right, if they say that you are a junior, you should let the elders, their values are too primitive. If it is completely said by the juniors, the elders can be inserted, and if the elders say it, the juniors must not be inserted. They think that what the elders say is what they say, and they don't listen to you when you reason with them!

Their values are: whether I am doing right or wrong, you have to listen!

Not exactly, they all do the same wrong things as we do, and you have to learn to filter and leave only the information that is worth learning from. People of the same generation, are there differences in their ideas? Not to mention the elders?

Sometimes it's easier for you to listen from their perspective and then express your thoughts. If you can't do it, then please don't be resentful, everyone will grow old one day.

I'm sure you're not right, first of all, no one is born right or right! But as younger generations, we really have to respect our elders and traditional Chinese virtues, hehe. However, it should not be blindly granted, and I am not used to the practice of some elders, and it is true that the times are different, the attitude is different, and the outlook on life is different.

But you can't help it, you can't turn against them, scold, and tear up the relationship. My words are to ignore the policy or point it out to them. But you'd better think about what is wrong with you and talk about it.

I just stick to two principles: 1Elders will also make mistakes, this is normal2We are different from the society they are exposed to, and the values and outlook on life are different! So you have to fully understand, no, you should talk to them well.

It is absolutely correct that ginger is old and spicy, and the most important thing for our Chinese children is to respect and love the young, which is a virtue. But as an adult, you should have a space to think independently, and no one can make decisions for you. Whether it's an elder or a friend, all you can give is advice.

No one can be held accountable for your decision. And who will be idle to find trouble for others, and it takes energy to find trouble.

That's not either. Respecting elders and the right and wrong of things is not a concept. Elders are not perfect, how can they be all right, but when dealing with the mistakes of elders, you must be skillful. It is necessary to make him realize his mistakes, but not to hurt the self-esteem of his elders, that is art, art, do you understand?

Elders sometimes make mistakes, but not everything is right.

It's unlikely that the elders will be right about everything. But something seems to be wrong with your mentality.

No, because we're going to do what we want to do.

As an elder, you must have to look like an elder. We must demand ourselves with moral standards, teach by word and deed, look like a parent in everything we say and do, and don't let juniors laugh at them. What should be said, what should be done, what should be criticized for education, or whether education should be criticized.

We must be strict with ourselves, be lenient with others, and be an example for future generations. Children should love and discipline when they are young, and let them fly when they become adults, so that they can learn to be independent, don't be too lenient, do not interfere in the children's lives, and live their old age.

Summary. A: First of all, those who are older than you are considered elders, and secondly, although they are younger than you, they are older than you, and then they are more educated and knowledgeable than you, and they can give you good benefits as elders.

Then there are those who have entered the industry before you in terms of academics and technology, which are also called seniors.

Answer: First of all, the older than you is the elder grandson, and secondly, although the age is younger than your Kaihui, the generation is older than you, and then you are more educated and knowledgeable, Cong Gao can give you good benefits can be the elders. Then there are those who have entered the industry before you in terms of academics and technology, which are also called seniors.

Elders are those who are the same generation as their fathers, and those who are older than their fathers, such as parents, aunts, uncles, uncles, grandparents, etc.; The opposite of the elder is the junior, for example, if the other party is staring at the elder, you are the junior; Zao Chao is the same generation as himself in Kaiyan Prefecture, such as brothers and sisters, are called peers.

Elders like to preach to others, and they feel that what they say is right. Elders rely on their age and seniority, so they can casually preach and criticize others, because even if he says it, others dare not refute it, because he is an elder and he is old. So he slowly developed such a bad habit, he himself still feels like this is very good, stupid pickpocketing, but in the eyes of others, he has no choice but to endure it, and he can't be disrespectful to his elders, just listen to it himself, and he won't take it seriously.

Very to the elders think that they have experienced a lot of things, so some of the ways they say about some things are also correct, and they have to let those young people do things according to their own words, but the young brothers and young people have their own methods and plans for this group, so they often contradict each other because of the disagreement of views, and in the end it is often the end of the young man who confronts the elder who gave him experience, and often complains that the young man is disobedient, so the young man is very rare. Some of the lessons given by the elders are not so useful now. Many elders just like to give all kinds of advice to young people, saying that they should get married at twenty, and if they don't get married, no one should want them, the sooner they get married, the better, others don't listen to what they say, they will get angry and lose their temper, and finally they quarrel, many of the elders' experience is outdated, and they are not suitable for the current society at all, so we must listen to the opinions of the elders appropriately.

The elders like to preach to others for the good of these young people, but many experiences are no longer applicable to this society, and they will still speak these experiences, as juniors, they only need to listen to it, and there is no need to take it seriously.

Every parent wants their children to continue to develop, succeed in their careers, and live happily. And children also need to be guided and educated by their elders in the process of growing up. ......However, in real life, children often do not listen to the opinions of their elders, which has a negative impact on their own development.

As a child, I am more than willing to listen to my elders. The reason why this is so is because the elders have rich experience and are worth learning, the elders see the problem more deeply, their opinions can give greater help to themselves and themselves, and the elders have rich experience and listen to their opinions to make themselves more effective with half the effort.

1. Elders have a wealth of experience, and their experience is worth learning from yourself.

Compared to children, elders have most of their life experiences, which gives them a wealth of experience that their children do not have. ......For children, the experience of their elders is worth learning, and listening to their opinions can help them gain guidance and help, which is more beneficial to their career development and well-being.

2. The elders see the problem more deeply, and their opinions can give them greater help.

In the course of one's experience, one has to face a variety of problems and difficulties, and one needs to take appropriate measures to deal with them. ......As elders, they see problems more deeply, and listening to their opinions can help them more. ......Therefore, it is natural for you to listen to the advice of your elders, so that you can not only solve the problems you face, but also learn from them.

3. The elders have rich experience, and listening to their opinions can achieve twice the result with half the effort.

For children, because they have less experience and less experience, they often fail to deal with problems when they are faced with them, so that the problems they face cannot be solved in a timely and proper manner. ......The elders have rich experience, and they have a stronger ability to deal with various problems in the town, so it will be more pertinent to give their children's opinions, and listening to their opinions can achieve twice the result with half the effort, which is more beneficial to the development of children. Therefore, children should listen to the advice of their elders, so that they can develop and progress more quickly, and pursue career success and happiness in life.

As children, it is worth considering whether we should unconditionally obey the opinions of our elders. My opinion is:

1.The elders have rich experience and credible positions, and their opinions deserve reference and attention. But that doesn't mean unconditional obedience. Because of the changes in the background and environment of the times, some of the concepts of the elders may not be in line with the current reality, which requires us to judge and choose.

2.We should respect the wishes and concerns of our elders, but we also have the right to stick to our own ideas on certain important decisions, especially in the choice of careers, objects and other major matters that are directly related to our own happiness, we need to make judgments based on our own actual situation. This cultivation chain is also a manifestation of growth.

3.We should actively communicate with our elders so that our elders understand our thoughts and considerations. Through mutual understanding and compromise, agreement can be reached, which is often the more desirable outcome.

If there is still no agreement, we should also clearly express our position, and then let the elders respect us.

4.Even if in the end our choices differ from those of our elders, we should understand the starting point of our elders' good intentions. It is likely that they insist on a certain choice out of concern and protection for us, and we need to express our gratitude, not resist or confrontation.

5.Any choice has its risks, and we must be responsible for our choices. If you choose to fail or have a problem, you should not blame your elders, but actively seek solutions and learn from your failures.

This can also reduce the burden on the elders and let them see our maturity and progress.

Therefore, as children, we should respect and value the opinions of our elders, but we do not have to listen unconditionally. It's normal to stick to yourself on some major decisions, but we have to actively communicate and reach a common match; If we still disagree, we should express it clearly, and then have our elders respect our choices, which is the key to harmony.

Any choice must be responsible, this is also a lesson that cannot be delayed in growth, and the elders who care about it will eventually be gratified by our growth, which is also.

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