What exactly should a friend look like?

In our daily life, our growth is inseparable from friends. Our lives are so beautiful because of our friends.

Threesome, there must be my teacher", for me, friends are the mirror of our life and the compass of our voyage. Shine a light on our shortcomings and shortcomings, and show us the way. When we do things to show our shortcomings, friends should be bold enough to point out our shortcomings and show us how to better solve them.

For example, if I doze off in class and play on my phone, my friends should persuade me to correct this bad behavior. When I behave incivilly with others, my friends should point out my bad things and then remind me that I should be polite in dealing with others.

Furthermore, a friend should be the kind of person who can considerately confide in me when I am sad, and gently comfort me for troubles and sadness. A friend should be the kind of friend who can be by my side when I am in trouble, and overcome difficulties and setbacks with me. Friends are the lighthouse in the darkness, showing us the way forward, the charcoal fire in the snow, driving away the cold and bringing warmth.

My friend is still the one who can cry and laugh with me, we have a common language, a common hobby.

In the end, I feel that a friend is someone who can help me when I am in trouble, so that I can get out of my situation better. No one is perfect, everyone will have difficulties and setbacks, when we are in difficult times are friends who can help us are real friends. For example, when I am sad, friends can give me joy; When I have confusion, my friends can give me answers; When I fell into the abyss, my friends reached out.

In my eyes, a friend is the kind of person who can have a common topic with himself, and he has the same personality and hobbies, what I like and you happen to like it too, this is the tacit understanding, I hate a person and it happens that you also hate her.

A friend is the kind of person who can accompany me to eat, sleep, take a bath, go to the commissary together, go to the toilet together, comfort you by your side when you are sad, and scold or even beat her when others hurt you.

We all know that girls' friendships are very strange, sometimes it starts with a common dislike of a person, there will always be a topic to talk about when we are together, it won't be like others, although you walk together, but you won't say a word along the way, will you feel embarrassed? <>

Isn't there a song called Friends, friends go together for a lifetime, which days are no longer there, a word, a lifetime, a lifetime of love, a glass of wine, friends have never been lonely, there will be friends for a lifetime, I think this song is written very truthfully That's it, between friends is a word, a glass of wine.

I've been living for 20 years, and I don't think I've made many friends, but they're all true, really, when I don't have money, they can give me half of their living expenses, give me a stinking meal when I don't want to eat, and then pull me out to eat, and if I really don't go, they will bring it to me.

I am really grateful to them, whether it is in junior high school or high school, they can have a few sincere hearts to me, I think my high school three years were not in vain, some people in school want grades, and I have no grades, but I have made true friends I think it is worth it.

I think the earth is so big, it is a kind of fate to be able to meet, and what brings us closer is that we become friends, we can have a lot of things to say and do together, if you meet a friend who is sincere to you, please be sure to cherish it.

Friends, although they don't have to stick a knife in both sides and go to the soup, but when you have difficulties, a friend who can't stand up is actually not a real friend, if he has the ability.

There is a good saying: "If you want to lose a friend, then go and lend him money".

Because money is the most likely thing to affect feelings, especially between friends, it is best not to be involved with money, do not borrow money from friends, and do not lend money to friends easily.

This sentence seems to make sense, but why should I borrow money from you if I don't have difficulties!

I don't borrow money because I don't want to lose my friend", but the problem is that you don't want to help me when I'm in trouble, is this a friend?

Is it difficult to help yourself and don't want to make me a friend?

Sometimes I wonder if I don't borrow money to help myself, saying that I don't want to lose my friend, and borrowing money to help myself says that we are friends.

So what kind of people are not friends? What should a true friend look like?

Zhuangzi said: The friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and the friendship of a villain is sweet. The gentleman is indifferent, and the villain is willing to be rejected.

This is the ideal realm of friendship, as long as we work towards this aspect, although we may not reach that realm, but after all, it makes friendship more pure; It's like though you can't go into the garden; By trying to get close to the garden, you can smell the fragrance of fish and flowers, and you can see the bright branches on the wall, which can make the body and mind edify and pleasure to a certain extent, which is much better than glue in the pursuit of fame and fortune, and use each other by any means.

A friend should be called upon whenever you need him. Even if you can't meet face-to-face, you should care about her. A friend should be someone to talk to when he is sad.

I didn't need to hide from him, I didn't need to lie to him, I was able to expose my truest side of myself to him. <

A friend should be the one who supports you when you're right and stands up to correct you when you're wrong. He won't just compliment you. What she can do is help you when you are in trouble, even if it is to encourage you or to make a small contribution, but as long as he has this heart, it is enough.

In today's utilitarian world, how many real friends do you have who can help you when you are in trouble? There are a few more who can be by your side, encourage you and comfort you when you lose love.

We usually think of friendship too well, but in fact, the relationship between friends is very fragile, if you don't care to protect your friends, you will immediately become a stranger or an enemy in the next second. So what kind of friend should be, he should be a person who can stand next to you and help you rationally analyze the right and wrong things to do. Friends should be the first person you will want to hit ** to his in addition to parents and lovers.

I imagine a friend who can help you when you are in trouble, and can have fun with you when you are happy.

I'm not very good-tempered, but I'm not particularly bad, I can definitely get along with me, so I also have several good friends, for some good friends, girlfriends, I think it's cold outside, you can go to her arms to stay, you can borrow his shoulder to lean on, he can take the trouble to listen to you what you experienced outside, can say what she wants to say without any worries, tell you the most true thoughts, not through a hypocritical face to accompany you.

When you are happy, he is even happier than you, like a child of a few years old, now we are really any kind of person can meet, you like, you don't like, but at this time you also need to make friends, but also need to be sincere, as a friend I think the most basic is a sincere heart, a true heart is the most should have, and, since it is a friend, don't face a set behind the back, you have to treat him sincerely, that is, I help you when you are in trouble, not retreat, I'll be happy if you're happy, I guess that's the way it is.

Friends are the easiest way to get along, even if you don't contact for a long time, you will have a lot to say after you get together, even if you haven't seen each other for many years, there are endless topics to talk about when you meet. When you get sick, I can rush over as soon as possible, no matter how far away or how close. I just want to be a person you can be by your side when you have something, I don't want much, just a friend, just a friend who really gives.

Finally, I want to tell you that when making friends, you can be careful and know how to distinguish, not everyone can make friends, and not everyone is suitable for you.

I think a friend is someone who doesn't need to be in contact every day, but no matter how long they don't connect, they still have that familiar feeling when they communicate. Some people are fine if you talk to them every day, but once there is no contact after a period of time, they will be unfamiliar and will slowly forget. We must admit that everyone has different people to accompany each stage, and the vast majority of people we meet in life can only accompany you for a certain period, after which you will have to be replaced by another person.

Only a small number of them can step out of that period to accompany you on a longer journey, not affected by the class status and geographical distance between you, and that kind of person is called a friend. No matter how much time passed, that friendship still didn't change. Also, friends are not only people you think of when you're in trouble, but also people you think about when you're good.

Blessings are shared, difficulties are shared, this is the investigation and test of friendship, both are indispensable, and they are both very important.

In life, each of us will have friends. Whether it's a good game or an average one, some people will boast about their popularity because they have a lot of friends. Some people have a withdrawn personality and have relatively few friends.

We all have friends, so what makes a friend? What does it really mean to be a friend? I have the following views on this issue.

First, friends are the people you want to share with when you have something happy. When we encounter happy things, you need someone to share, and the person you want to find the most at this time is your friend, not everyone you will want to share. Usually that kind of wine and meat friend is not a real friend at all.

The older you get, the fewer people you want to share. It's not that we don't have friends, it's that we understand the meaning of friends better, and there are fewer and fewer people we want to share with when we're happy. If you can think of the person you can think of when you are happy, and go to him, it means that he is still your friend.

Second, a friend is the person you want to talk to the most when you're sad. When you are sad, you want to find that person to tell them about your sadness. The other party will come to you as soon as possible to comfort you.

Until you know you're well. Such people are our friends, and this is the true meaning of friends. Friends are not the icing on the cake, but our good friends.

We feel that we have a lot of friends in life, but think about it, how many real friends are there? When you have a problem and you want to ask someone for help, who do you think of? Actually, it's not much, we have to recognize the reality.

There are not many friends, but fine.

As the saying goes, friends should be blessed together, share difficulties, when you encounter difficulties, you can reach out to help you, when your friends encounter difficulties, you can also reach out in time to help your friend find a way to help him solve problems.

I'm going to share with you what happened between me and my good friend.

My good friend and I can be said to have grown up together since childhood, we have been in the same school since elementary school, her grades are very good, my grades in primary school were not good, because we are in the same class Every time I ask her a question, she will patiently tell me, help me clarify my thinking, and explain it to me. When I was in junior high school, I was divided into classes, and the two of us were not in the same class, but in a school, every time we both went home together after school, and went to school together, I felt very good at the time, I remember when I was in the third year of junior high school, I felt that I couldn't get into a good high school with my grades, so he came to comfort me, after his certain enlightenment, I felt that my pressure was not so great, after the high school entrance examination, we were both admitted to the same high school, and I spent 6,000 yuan to buy it at that time. When the first year of high school started, this friend of mine was very homesick and could not adapt to the learning environment of high school, because the pressure of Maotanchang School was very high, so he went to my dormitory to find me on Sunday, and we talked together and chatted about family life, and I felt that he was in a much better mood and my mood was much better.

When I was about to take the college entrance examination, I did very badly in the last monthly exam, I felt that I couldn't pass the three books, I cried, she told me a lot, I still remember, if it weren't for him, I felt like I couldn't get into college. Just this year, my boyfriend was not admitted to the college he applied for, and he was transferred to their undergraduate school, and when I accompanied my boyfriend to the re-examination, she arranged everything for us, and I was really touched at the time, and I felt that this friend was not in vain.

I hope my experience can inspire you and help you.