How do you guide your child to tell the truth? How do you guide your child to speak up?

1) Be cautious about criticism.

Whether it's your child's fault or not, if you want your child to tell you what happened, attacking and criticizing is not the way to go. Also, don't jump to conclusions too soon and wait for him to finish the whole story. After listening to his story, it is more important to induce them to discover the answer or solution to the problem themselves.

As children continue to mature, parents should go more and more behind the scenes and give their children the opportunity to think and solve problems on their own.

2) Create opportunities.

Kids, let's talk! "If your conversation starts like this, it often ends up being you alone. However, when you're playing basketball together, driving home, or doing laundry together on the weekend, it's often a time for kids to talk and chatter.

If you want to know more about your child's life, you need to create opportunities for them to be free of pressure and to be active with you. When you really need to ask questions, use less "why", a word that tends to inspire rebellion.

c) Control the reaction.

For example, even though your son is as disappointed as he is when he tells you that he was not drafted for the varsity soccer team, you can't let that sentiment show. Otherwise, it will cause him to only report good news and not bad news in the future.

4) Select a time.

7 o'clock after dinner is the time when your child wants to tell you a lot of things, and you may have a lot of bowls to wash, but you better stay at the table and listen patiently. Adults are always planning their next steps, while children are focused on the present and stick to their schedules.

5) Reward honesty.

When a child does something wrong, you must first affirm his honesty in admitting his mistake to you. Children are most worried about losing their parents' love because of their wrong behavior, so you need to pay special attention to encouraging them to develop a good habit of actively admitting their mistakes.

6) Respect for privacy.

Even for the most open and friendly parents, children have their own secrets, especially during their teenage years, when they begin to learn to separate from their parents and rely more and more on friends. All we should do is let them know that you are always there for them if they need it.

7) Keep it confidential for him.

Imagine how your best friend would feel if she passed on the most secret thing you told her to someone else? The same goes for children, and this can be the quickest way you can lose trust.

8) Make up for it in a timely manner.

No matter how much we pay attention, there are always mistakes that are made, and it is extremely important to make up for them in time. Be willing to put down the shelves and admit your mistakes to your child.

1.First of all, parents should guide their children to inform or understand what is going on through other means in the right way.

2.Secondly, parents should tell their children that they are always dependent on their children and must speak up when they encounter things. In this way, we can find a way to solve it.

3.If you feel that your child is particularly resistant to contact with an adult, you should pay attention to it (if an adult does not let the child inform the parents, then the child must inform the parents in time, because in the first place, the parents will support and protect the child. ）

4.When the child hesitates about one thing after the spring reunion, parents can tell the child that if they hesitate or doubt about something, don't worry, you can tell your parents the point of confusion, sit down and discuss.

At a young age, lies come as soon as parents guide him to tell the truth: the first thing parents should do is to communicate with their children seriously, not to scold their children, but to grasp the reasons why their children lie. Some children get not very good test results in school, and they are afraid of being beaten by their parents when they go home, so they will lie to their parents, and parents do not have to put a lot of work pressure on their children, and they will make their children mentally tired and do not know how to talk to their parents.

Parents use reasonable methods to communicate with their children, and correctly guide their children to learn to be human beings. If a parent keeps blaming and losing his temper with his child, the child will become more and more fond of talking. What parents need to do is not to let their children shirk their responsibilities and let their children learn to take on their own obligations.

In some cases, parents are likely to not understand the child's requirements, and the child will not understand the love of the parents, and the child will choose to shirk the responsibility and lie to the parents. Let the child feel the love of the parents and correct the child, so that the child will not make mistakes again, the child lies for a reason, and the parent does not have to scold the child hastily.

If parents find out that their children are lying, they need to learn to correct their own bodies, and it is very likely that the children's lying is genetically inherited from the characteristics of the parents, and if the parents have been lying in front of the children's eyes, the children will imitate the parents' behavior. Parents should be a good role model for their children, and they don't have to put too much pressure on their children, and they will lie to their parents. If a parent wants to educate their children accurately, the first thing to do is to think independently from the child's point of view.

In the case of some children lying, they immediately lie to their parents in front of everyone's eyes, and when the parents learn that their children are lying, they will immediately expose the child's lies in public. As a parent, you should realize that every child will have strong self-esteem when they develop into a different age group. When encountering the problem of children lying, parents must bring their children back to solve the difficulties, and do not say that the child is wrong in front of others.

1.Listen patiently to your child's explanations.

Sometimes children lie for other purposes. Therefore, parents must give their children enough time after discovering that they are lying, so that they have the opportunity to be.

2.Parents should lead by example.

Parents want their children to be honest and trustworthy, so they should also regulate their behavior in daily life and be an honest and trustworthy person. Because many times the words and deeds of parents will affect their children, and what kind of person parents want their children to become, then they should become that kind of person first.

3.Provide a relatively relaxed environment.

Most children lie because they want to escape punishment from their parents. Therefore, if parents really want their children to tell the reason for lying, and want to really help their children get rid of this habit, then they should first adjust their mentality and education style. Think more from your child's point of view and provide them with a relatively relaxed conversation environment.

When parents find that their children are lying, they should stop their children in time and give them education, they can give their children appropriate punishments, let them take the initiative to bear the consequences, do not beat and scold their children, but give their children the correct education, you can read more honest picture books and stories for your children, let your children be an honest person, and parents can also influence their children by example.

We can teach our children that this is not the right way, that if they lie so often, no one will believe them, and we must also tell them about the seriousness of the matter.

Tell the truth for yourself first... Guide your child!

First of all, if you find that the child is lying, don't be in a hurry to be filial piety and scold, because this will make the child more afraid, but will continue to lie, you should judge whether the child is lying intentionally or unintentionally, intentionally should be educated and corrected on the side, and unintentionally should be positively guided.

When children make mistakes, parents should not always teach their children harshly, otherwise children will be afraid of their parents, and they dare not tell their parents about anything.

I think when a child tells a lie, it must be directly exposed. In this way, the child will have no way to lie anymore, and can only tell the truth.

Don't always think about how to ask your child to tell the truth, if the child doesn't tell you the truth, it may also be your own reason, to become friends with the child, don't force him, ask him to slowly accept you as a friend, ask him to trust you slowly, when he is completely relaxed, he will tell you the truth, don't beat him, don't scold him, tell him the reason, this kind of education is the best. When he grows up, he can feel how much you love him, how much he feels sorry for him, how much he loves you, how much he feels sorry for you, you can't be indifferent to him, otherwise he won't tell you anything, the interaction should be good, preferably his favorite. Take good care of him, support him silently, and the child will one day understand that he is all to you.

If it becomes a habit for a child to tell lies, his behavior will become one thing in front of him and another behind his back, and it is easy to embark on the road of making mistakes, doing bad things, or even breaking the law and committing crimes. Therefore, parents must teach their children not to lie and tell the truth.

In the process of children's growth, if parents create an environment for their children to protect and nurture their children to tell the truth, the children will naturally develop a good habit of telling the truth, and when they grow up, they will also become a decent and honest person, who will be welcomed and respected by people. Because only when a person tells the truth, believes in others, and has confidence in life, will he face all kinds of things with a clear conscience, and will he be trusted and understood by others. Specifically, parents can work hard in the following aspects to cultivate a good habit of telling the truth in their children.

First, set an example for your child to tell the truth. Parents themselves must first tell the truth, set an example for their children, no matter what the situation is, do not lie, do not lie, say anything, do what they say, let their children see how their parents do, and let children understand why they can't lie and tell lies. Some parents often "coax" their children when they are unhappy or happy, write blank checks to their children, and make many promises that they are not ready to keep.

Parents may think that these are jokes and not worth taking seriously, but in fact, it is easy to leave a bad impression in the minds of children that "what Mom and Dad say doesn't count", so that family education loses its foundation, because parents who are not trusted by their children cannot teach their children well.

If the child suffers outside because of telling the truth, parents should find a way to do the child's ideological work, clearly express support for the child to tell the truth, and encourage the child to be a sincere person. In short, encourage your child to tell the truth whenever and wherever you want, so that your child can keep telling the truth as a habit and become an honest person.

Third, reason with your child calmly. Some parents have high expectations for their children, and once their children's behavior does not meet their own requirements, they will severely reprimand or even punch and kick. Many parents think that being strict with their children is responsible for their future and hopes that they will be able to get ahead, but they do not know that this method is likely to "force" their children to a dead end full of lies.

When being taught unreasonable lessons by their parents, many children often hide some real things in order to avoid reprimand, and deal with their parents with false words, false situations, and false news, reporting good news but not bad news. Therefore, parents' requirements for their children must be appropriate, even if the child does make such and such mistakes due to his own reasons, such as poor academic performance, fighting with others, spending money indiscriminately, undisciplined, etc., parents must also be calm and reasonable with their children, and cannot force their children violently in a way that is overwhelming.

Because "high pressure" only brings falsehood.

Fourth, teach children to reflect on themselves every day.

Sometimes children don't know that what they know is wrong and they don't necessarily understand themselves.

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