My boyfriend gave up on our love and chose a blind date

I think it's better for you to give up, such a man is not worth your efforts for him, I think even if he is retained this time, maybe when he will change his mind again. It is difficult for a woman to let go of the relationship for more than two years, but for a man, it is absolutely easy for him to let go, because after a long time, a man's love for a woman is not as warm as it was at the beginning, and the woman is becoming more and more enthusiastic from the beginning of the coldness, so I advise you to change to a true love.

I feel like this thing: your boyfriend is like a ladder for you to climb up a cliff, and then he suddenly leaves. Now you are already in the "high altitude". You are now psychologically at a crossroads. Be sure to grasp your own mentality!!

At this time, you can: try to find this ladder, that is, see if you can save this ending. If it can't be recovered. Well, since the original ladder is gone. You just look for a better one. If you want to forget someone, it's very simple, find a better one.

The landlord asked: How to redeem it? You can go to his house and talk to him. Let his parents see that you love him and like him very much. And what you're going to say, sentence structure, and so on, be prepared.

Fail, don't be discouraged. You still have a long way to go in life.

Succeeded, I wish you happiness.

In fact, people who love each other may not be the right person to get married at the right time, and you also said that you are divided and combined!! Now he has given up your relationship and chose to go on a blind date, on the one hand, because of his parents, but also because he already feels that you are not suitable for each other to marry.

Try harder and see if you can save his heart, and if not, you can let it go!! Find someone who is suitable for marriage.

This kind of man will definitely betray his wife in the future. You lose a cheap man, you have one more chance to find a good man, what's so bad.

Since he chooses, don't force it.

Don't take the initiative to contact him first, let him think about it, and you should be calm and calm.

I've been on a blind date and I know, since it's a blind date, I say that the parents of both sides are very satisfied, and maybe the family conditions of the two sides are more compatible in all aspects, and the purpose of a blind date is to get married.

There is nothing more difficult to choose in life than love!

This kind of man who has no sense of responsibility at all is not worth your life for him.

Do you need to redeem it? Redeem someone who doesn't cherish you at all, do you think it's necessary to have this? Stupid woman, this is the pitiful and sad thing about women. Ay.

If it's not worth it, let it go, why hurt others and yourself like this.

In my opinion, if there was no love, then I would definitely give up this marriageThis is because marriage is not two people living together, and a marriage without love is incomplete and imperfect. And since there is no love between two people, how can we guarantee that two people will grow old together。In other words, if there is no love between two people, it is actually a better choice to give up the marriage.

1. Marriage is not about two people living together

You must know that marriage is a responsibility, and love is the foundation of marriage, and it is also the motivation for two people to shoulder responsibilities after marriage. If there is no love in a marriage, then it also means that the marriage has lost its foundation, and the parties in the marriage are actually no different from living together. Just imagine, if you don't love each other, and the other person doesn't love you, the marriage between the two of you is like a backwater.

In such a situation, marriage has become a shackle for the two. It can be said that a marriage without love is incomplete, imperfect, and not even a marriage. So in my opinion,If there is no love, giving up this marriage is actually the best choice, otherwise you are likely to be dragged down by this marriage.

Second, how to ensure that two people can grow old together without love

Love can be said to be a promise that allows two people to support each other and spend the rest of their lives with each other after starting a family. And a marriage without love is actually very difficult to get to the end. This is because if there is no love, then many factors will bring damage to the marriage of the two, in this case the two people will have a very difficult time in this marriage, once one of the parties can not withstand the pressure, then the marriage is likely to end directly.

What's more, when such a marriage ends, all that is left for you is a piece of chicken feathers, and you are likely to fall into endless regret. Therefore,In my opinion, it is better to make up your mind to give up a loveless marriage at the beginning than to regret it years later.

In general, in the absence of love, I think such a marriage should be abandoned.

Hello, you and your boyfriend met on a blind date, you should not give up this marriage because there is no love, so that the relationship between the two of you after marriage will become deeper and deeper, and life will be happier and more satisfying.

Of course not, love is actually to put it bluntly, it is the feeling process that we will have in the early days, and then on a blind date, if two people love each other very much, it is actually a kind of love, and then slowly cultivate feelings, this marriage will definitely be happy.

I met my boyfriend on a blind date show, and if there was no love, I would definitely give up this marriage.

No, because the two of us are still very suitable, and the right people get married together, and such a marriage can be maintained.

will not give up, because marriage is firewood, rice, oil and salt, and life, not love that cannot be touched and cannot be seen.

If you are already with the person you love, there is no need to ruin the life created between two people for unrealistic ideas! This will have irreparable consequences!

If it is because there is no love, it is better to give up the marriage, because a marriage without love is very painful. Two people may not be able to last long together in the future.

You shouldn't necessarily give up, because there is no love, maybe it's just a momentary feeling, if all the conditions match and get along, maybe there will be a different spark!

Yes, I will give up a marriage because of no love, because such two people have no emotional foundation, and there is no tacit understanding, and they can't go on for a long time.

Feelings can be cultivated slowly, as long as he is good to you and responsible for you, in fact, I think it's okay, don't give up.

In fact, I think under normal circumstances, since you have already had a lot of interactions, you will not let go of your feelings because of some trivial matters.

Nowadays, people because of work and other reasons, the scope of knowing the opposite sex is getting smaller and smaller, in their own controllable circle, there is no way to meet too many new people of the opposite sex, drink contact with more interesting people, so many people in order to solve the problem of singleness on the road to the blind date, but blind date for many people is biased towards the state of fast food. Bao Zhe wants to go on a blind date for the purpose of getting married quickly, thus ignoring the feelings in the feeling of getting along with the two, these problems, many people go on a blind date just because they get married, and they come together when they meet a person who they think is more suitable, but as for whether there is love, it is more difficult to define.

In order to achieve the goal of marriage, many people don't care much about love, especially for older men and women, love seems to be very far away for them, and even no longer believe in the existence of love, and feel that as long as there is material and suitable in marriage, it can be maintained, in fact, in my opinion, marriage without love is empty, it is boring, and marriage itself is two people and two families. combination, but his most fundamental foundation is still the relationship between two people, there is no emotion, if you just rely on the right to maintain, there may not be much problem for the time being, but whenever there is a little conflict, you will find the clues.

For me, if it is a marriage without love, I will not accept it, because people say that it is not long in a lifetime, it is not short to say that it is not short, and it is most important for people to live comfortably, and a marriage without love may be relatively numb, and it is better for a person to come freely, and two people who do not love each other do not have any happiness at all. This is the true meaning of marriage, not just two people getting married, completing a task, giving birth to a child, it seems to continue the state of their parents to their own generation, and thus fall into marriage, which should be a palace, not a grave.

Therefore, a marriage without love is imperfect, I will not accept a marriage without love, and if there is no love in the marriage, I will give up.

No, because love can be cultivated, two people will gradually have love after being together for a long time, so I will not give up this marriage because there is no love.

will give up a marriage because of a love that will never swerve to death, but such a love basically does not exist, and it will choose to love only one person for the rest of his life to be too little.

No, because two people are already married, after getting married, they should manage this marriage well, cultivate their feelings, and not give up this marriage because they have no love.

I feel that if there is no love in this marriage, there is no point in living together, but it will delay the time of two people, and I will still choose to give up this marriage.

I won't, I think marriage is not child's play, and marriage is managed by two people working together, as long as it is managed well, then it will also make the relationship between two people better, and will get more happiness.

I will. Because love plays a very key role in marriage, if there is no love, you will slowly get bored with this person, and you will hate what he does. Your marriage won't last long.

I will give up this marriage because there is no love, because if there is no love, the relationship between two people will not last long, and being together is also tormenting each other.

Of course, I will give up, because if a marriage wants to last long, it must first be sweet, and if there is no love, then there is no need for this marriage to exist.

No, if two people can actually get along in harmony in life, there is no need to have love.

No, because love is only one part of marriage, and the most important thing in marriage is suitability.

Yes, a marriage without love, it's not impossible for me to choose, without any emotional foundation, even if we are together, we will eventually divorce.

Yes, this is because if there is no love between two people, there is no way for the relationship to continue, and this kind of love belongs to the future, and the final result can only be separation.

Absolutely, because no love in marriage can make us very silent, so I will.

You care a lot about the blind date will give up on you, which means that you are already tempted, when you start to be tempted, this person is not just a blind date, but the person you like, so your problem can be transformed into what to do if the person I like doesn't like me. The problem is very simple, when a person doesn't like you, you either go for it or choose to give up.

If you strive for it, you need to improve yourself, and show your good in front of him, so that he thinks you are very good, to attract him to read Tan, not to pursue him, this closed highlight has the hope of really capturing the other party's heart. If you decide to give up, it's very simple, just say goodbye, and there will be the next store in this village, so don't worry about no one wanting.

The blind date object finally chooses to give up on you. In this case, it depends on why he gave up on you because he knew why. If your hardware can't meet the requirements of the Jane Bu to eliminate his cheats in the manuscript. I don't think you can get it back, and you don't have to work in vain.

If the subject finally chooses to give up on you, I don't think there is any need to redeem him, because if she gives up on you, she will have no feelings for you.

I don't think there's any need to redeem it, after all, the two of you don't have a good foundation for arguing and feasting, he thinks you're not suitable, and if you force it, it's useless for Wanxiang Town, so it's better to find someone else on a blind date.

If the blind date partner finally chooses to give up and choose to redeem himself, there is no need to be because the other party has no feelings for you.

Since it is a blind date, he should have been on a blind date for many people, so it is normal that he did not choose you, so it is recommended to maintain an optimistic attitude.

Then you can tell the other person that you like him very much in your heart, hope that there will be a result with him, and hope that he can give you another chance.

Since the other party has chosen to give up on you, why are you going to redeem it? This person must have backbone, and everyone has their own dignity.

It depends on what has gone wrong with you lately, or if you have met someone better.