My dad is surfing the Internet in my room, what should I do?

After all, as a son of man, you have to be considerate of your father.

It's not easy for my father to work outside the home.

If you want to relax, these are the only ways.

You think about why you smoke, why you want to talk to people, think about it from the beginning:

Solution: Start from the origin, reason to explain that smoking is not good for people's bodies, smoke less, smoke some when necessary, the computer reasonably allocates time to both body and mind, you can teach him to sing, more ** other songs for him to listen to, pay more attention to the people around him, not people who have never met on the Internet, do not have deep feelings, everything starts from the good side, not the side of resistance.

What is yours pls ?

Did you buy it with your own money?

It wasn't your father who bought it, but your mother paid for it.

Children, indeed such a father is indeed distressing enough.

I have a way to do it with one hammer, but this method is too cruel for my father, so I'll give you a small way.

The firewall has application rules, which program is available, which is not available, you adjust it yourself, remember that this time he can't go up, you have to be furious, it's better to cry a few words, don't let him go online, if you want to buy a new one yourself, the premise is that he doesn't know how to use a computer.

Hehe, I used to feel the same way as you, I am a girl, and my father always smokes when I surf the Internet in my house, and now I work in the field, and every time I go home, I have to kill poison for half a day, but now I always miss the smell of my father's cigarettes, and when I go home, he looks at me killing drugs and then stands behind me like a child who made a mistake, I feel very distressed.

In fact, everything is different from another angle, go home and spend more time with your parents, did you take care of his emotions when you were crying and making trouble when you were a child?

I don't know if I helped you solve the problem, but I just saw it and thought of myself.

I want to say right now, "If you have the ability to play badly, I'll buy you a better one".

You can discuss this with him... But as for the song, you can't blame anyone, everyone has their favorite singer!! This is also something you need to understand. However, smoking and other issues are best discussed.

Discuss with your dad don't let him do this, and if he doesn't work, make a rule with him that you can only enter your room to play on the computer within the specified time.

It's simple, just set a password on the computer, and he said his, you get yours! Dead or alive just don't give him it, what do you think he does?

It's easy, move the computer to his room.

It might be useful to ask your mother to talk to him.

It would be nice to buy another computer.

It is simple and hides the main power cord.

Next time, I'll drop the computer like this!

It's okay to talk to him about not coming into your room if he's okay, asking him to leave some space for you, or knocking on the door or something, and it's better not to enter your room while you're away. If that doesn't work, lock the door and lock what you need to keep secret.

If it's your dad who wants to surf the internet, move the computer out of your room. If your dad wants to discover your secrets, such as a diary, you can tentatively tell your dad a little bit of anger. Hope it helps.

From your questioning, you can find that your father's entry into your room is largely due to your own problems.

You're not a notebook, are you? If not, your dad unplugged the cable on the console, or loosened it.

Here's a suggestion: You can ask your dad why he didn't let you go online, see what you did wrong, and correct it, which is much better than if you secretly went online.

Isn't it time for a login password? Or your cat has your dad done it, you can go and see it.

The Internet settings have changed.,Your dad used only that computer to access the Internet.,It should be OK to change it back.,But I still want to say.,Try not to secretly get on it.。

If one day, you find that your mother's kitchen is not as clean as before, and if one day, you find that the dishes and chopsticks at home do not seem to be clean.

If one day, you find that your mother's pot is no longer shiny.

If one day, you find that your father's flowers and trees are gradually abandoned.

If one day, you find that the floor wardrobe in your home is often covered with dust, and if one day, you find that the dishes cooked by your mother are too salty and unpalatable.

If one day, you find that your parents often forget to turn off the gas.

If one day, you find that some of the habits of your old parents are no longer habits, just like when they no longer want to take a bath every day.

If one day, you find that your parents no longer like to eat crispy fruits and vegetables.

If one day, you find that your parents love to eat cooked dishes.

If one day, you find out that your parents like to eat porridge.

If one day, you find that they are slow to cross the street, and if one day, you find that they are coughing all the time during mealtime, don't mistake them for a cold or a cold, (that's a sign of swallowing nerve aging).

If one day, you find that they don't like to go out anymore...

If one day I'm going to tell you, you have to be alert that your parents are really old and their organs have deteriorated to the point where they need to be taken care of.

If you can't take care of them, find someone to take care of them.

And I ask you to visit often.

Don't make them feel abandoned.

Everyone gets old.

My parents were older than us.

We have to take care of him with the mood of role reversal.

Only then will there be patience, so that there will be no complaints.

When parents can't take care of themselves, they should be vigilant for their children, they may be incontinent, they may not be able to do many things well, if there is a smell in the room, they may not be able to smell it themselves, please don't think he is dirty or smelly, children can only help him clean up, and please maintain their "self-esteem".

When they don't like bathing anymore, take the time to wash their bodies regularly, thinking that even if they wash themselves, they may not be able to wash them clean.

When we are enjoying the food, please prepare a small bowl for them that is the right size and easy to chew, because they may not be able to bite their teeth if they don't like it.

From the moment we are born, we never stop caring for us when we are sick, giving us the basics of life, providing for reading, eating, drinking, playing and tutoring.

If one day, they really can't move, shouldn't the role reversal also be due?

Children should remember that looking at their parents is looking at their own future, and filial piety should be timely.

If one day, when you are as old as they are, how would you like to live?

Have you paid attention to your parents?

Have a good talk with your dad, he doesn't worry about you when he goes to your room, you prove to him that you have grown up and should have your own space. Communication-oriented. Reassure him about you. Try it and see if it works.

Do you have any shady secrets in your room? How do you know your dad is in your room when you're out? If it really doesn't work, you can also go into your dad's room while he is away, answer him the same thing, let him feel it, and talk to him by the way

You can say: I am a member of the family, I have the right to protect what belongs to me, or lock it, and my door is locked

Clean up your room and don't leave a little secret for him to turn over. Or quarrel with him.

Let's change the locks. What else could I do?

Find out why you are coming into your room and making decisions about how to deal with this issue.

Boring Why can't your dad come into your room?

It is not normal, the child is getting older, and parents should avoid having a lot of close contact with him. Your father may not be a good man, so I advise you to be careful.

Is he holding you in his arms?

Hello, I understand your mood at this moment, and this is also a threshold that aspiring young people must go through to enter the real society. If you pass this threshold, you will be able to enter the normal life of a normal person, and if you can't pass this threshold, you will be decadent and become a wasted person. I'm sure you'll make it through.

In fact, it is not difficult to pass this hurdle, as long as you can face the reality, change your mentality, analyze and understand the difference between ideal and reality with the knowledge you have learned, and figure it out. You are still in the ideal state of a young student, and your way of thinking is still student, and you can't think about real problems with the mature way of thinking of an adult. Reality is cruel and ruthless, and it is the same for everyone, but different people have different understandings and different attitudes towards reality, and there are different results.

So the first step you should be to change your way of thinking, look at the people around you, look at your parents and relatives, aren't they all having a good time and being happy? Are they all more capable and lucky than you? No, it's just that they can face reality and think differently from you, so why can't you learn from them?

Putting aside the good ideals of the past, how about solving a few urgent needs first? For example, first find something to do, learn by doing, don't think about those annoying things first, liberate yourself from the house first, face difficulties with friends and relatives, change reality with wisdom and action, create conditions, look for opportunities, and improve your living environment. Secondly, you need to have faith in life, knowing that everyone is not easy, they all have difficulties, but they are different.

As long as you don't give up, there is a way out. Sichuan ** has caused a catastrophe to many people, and they can't live anymore, but they have confidence and courage, and they have the courage to use their own strength to restore their homes and return to normal life with the help of everyone. Third, you have to take action, start from the small things around you, start from sharing your parents' worries at home, starting with helping your parents, don't think about graduating from college, you must have a decent job.

If you don't have a job, you have the opportunity to repay your parents, do something for them, and then look for a job. Fourth, it's a good thing that you love the Internet, and it gives you an additional way to find a job. You can look for opportunities online, such as online income generation, starting a business, learning from other people's work experience, etc.

In short, you must first put down the shelf, save face, give up illusions, integrate into society, integrate into the crowd, find joy, and work together with everyone. As an old man, I sincerely hope that you will get rid of your current predicament as soon as possible and find your own happy and happy life. Thank you!

In addition, to tell you, this is not autism, it is just a bad mood, which is easy to overcome, mainly because there is no job at the moment and people are uneasy. It is not a physical defect or organic change, so there is no need to worry.

Friend, what a wise gentleman! You're not alone! But you are the only one who recognizes your problems and begins to reflect and act.

I suggest to you now: make a plan for your daily activities: studying, refining, writing a diary, surfing the Internet, including the time and specific content of three meals a day, and stick to it after the plan is set.

For example, if you only surf the Internet for two hours a day, and the time is set at 8 p.m. to 10 p.m., then you stick to this plan and carry it out. Zhang Xueliang has taken care of the addiction that has penetrated deep into the bone marrow, can't you mediate the net hidden? I'm sure you'll cheer up.

The key to cheering up is to insist on regular exercise every day, preferably for more than an hour, and sweat a little! Sweat will help you get out of trouble!! As for work and other issues, don't think about it yet.

All you have to do is get yourself back!!

If you're willing to spend so much time asking questions, you know that you're sitting in front of a computer all day long, not going out.

You will only complain, and when you encounter problems, you will expect to know to help you, you will not go out on your own, look for a job, and the questions you ask, many people exist.

Let me tell you, there are more people like you in the world, if you really want to be decadent, go to decadence, no one will pity you and care about you except your family and friends. Don't blame me for speaking ugly, you really should think about what you should do, if you have a relationship at home, let your parents worry about solving your work for a while, if it's okay, go out and find it yourself, this is the second time I've seen you post, although you are anonymous, but I know that you are still that person.

Dude, quickly close the computer and close this question, you don't need the answer, the answer is in your heart.

You have to find a job first, any job is good!

Don't be delusional about ascending to the sky in one step and being hit by a pie falling from the sky.

There weren't many people who hit it.

With work and life, there will be content, and it will be much more fulfilling.

Don't say that finding a job is not for me, this job has no future or anything.

You have to use your parents' money to get a job at home.

At least be able to support yourself! You will learn a lot in your work, and you will encounter a lot of opportunities, so you must seize them!

Brother, it's time to make up your mind! !It's just that I don't understand, do you think that the casual life of an old woman and grandfather is colorful and fulfilling.?

Everyone's life is different. Watch some inspirational movies or **, maybe you will be confident in your future life, and you will be interested in some unknown worlds, so it is much easier to choose a goal.

The future is still the future, there is nothing to worry about and anxious about, let's encourage it.

In the confusion of you now.

I've been there since then, too.

I remember that I had just graduated and couldn't find a job, and the job I was looking for was much worse than I expected.

It's 300 yuan a month.

Then I quit and I wasn't at home at that time, but I rented a house in Hefei.

I stay in a rented house all day long, and I don't want to go anywhere, it's just an escape from reality!

At that time, I felt really happy at home, and I really didn't want to communicate with people, I didn't want to talk to people.

People say they were forced out.

This sentence is really true, and then my parents stopped giving me living expenses.

Even eating is a problem, ** fees, internet bills, electricity bills, water bills, rent, and everything else needs money.

At that time, I knew that money was really important, and I really didn't know what I could do with my qualifications at that time, and then I thought about it as a salesman, tired and tired, better than staying at home every day, and then running business.

I haven't had any performance for a while, and I don't know how to talk when I see customers.

How can you have performance, you don't know what you want, how can you succeed in what you do?

You don't know yourself yourself? Do you still want others to get to know you?

You don't have any plans for the future? Do you still want others to pave you for the rest of your life?

Be realistic. Don't be confused, let go of your self-esteem, let go of your face, put down your shelf, and start from the bottom of society!

Maybe half or half a year later, you'll have your own little piece of the day.

It's not very big, but it's good to be able to shield you from the wind and rain!

Evade! How long can you escape? How long can you escape?