Love him will you change for him ?

How much do you love him? Is he worth the change for him? If it's worth it, go for it! Love is indescribable!

To change oneself is to change those bad aspects, not to change oneself into someone else, then to lose oneself! It's better not to change than this, if he doesn't love you himself, then no matter how much he changes, it won't help!

When it comes to dedication, it is also mutual, if your selfless dedication is not reciprocated, is it still love? If so, give up, he doesn't belong to you, he doesn't deserve you!! My own opinion is for reference only).

SK: I'll change what I can change. But there are some natures that I can't change, and if they all change, do you see that it's still you?

I feel that if he really loves you, he should love everything about you. You change it for him, but you don't have to change it all, just be appropriate.

What I want to say is: every girl is an angel, believe in yourself.

Looking for a boyfriend is to find someone who loves you all. Don't allow yourself to change too much because of him.

Hehe, in fact, you are not stupid, loving someone is like this, always hoping that you will change because of him.

What to change? A person's nature is not easy to change.

Everyone's values are different, some are happy with their own efforts, and some are happy with their own gains.

If you're happy, do it! But remember, no matter what the outcome, don't regret it!

The devotion of love is mutual!

The purpose of love is to learn from each other to become "more ideal" and "more complete" people. However, it is often a struggle to make the other party conform to their ideals, not to make themselves a more complete person, but to wait for the other party to fill their own shortcomings.

If you look at people's feelings, are they all finding fault with each other, trying to change each other?

When you love a woman, you immediately start to improve her, and you think she should be. Of course, she will also improve you in turn, asking you to do this and that, to do you this or that. Frankly and then when the other person is not "this or that", the problem comes.

Both sides are trying to change each other to make each other conform to their "ideal version", and as a result, an otherwise beautiful relationship is ruined. In the end, they don't even speak anymore, so how can they say it?

Because as soon as they opened their mouths, they said that the argument and forgiveness had started again, and that was an old question, and there was no room for change, anyway, they had argued countless times, and each time the outcome was the same, and they were already disappointed in each other.

If you understand human nature, you will find that it is very difficult to change a person.

Even if someone does change, it is "himself" who wants to change. That's right, no one can change unless he wants to, and your efforts will only make the situation worse.

Why did you fall in love with this person and then keep trying to change him? Is this what you call "love"? You have to be told that "if he has to change for the better you to be able to love" or "if he doesn't change, you don't love" – that's not love, it's what you make for love.

If you try to change the other person, it means that you don't really love him, you love yourself. If you want others to change, you must first change yourself; To make things better, make yourself better first.

Finally giving up on changing others is called "maturity"; Knowing how to change oneself is called "growth".

If you really know how to love, you will make yourself the ideal person, rather than changing others to conform to your ideals.

I will not change myself in order to love someone, but I will find my own shortcomings from trust and constantly improve myself, not for the sake of others. In fact, everyone has their own shortcomings, and they won't be so perfect. Love is acceptance and respect, not control and taking.

The other party asks you to change what he doesn't like about you, in fact, he is using this method to control you and achieve his own desire for you to be perfect, when you try to change yourself in order to love someone, in fact, you have already lost.

The dumbest thing to do to love someone: change yourself. When you meet such a partner, you might as well think about whether he really loves you or just wants to mold you according to his will.

I chatted with my colleague and she smiled and said, "My boyfriend thinks I'm fat, and I'm going to change myself for him so he will love me more." When Zhenzhen said this, a smile spread on her face, and it could be seen that she was enjoying sweet love.

In the past two days in the unit, when I saw Zhenzhen again, I felt that she seemed to be a little depressed and unhappy, and when I talked to her, she was also listless and grouped. During the lunch break, I asked her if something had happened. As soon as she heard me ask her, her eyes turned red.

She said that she didn't know what was wrong recently, and her boyfriend seemed to be a little cold to her, and he hadn't looked for her for more than a week. When I asked him, he said he was busy. "Everyone is staying at home during this time, and I don't know what he's up to.

I asked Zhenzhen. He said that he didn't play every day, he just felt bored in his heart and played. "Zhenzhen also told me that she told her boyfriend that in order to make him happy, she was ** every day during this time.

Who knew that the boyfriend said: "That's your business, don't pull it on me, I didn't force you." One sentence made Zhenzhen's heart burn.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: I am not his first girlfriend. It's the third. That's because of this.

I tried to do my best, but his ex-girlfriend always came to harass us. That day, she came again. There were 100 fake dollars for him to spend.

I'm angry. Why did he still help her. It's not that I'm stingy, it's Lawei.

What she did before was too much for me to tolerate. I tried to be as tolerant as I could, but my forgiveness was all she could get. For this.

We often quarrel, really, so hurtful, I really love him, I can give up everything, but he takes this love as stingy and not generous. I don't know how big the true generosity is. ,, I tried my best to do my best, but.

This love of mine, as long as it is calm, is so difficult. I feel like giving up sometimes.

Analysis: I think he's a man with a lot of heart. Don't care about the past, go help your ex-girlfriend.

He will be good to you in the future. You just have to make it clear to him. If you don't accompany the socks, you should face him and say no

This should be reasonable. I think he will understand...

Final blessings to you.