Is it better to find a boyfriend at home or a boyfriend from out of town?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-16
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The family is good, at least the development can be longer, the two people are together more smoothly, there are too many things that hinder the two people in the field, although the emotional things feel very important, but sometimes it is necessary to be realistic.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You mean he's out of town, right?

    Are you an only child? If so, of course, your parents hope that you can stay by their side, but they are worried that you will not marry well, and you will be wronged in other places and have nowhere to complain, your parents' worries are reasonable, find a family, at least they are still by your side, you will not feel helpless when you are unhappy, they will be your strong backing. You have to understand that.

    Because sometimes your boyfriend will also have difficult times, such as if you have a conflict with his mother, he doesn't know who to help, what should you do at this time, have you thought about these clearly?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Are you looking for someone to marry or fall in love? You need to be clear about this first!! If you want to get married, it's best to find a fellow countryman. If you want to fall in love and squander your youth, it's best to find a foreign place, the farther away the better.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's good at home, if you have suffered any grievances, and you don't have friends to tell you outside, it's difficult to go back to your parents' house, and I don't know what he will do to you after saying it.

    So it's still good at home, know the roots!

    I don't have a boyfriend who doesn't want to be outside, and now I'm looking for a home one.

    Upstairs is right! Hehe.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Give the first time to whichever is with which.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Which one you like, which one you like!

    Which is more promising with which!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I won't find a boyfriend from other places, because when I get married in the future, I need to live with him in other places, and I will leave my parents, and my boyfriends in other places have different living habits from us, and there is no way to have an in-depth understanding of him, and there is no way to understand his family background, so I will not look for a boyfriend from other places.

    Some people may think that my statement is a little selfish, but this is my true thought, because if I find a boyfriend from a foreign place, I will face a distant marriage, and I will live in a strange environment, without my own parents, only my husband, so when I encounter this kind of problem, I will definitely choose to refuse, because I have to think about my future, I can't, because the two of us are very suitable, I will definitely regret it if I choose to go to the field with him, because many examples around me are like this, The two of them love each other very much, but when the two of them went to live in other places, they were not happy at all when they had children, because he was very lonely, except for his husband, there was no one he knew, and his parents were not by his side, he was wronged, and there was no one to tell, so she was not happy at all.

    Girls will think more about this aspect, because they have to think about their own future, they not only have to consider the living habits of the two people, but also consider the other party's family background, but because the other party's parents are in other places, we have no way to know, so after we marry far away, there will be various problems. Therefore, I hope that when you choose a boyfriend, you must think more about yourself, don't feel that the two of you love each other very much, so the problem will be solved, don't have such thoughts, because many things will become different once you get married, so we must think about it more, so that we can get more happiness and we will not be wronged more.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I wouldn't look for a boyfriend out of town, because the people I was exposed to were in the places where I grew up. I can't bear my parents.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't want to find a boyfriend from out of town, mainly because I feel that I am most comfortable in my hometown, and I don't want to be far away from my hometown because of love, so I won't look for a boyfriend from out of town.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Actually, I wouldn't look for a boyfriend out of town because I don't want to marry far away.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    When I saw this question in the headlines, I couldn't help but feel a little emotional.

    I advise you to find someone who has good conditions at home, who has come over. Find a boyfriend with better conditions at home, if it really comes to the step of getting married, in the face of firewood, rice, oil and salt at home, you will have a lot less bad troubles, you will not quarrel every day for money, and you will not have a hard time, provided that your conditions are not very bad. Of course, if you pretend to be like looking for a family hall in the general conditions, but he and his family are more harmonious and open-minded, he is also self-motivated, and it is also a good choice to have a plan for his own life, I think the most important thing for two people to be together is to have love, bread can not be earned slowly together, but if you are not self-motivated but still rely on you, and dislike you from time to time Then run away

    It's really important to be a good person!!

    There is such a friend around me, I found a boyfriend, the family is very poor, his education chain is also very low, I can only go to work in the factory, when it comes to talking about marriage, I always push and push, the two of them are in a different place, and they meet once a year, and they don't know what to do in the future, they are likely to separate, or the girl wants to resign and go out with him, this kind of life, no one wants it!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. My boyfriend goes to work in another place, can I go to my boyfriend's hometown alone? A:

    In fact, this mainly depends on the intimacy of you and your boyfriend, if you are already inseparable, almost to the point of talking about marriage and family, it is very good to go alone, which is conducive to the future increase in the good impression of your parents-in-law and mother-in-law, and it will also reduce the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future. So I think it's a good starting point.

    My boyfriend goes to work in another place, can I go to my boyfriend's hometown alone?

    My boyfriend goes to work in another place, can I go to my boyfriend's hometown alone? Answer: In fact, this mainly depends on the intimacy between you and your boyfriend, if you are inseparable, almost to the point of talking about marriage and family, it is very good to go alone, which is conducive to the increase of your parents-in-law and mother-in-law in the future, and will reduce the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

    So I think it's a good starting point.

    What if it doesn't get married.

    Have you ever been home with your boyfriend before? If you have one, you can, but it's better to have a reason before you go, so that we don't flatten our own status too low, and our family will not have the right to speak in the future.

    Ay. If it's the first time I'm meeting my future in-laws, my personal advice is to let my boyfriend lead you through the door, so that it doesn't look like we're cheap.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Your intentions are very good, really, but I think we can do it in other ways, a little bit more abruptly.

    If your boyfriend is the kind of person who wants to be free, I think it's better not to do it. Because there is a kind of boy who is very free in his own right, and if his girlfriend is very close (of course, it means that he takes good care of him), he will be very irritated because he feels that he has no sense of freedom. This kind of boy will have a better relationship with his girlfriend if he is more open, but his girlfriend will be more tired, and he wants to care about him but has to be far away.

    If your boyfriend is that kind. How to say it, it's more tender, hehe, maybe it will be very touched and feel sorry for you.

    But, in general, I don't think boys like to be too troublesome, and in their eyes, girls are good at causing trouble, which may make them impatient.

    My opinion is: you can take the time to see him, give him intimate care and care, you should be able to do this, and then you can rest assured that he will do his own business, while you do your own thing on the other side of the city, and the two of you will work together. Complete.

    Wishing you happiness

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