Am I divorced,,, is it my fault?

You can see that you love him very much, but you are not him, you can't think of his feelings, and the feelings you think he should have or may have are just what you think he is.

You can talk to him once to let him know how you feel, and to let him know that you care about his kind tone, which makes you feel insecure.

You're not wrong, it's just that you're thinking too much, and no matter how much you think about it, you can't think of what he really thinks, and don't pay too much attention to his previous relationship, and don't compare it to your present, everyone has a past, and even if it's memorable, it's only the past, because it's more nostalgic because it's gone, but we're living in the present, and now he's your husband, and it's enough for you to have him.

Every relationship is unique, there is no comparison, because the feelings are different, the ex-girlfriend is engraved in the memory, maybe you will be everywhere in the air, maybe you can love him and take good care of him, he can always feel it.

People are always obsessed with what they can't get. And now it's you who is really there for him, not his ex-girlfriend. Since you have chosen to marry him, of course you should also learn to stay together.

Don't grasp the past and make yourself sad, you can change him, you should understand the truth of subtle and long-term love.

You have to let his family know about you, take good care of you, and protect you, so that there will be a bond, and you will go further and further.

It's not your fault that you asked, and it can't be wrong to get married, and it's not wrong that he is now memorable with his ex-girlfriend, after all, you are not his first love! He is polite to you now because he is afraid that you will still be angry, he cares about you! If you love him and forget his past, his future is yours, as long as he is most reluctant to be you in the future!

The wedding must be held, and friends and relatives must also know, if he doesn't want friends and relatives to know, then you leave him!

Oops, it's nothing, who can not have a past, I have a friend who is married and always thinks about the past, he is like a person who lives in a fairy tale, fantasy, it doesn't matter, time will kill everything.

There is no right or wrong in divorce. If the marriage is in name only, divorce is a relief. Divorce is the will of both parties, so there is nothing wrong with it.

If the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, then, divorce is right; If the husband and wife still have feelings, but they don't give in to each other and want to gamble, then divorce is wrong.

There is no right or wrong, it is normal for two people to choose divorce when they can't get by, and there is no need to tie two people who don't like each other together.

Hello, there is no right or wrong way to divorce.

Divorce is not wrong, it's just that your spouse is not happy in marriage, and it's okay to leave. It's okay not to leave. After the divorce, you will be older and more mature, and Jian Hanling will be more rational.

Your life will be more perfect. If you don't get divorced, you'll be miserable forever. After a divorce, you will be stronger and braver.

The problem of divorced people may be that they have financial problems and cannot afford to live in a situation; The other party is too selfish and wants to live a worry-free life again, but you can't give it, what should I do? So I chose to divorce and find a warmer harbor. Whose fault can you say here, the fault of love?

Money's fault? Selfish fault? Or is it God's fault?

But if you leave again and again, it can only be said that you are not mature yet, or that you have not found what you want? But have you ever thought about what you really want? If you can't find the answer, how can we help?

You can only experience pain again, and then go through it again when you are numb, and life will never be able to withstand such a toss, because you will grow old slowly.

So a long time ago, Plato told such a philosophical story: let a man go to the wheat field to pick the largest grain of wheat, the rule is that after the selection is done, there is no turning back. So the person who went to pick it up always thought that the ruler calendar was not the biggest one now, so he walked and walked, and actually walked out, but his hand was empty.

Because he doesn't know if the biggest is the present or the future.

Divorce is a false end. Brave people will let the past go back to zero, start everything from scratch, and on the way to find themselves, achieve a new self, and finally regain happiness smoothly.

Getting out of the shadow of divorce is a process of self-a**.

Divorce is painful, and the process of getting out of it is also painful. But everything will eventually pass, and you will still be able to find your original optimistic, strong, confident and cheerful self after all. I believe that everyone who steps into the wedding hall will not imagine what they will do if they get divorced.

As a result, many women, nourished by love, take willfulness and brutality for granted.

But no matter how good the love is, it can't withstand the consumption without any connotation, the so-called "men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for being beautiful like flowers" is just a touching love sentence when there is a lot of affection.

When life is implemented in the various realities of "firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea", only a woman who shares weal and woe with a man and moves forward synchronously can always stand at the same height as a man, and can match each other from soul to material.

When two people try their best to love each other, and the marriage is still defeated by reality, then when they turn around and leave, although they have regrets, they are not resentful: they have wasted their youth and their lives.

A woman who has never given up on self-growth, through divorce, can see her own shortcomings and shortcomings more clearly, no longer blindly overestimate herself, nor criticize herself as useless, but knows how to love herself and how to love others, and is eager to meet love again and protect her life.

After a woman divorces, she should not look back frequently.

Whether you go to a new city or the same place, say goodbye to the past completely, and be brave enough to be yourself, everything is a new beginning, and happiness will knock on the door again.