I m a girl, what should I do if I am possessive

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Everyone has this kind of thought, that is, you are used to her walking home with her every day, and suddenly she doesn't walk home with you, you feel unaccustomed, and because of other female classmates, you have a unique jealousy towards other female classmates. I feel like she's betrayed you and doesn't mean anything to you. After you go out of society, you will learn to be independent alone, and you will see it.

    In fact, people say that they have to learn to be independent and independent, which is the reason, and they are jealous at home that the family is good to their younger siblings, brothers and sisters, and they are also jealous.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Actually, it's nothing, it's just that you feel that she is estranged from you, which is not necessarily the case. You can develop a few more friends, there's no need to keep these two. Besides, I don't believe that you will be with your friends all day when you meet the guy you like?

    You don't have to feel uncomfortable, you can also take the initiative to talk to them and get emotional.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not anymore. You can get closer to them in the future. Anyway, they're all classmates, so don't be too stingy. You don't care what people say

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, you're gay, but it's not a big deal, cut off your own back and let someone else die.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You've got a crush on him......Hey.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Then have more contact points with men

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It should be that you love him too much and regard him as your all, I'm afraid of losing him!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    1. Give each other more private space, everyone will have their own secrets, if the other party has secrets and does not tell, do not ask or be suspicious, should give each other more personal space, if the other party wants to tell you, they will naturally tell you, so, even between couples, we must learn to be a smart person, give each other enough personal space, and do not let each other feel a sense of constraints, so as to facilitate the re-establishment of trust. 2. Interact more with your lover, distrust between two people, often the lack of interaction between two people and in-depth understanding of each other, when you are not busy, two people can chat together, take a walk, complete some housework together, etc., increase the interaction between each other, do not often treat your lover coldly, so as not to make each other suspicious and distrustful. 3. Mutual respect, mutual respect, no matter what kind of relationship is necessary for two people.

    And among couples, this is often overlooked. In front of the other half's relatives and friends, you should give him (her) enough face, don't meet his (her) friends, just say all kinds of no, and know how to respect each other. If you are not satisfied with the other party, you can raise it privately, and you don't have to put these complaints on the table.

    4. Trust each other, trust between couples is very important. Trust is hard to build, and it's really easy to destroy. The premise of trust is to be honest with each other.

    Before the couple has enough trust and tacit understanding, if you want to go out with friends of the opposite sex because of something, don't choose not to say it in order to save trouble or feel that there is no need to mention it, which will make the newly established trust receive a small **. Possessiveness is human nature, everyone has it, but strong possessiveness is abnormal. You may wish to try to communicate with each other and give each other a certain amount of space, so that the relationship will be better.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Possessiveness is actually a kind of love, a kind of love for each other! You don't know if the other person loves you, or you're not sure that the other person is just you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. First of all, we must have a clear understanding of girls who have a strong sense of possessiveness, and we must understand that this possessiveness has two meanings.

    First of all, we must have a clear understanding of girls who have a strong sense of possessiveness, and we must understand that this possessiveness has two meanings.

    What do two aspects mean only? So what should I do?

    On the one hand, it shows that this girl pretends to be more selfish and selfish, too concerned about her own feelings, and likes to impose her will on the boy who regrets her shortcomings, which is her strong and possessive side.

    On the other hand, it shows that this girl cares about you very much, loves you very much, and she wants to realize the possibility of having your love through possessiveness.

    On the other hand, it shows that this girl wants to realize some of her wishes and ideas through possessiveness.

    On the one hand, it shows that this girl is more selfish and self-conscious, too concerned about her own regrets and lack of acceptance, and likes to impose her will on the boy who pretends to be Zen with her. This is her strong possessive side.

    From your description, I feel that your boyfriend cares about your feelings very much, and he coaxes you after knowing that you are unhappy, and he has the problem of perfunctory with his wheel, which is a good aspect of what he does.

    The other party is blind and they don't talk about work, or your boyfriend is perfunctory but has been catering to the blind other party, which makes you upset and uneasy, you don't know what to do, I think you can talk to your boyfriend openly and honestly about this state, tell him your inner feelings, but also put forward your own reasonable demands, see how your boyfriend expresses his position.

    I believe that if he really cares, you should pay attention to your demands and make corresponding improvements in his behavior.

    In addition, you mentioned at the beginning of the text that you have just quietly lived together, and you have often had conflicts for a long time, and the contradiction you said refers to the trouble that your boyfriend brought to you by chatting with this female colleague, or is there any other trouble, you are welcome to talk about it in detail, and I will help you make an analysis, okay?

    Finally, I wish you all happiness and <>

    I'm sorry that I didn't sort out the message at the beginning, and I guess it also brought you some trouble, I'm really sorry for <>

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. Hello friends, first of all, we must have a clear understanding of girls who have a strong sense of possessiveness, and we must understand that this possessiveness has two meanings.

    Hello friends, first of all, we must have a clear understanding of girls who have a strong sense of possessiveness, and we must understand that this possessiveness has two meanings.

    Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

    On the one hand, it shows that this girl is more selfish and selfish, too concerned about her own feelings, and likes to impose her will on the boys she is dating, which is her strong and possessive side. On the other hand, it shows that this nuisance girl cares about you very much, loves you very much, and she wants to realize the possibility of having your love through possessiveness. On the other hand, it shows that this girl wants to realize some of her wishes and ideas through possessiveness, on the one hand, it shows that this girl is more selfish and selfish, takes her feelings too seriously, and likes to impose her will on the boys who are dating her.

    This is her strong possessive side. From your description, I can feel that your boyfriend cares about your feelings, he knows that you are unhappy and coaxes you, and deliberately perfunctory the other party's problems, which is a good aspect of what he does.

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