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If he likes you, won't he be with you?
The reason why he dominates your liking and at the same time is that he is determined that you like him, and he will never lose you
He won't put away the heart of picking flowers for you, maybe he likes you, but you should understand that the level is not up to the point, and he is still self-centered.
So leave him resolutely.
Maybe he'll wake up to the total loss of you, and understand the importance of you, and he'll be able to love you only, and that's an example.
In any case, the only way at the moment is to resolutely leave him.
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I think you are right in another sentence, he is possessive, he knows that you like him, if he likes you after breaking up with his first girlfriend, why don't he stay with you, why do he have a girlfriend, and tell you that he likes you, why when you want to leave to find your own happiness, he wants you to stay, and wants you to take his happiness as your happiness, such a person is too selfish. You may not like to hear me say this, but I want to say that women are a relatively vulnerable group, and we need to find happiness that belongs to us. He can't give you love, but he wants you to watch his love, such an "unforgettable" life, will you like it?
It's not possessiveness, it's not family affection, it's just a kind of human selfishness, is he very good, why should you use your happiness as a cushion for his love.
You love him so much, I say so, probably on the other side of the computer you are scolding me. It's all women, I want you to be happy, I want you to leave and let yourself calm and calm. You leave so that you can find your own love in the future, for a better life, for more happiness, in this case, why doesn't he let you leave, why hinder your happiness.
If, in the face of love, he selfishly chooses the person he loves, and that person is not you, I hope you can also be selfish for yourself once. No matter how much he once loved you, no matter how much he blamed you, please understand that it is not love.
Leave, start over, forget about him, find a true love that belongs to you, and time will slowly heal your wounds.
May you be happy!
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What do you like about him, have you told him?
Perhaps, it is understandable for some boys to treat the girl they like as their sister, because the younger sister needs to be guarded and cared for like a girlfriend
Did you tell him how you felt?
Since he kept you in this way, it proves that you are important in his heart, so why not try and tell him.
If you're sure he's just a sister to you
So, please leave him and start your life well.
It's not worth it to waste your youth like this!
It's true that the age of girls is the most unaffordable
Are you going to miss out on the happiness that is truly yours?
If he can't give you the happiness you want, then, leave him.
Perhaps, you will also leave the pain
Life is all about finding a new beginning in the midst of pain!
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Two people want to be two trees as Shu Ting said, it is the best, the second is one to work hard for the career and the other to assist, the others are abnormal, and abnormal marriages or emotions will not end well in the end. I advise you to think about each other's roles, and then confess to him, if it doesn't work, forget it, there is nothing nostalgic or not, love or not. I've loved a lot of women, and nothing happened to me, and now I think about it sweet and sour, so what?
The point is that now my family is very happy, I am very happy, although it is second-class, but I am already very satisfied, so it will be fine.
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He used you as an alternate, and he still doesn't understand? How can a man be so simple as a woman forever as a sister? Even if there were, do you believe it will happen to you?
The point is, you like him, and he knows you like him!! This important point is very straightforward to show that this man knows what you want for him, so what does it mean that he still asks you to be by his side when he has a girlfriend? You get the idea.
This kind of man should leave quickly, there is nothing to be nostalgic about, if you just want to have fun, what if you are crazy once, if you want to fall in love seriously, then forget it, so as not to hurt yourself.
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Let's start by asking two questions.
Did you have any excesses together?
For example, physical contact, and language that transcends the meaning of ordinary friends?
Probably not. If not.
Judging by your description.
Personally, I have a bold guess.
Although you said that he came to see you as a sister.
But I think your position in his heart should be "sister".
Is he dependent on you when you are together?
To put it bluntly, it is.
Do you make more decisions when it comes to things, or does he often ask for your opinion?
Whether it's possessiveness or family affection.
I think there's one thing missing in his character.
It is precisely the flaws of his character that can be satisfied in you.
So with that kind of illogical move that you're described.
Hehe. Having said all that, it's just my speculation.
If you make a mistake, please forgive me.
Thank you. One last word to add.
Pick up on the first question.
If there is a ......That's normal.
Possessive. Then leave him, it's no big deal.
There are many good men. Hehe.
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Crazy. Are you still hesitating like this?
Oh.. I'm really going crazy. What is possessive and not possessive. He just wants to hang you.
Have you ever heard of what a "sister" is? It's a gift for your own use, you know?
Keep you. It's just a matter of words. What does he love the most? Let's talk about it. Who wouldn't say? It's because you haven't got it yet. And it's rare to say it when you're so stupid.。。
What exactly is he going to do? Ask me what you're doing. Like? You'll meet someone a little more handsome tomorrow and you'll like it again.
Do you say it's interesting to cut yourself?
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Why love this kind of man? Woman, he knows that you like him, that's why he pesters you like this and doesn't let go! It's the woman who gets hurt in the end! If it is family affection, he will not pester you like this, but resolutely let go and let you find your own happiness!
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It didn't work...His character is there...
Even if one day. He broke up with someone else for you.
Someday...You'll be treated the same.
In fact, if you touch it, you will touch it...
You are very reluctant...Love him very much.
But you don't live for him alone.
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are all carried away by love, wake up, if he really loves you, or treats you as a relative or something, then he should think about you, instead of forcing you to stay with him, ask him what he wants to do, as a woman, we can't waste our youth on people who have no feelings
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He is a selfish man.
I can see you're already in love with him.
So I sincerely advise you to stay away from him!
You won't regret it.
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Even if you don't leave me, you should find your own happiness.
The kind of happiness he can't give you doesn't mean that others can't give you!
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Possessive. Leave.
Better a finger off than always aching.
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Treat him as an older brother, be by his side, and keep having your boyfriend!
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I think he's just a possession of you and should be determined to leave He's not a good bird.
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Turn around and leave! Striding in stride. Walked away, knowing that he didn't matter. He also knew that you didn't matter.
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Send him away, thousands of miles away. It's obvious that he wants to take you for nothing.
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...People have caught your weaknesses, if they really like you, why don't they stay with you?
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Silly girl! People are very complicated, don't be deceived by rhetoric!
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Sensual people have many ups and downs; Rational people, how lonely their lives are!
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Such a man is hateful, thinking about the plot of the TV series, and showing mercy everywhere.
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He treats you as a person of the fourth affection.
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I felt like I should leave him.
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Xun Guo Yan Yan Huan chattered, and he was stubble early in the morningI've been deceived. I hope you can get a little bit of a hook!
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Frankly speaking, I myself have such a possessive desire for love, family affection and friendship! The key issue is that possessiveness must have a degree and a principle. It not only satisfies one's own needs, but also does not harm the interests of others and hurt the feelings of both parties. Seek adoption.
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People are very possessive, for example, I have a good relationship with a girl in my dormitory, but suddenly I turned around.
A special girl snatched her away and made me very jealous Later, my good friend was still as good to me as before Because that girl didn't know her well enough I'm even more selfish about love I just want me to share him alone I don't allow him to have other girls Even my friends don't want to be like this Everyone is like this It's normal and terrible But I never write that I hate someone on my face and I don't let anyone know because I know that if you hate someone then you try to think about the good in a person and think about it You'll find that this person isn't as annoying as you think.
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No, family affection and friendship, love is not the same concept, in terms of love, people often want each other to belong to themselves, but the premise is that the other party loves you, but family and love, friendship is not the same love, in terms of family affection, friendship and the other party does not necessarily belong to you.
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Since it's recognized, where does the family affection come from, in fact, this feeling is very complicated, or you like him, or you just rely on him, and you are afraid that he will be good to others and ignore you, you have to distinguish what it is to deal with it.
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In fact, love and family affection are intertwined with each other, and it can be seen from your description that you like him, this is love and not affection, bless you: carry out love to the end...
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Is it related by blood? If so, you wish him happiness, as a sister, I wish him happiness and I will be happy, as for myself, I can slowly forget, to have a new relationship, if not, you can communicate slowly between you.
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That may not be a liking, it is a dependence, and there must be a place in him that is what you need.
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There is no blood relationship, you can show him what is in your heart, and you will regret some things if you don't say them.
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This is my sister's possessiveness and affection for my brother, and you won't be there after a while.
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Already in love with him? [In love] 5 f
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Most of them like him, the cup.
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I think I like him.
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Of course, it's family affection!! As soon as you are born, you are surrounded by family affection, and everything should return to its roots!! Instead of being special, thinking that friends are the most important thing or that lovers are the most important!!
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Of course, possessiveness is strongest in love. But there's nothing wrong with being possessive, which means you care.
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Only love needs to be possessive, and the others don't.
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Well, at least I'm very possessive, huhu.
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Family affection, your brother is very good to you.
You are now in junior high school, it happens to be the time of adolescence and ignorance, and it is normal to have a sense of dependence and possessiveness towards your brother.
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Family!! That means you're important to him!! He's going to help Mom and Dad take care of you!!
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Sister control, brother control, Qi ,,, is actually family affection, and it is estimated that I have watched a little more TV series.
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You are still ignorant children, and there is still a long, long time to come, so you must be sober.
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You're just reaching puberty.
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Sister control, brother control, all together
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