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Hello, I have some thoughts of my own when I see your request for help, and I hope it can give you some thoughts.
1.Outside of my professional stance, I'll tell you a little bit about myself. In the process of choosing a boyfriend to date, I will not choose a boyfriend who is younger than myself.
And the formation of this idea is actually very simple, that is, the boyfriends I have had before are younger than me, and in the process of getting along and interacting, I gradually formed a kind of understanding, they are not mature enough to understand what I want. Of course, this is a purely personal conclusion, but it is not unreasonable. Age is not the only condition that determines maturity, but most people are affected.
2.As a consultant, it is necessary to give you some professional analysis. The reason why her family doesn't approve of you being together doesn't have much to do with your character or anything, and your girlfriend may be influenced by these thoughts:
1. Girls mature faster than boys, if you find a little one. Then they must pay more, and it will be harder, which is why parents don't want to see their daughters pay more. 2. Lack of confidence in yourself and uncertainty about your feelings.
Women are always worried that their aging will affect the quality of their marriage, and they are even more reluctant to see themselves grow old in front of their beloved. 3. Practical issues. Whether you have the ability to give her a relatively good quality of life cannot be said to be realistic, because love must be based on the economy, and there is no such thing as talking about love every day without eating.
Add, as for age is not a problem. It depends on the views and understanding of the parties. Because everyone's understanding of the age gap is different, you need to understand her perception, understand her thoughts about why she is worried because of the age gap, and then overcome it.
We can't give you her answers and ideas.
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Find out what girls really think. Did he really like you and broke up because of his parents, or was it just an excuse for her to break up with you. If you like you and break up because of your parents, it's better for everyone to work together to satisfy his parents.
If it's the latter, don't let go. What's the point of guarding someone who doesn't love you.
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Love is a strong attachment, closeness, yearning, and selfless and all-encompassing emotions between people. Love is an integral part of human nature, and the definition of love refers to the love between lovers in a narrow sense, and also includes the love between friends and relatives in a broad sense. If you fall in love with someone, even though there are other better-looking or more handsome people passing by your side, you don't seem to be as close as you used to, in your heart, no one can compare to the person in your heart, this is love.
Love perception 1, a person can fall in love with a lot of people in his life, and when you get the happiness that really belongs to you, you will understand that the pain together is actually a kind of wealth, which allows you to learn to better grasp and cherish the people you love. 2. A lifetime is not long. What a lucky thing to be able to meet the person you love.
Why not hold his hand? There is no shame in loving only one person in your life. I know in my heart that there will be better people besides him, but a person can't be so greedy.
One heart needs to warm the other heart and be honest with each other so that we can be happy. 3. Your birth brings me hope, and I hope to bring you happiness. 4. In our lives, it is impossible to love only one person, but there is often a person who makes you smile the sweetest, makes you hurt the deepest, and often has a beautiful wound that becomes a part of your body that cannot be healed!
Because of strangeness, so brave, because of distance, so beautiful. 5. Many people yearn for crystalline love - crystal clear without a single flaw. What more people have is a love that is like glass – equally transparent but easily broken.
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Everyone's love is different, some have lived a lifetime in each other's hearts, and some have different dreams in the same bed, love and kill each other.
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Love is a feeling that makes you feel happy even if you are in pain;
Love is a kind of experience, even if the heart is broken, it will feel sweet; Love is an experience that feels beautiful even when broken!
You need to be tolerant when you get along, you need to be sincere when you love each other, you need to communicate when you quarrel, you need to accompany each other when you are lonely, you need comfort when you are sad, and you need to be calm when you are angry. Love is simple and requires sincere efforts from both parties! This kind of love can go hand in hand to the white head!
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Love is giving, love is mutual experience, trust, and respect.
Love is delicate care.
Love is a mutual, adaptation, not a transformation.
Love is to know how to give up appropriately at times to become the most beautiful.
To love and understand love in this way, I believe that love will last a lifetime, it will last forever!
The woman goes to pursue her own love! It's a friend!
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Love will not get any solid guarantee because of the vows, nor will it be torn apart because there are no promises. What love wants may only be the first and most precious trust in each other's hearts - believing that each other will give each other a lifetime of happiness. As a boy, you should understand that what a girl wants is not an oath, what she wants is just a person who is willing to protect her with his life and really loves her; For girls should also understand that boys are not good at talking, he will prove his love for you with his actions, if he always says more than he does, do you dare to believe him?
Therefore, what boys want is nothing more than the trust of girls.
What love is.
Love is not a promise, and a promise is not a debt; I think love is understanding, trust, and tolerance for both parties.
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Love is when someone shares your happiness with you, someone by your side, and someone who works hard for your happiness.
When you have love, you will feel happy.
When the time comes, your love will naturally appear.
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There are always people who ask if love is hard.
Actually, no, maybe everyone's love has not reached a certain level, in fact, as long as it is selfless love without asking for anything in return, silent love, how can it be difficult?
But when we also have expectations for this love, and we want to get it in return, but we can't get it, we will say that love is difficult.
In fact, we should say that it is not difficult to love someone, but it will be difficult to get someone's heart.
As long as you don't think about the result, as long as you don't try too hard to get a return, you won't find it difficult. If you really love, love him and her well, be good to him, even if you don't ask for it, one day, his love may come.
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Love requires communication.
Love needs to be inclusive.
Love requires trust.
Love needs dependence.
Love needs to be appreciated.
Love needs to be missed.
Love needs greetings.
Love needs care.
Love needs to be cherished.
Love requires distance ......
Love needs to be kept fresh.
Love needs to be cared for.
Love is cautious, affection needs to be humble.
Love requires tolerance.
Love needs to be understood.
Love requires understanding.
Love needs to be maintained.
Love needs. Love needs to be open-minded, and love needs to be generous.
Love needs peace.
Love requires the communication of two people's hearts.
Love requires two people to communicate more.
Love doesn't need to be suspicious of each other.
Love doesn't need to attack each other.
Love doesn't need to be jealous of each other.
Love doesn't shoot and Chang needs to blame each other.
Love doesn't need to slander each other.
Love doesn't need to slander each other.
Love doesn't need to be selfish.
Love is not a place to be reasonable, love is a place to talk about love.
Love is a beautiful imagination.
Love is a beautiful psalm.
Love is the happiest thing in life.
Love is the most pleasant thing in life.
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I feel so tired of you. I feel like she doesn't love you very much, I don't know how, maybe she wants you to get a score for your own good, but if he says that you are with you after you improve your grades, I don't think she loves you, which means that she has a lot of vanity, and she just doesn't want to be with you. It's better to give up early.
Although you've known each other for a long time, you've only arrived there in high school, and there's still a long way to go, so maybe there will be someone around you who is sincere to you. It's better to ask her for an accurate answer as soon as possible, so as not to affect your life. I wish you a quick moment to think it through.
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There's nothing wrong with being young ... You'll see. Some things aren't as simple as you think.
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That's because he still can't understand you well in his eyes, after all, he is begging you to return to his side, so even if you come to his side, it is still insecure for him, because he is afraid that you will leave him again, don't think that his worries are superfluous, because it is not you who take the initiative to return to his side, so from a psychological point of view, he is afraid that you do not love him and stay by his side, but he begs you to return to him.
He will say that you are not the same as before, it is because he is afraid and wants to get affirmation from you, which is a sign of insecurity, a sign of gain and loss.
He wanted to be blunt because he was afraid of big ups and downs, afraid of quarrels, afraid of losing.
But it's not that he's changed, he doesn't love you.
You should find a time to talk to him about the two of you.
If you don't think you can treat him as someone worthy of entrusting him for life, then since he has already mentioned marriage, then you have to think about it well, please think about it in all aspects, and I can only mention one reference opinion. The decision is yours.
If you love him and feel that this man is worth entrusting for life, then if you don't want to marry so early, then tell him, but don't let him think that you want to leave him.
Tell him what you think, and there is nothing better than a good exchange between two people.
After all, he has lost, so he is afraid, so it is normal to have a tough attitude or be negative.
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This guy is a hand for the purpose of getting married, and you don't want to, and both of them feel that the other has changed.
I think it's better to divide it, otherwise he will treat you badly in the future, and you will be sad.
Let's divide it early.
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The man is mature, he has changed, this still needs to be married, and he thought of a fixed guarantee, and after the breakup, he felt that everything had changed, and the world was difficult without you, and he needed you.
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