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Don't retaliate against him! This will only lead to endless troubles, and it will not solve any problems!
This is a very easy problem, and that is that you have no temper.
If you have a temper, who would dare to dig you like that? Why don't others make fun of you?
It's all about your courage to do things resolutely and not drag your feet. And then there is always to maintain one's own dignity, no.
Allow others to do anything insulting to your self-esteem! If your self-esteem is extremely strong, how dare others.
Sarcastic to you? It may be that you didn't maintain your dignity in time from the beginning. You give someone you.
Good bully, the impression that your dignity is not worth a penny! Why don't others.
Dare to ridicule some leaders and cadres? Leaders and cadres have their dignity as leaders, and they pay great attention to themselves.
How else to manage your own subordinates? For individual very bad people ignore your maintenance behavior and you.
It's okay to fall out with him boldly (I'm talking about individuals, just one or two, and it can't affect your relationships).
Maybe he will fall out with you from now on and won't talk to you anymore, and there will be no way to talk about sarcasm. Also give.
You care about your self-esteem, and you can't tolerate other people's sarcastic behavior, if.
If others ridicule you, you will try your best to defend it, and you will not hesitate to fall out with him or even fight. Naturally, others will not dig again.
I'm sorry for you. (Note that you need to distinguish between someone else is joking and maliciously mocking you).
Those who love others will always love them; Those who respect others will always respect them. You must start by respecting others, not sarcastically mocking anyone, and being nostalgic.
With a loving heart, love and respect others, and don't talk about anyone behind your back. I am polite to a person and use it much"Thank.
Thank. "and other honorifics. At the same time, don't joke with others, if you don't do it, you will be hated by others! You're laughing and joking, someone else.
It's not good to have a seizure, so I have to keep it in mind! In short, it is necessary to be gracious and powerful! Be kind to others while firmly upholding your self-esteem.
I believe that others don't dare and I'm embarrassed to ridicule you anymore. I wish you harmony in your relationships!
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Why don't you use such a good opportunity to practice eloquence! ~.
You're sarcastic about him, too! People don't fan me, I don't fan people! What can he say! Look at Mr. Kong Ming, one person identifies a room of people, he is speechless! ~.
The tiger is not powerful, he is a sick cat when you are a sick cat, you really can't tell him?
Don't take the general knowledge of the root of his general knowledge as an intermediary! Squirt until he wants to beat you up! As long as he dares to strike first, he will stop listening! Whoever strikes first and hits someone will be considered a loss and will not be able to say that others will be ashamed and angry
So you don't think it's right to k him! Because you can't talk about people! If you really can't say it, practice your mouth! , the root of the pair to work
A good man grows on his mouth, and a good horse grows on his legs! The fist is powerful, and it must be famous to become a teacher
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Why is it uncomfortable?
Is it worth being angry with such a person?
And don't follow his example and try to ridicule him for revenge.
Because maybe you'll be like him.
I've got people around me who do that, but keep a good attitude and laugh it off.
Always remind yourself that no matter how sarcastic he tries to mock you.
Neither of them is knowledgeable and argumentative with him.
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He said what we are, and you say, "Who's with you, we're not the same type."
Tut-tut, stupid or not?
Oops, look, look, such a big kid and so stupid! It's really a lady who doesn't go out of the door.
A: Don't praise me, I'll be proud.
Yo Yo Yo, I really don't have the quality, look at these things! "
Answer: Oh, yes, how dare I compare with you? It's okay to squat on the road and look at the chick Neiku. (Whatever you want, say whatever comes to mind).
You fight back against him like that.
For example, he is singing or humming some song. You say, "Oh,..."I didn't know what a donkey called before, but now after listening to it, I finally know.
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Difficult. You seem to be afraid of him.
Change your mentality and don't be afraid of him.
What is there to be afraid of, really.
Men should be able to brag and talk big, this is a science.
Read more books, read more books, and naturally have the capital to fight back against others.
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Hehe, all the heroes really have their own tricks, and it was an eye-opener for me. Faced with such a situation, especially in the presence of others, I am usually embarrassed and don't know what to do for a while. It depends on my personal status.
When you are in a good state and have a good brain, you will come up with all kinds of tricks and talk to the other party. If you are not in a good state, you don't bother to pay attention to him at all.
The key is to have a good attitude, unless the purpose of others is unintentional, it is to look at your embarrassment, if you still talk and laugh, he will be boring, and the people around you will also think that you have energy. Don't let him make it a habit to laugh at you, otherwise he may lead everyone to treat you as a funny object in the future.
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His pleasure is probably to see your sad and angry expression after being sarcastically caricatured.
In the future, if he sarcastically mocks you again, you will smile and say thank you, and after a long time, he will feel bored and will no longer sarcastically mock you.
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I've had a lot of problems like this, and I feel like the best solution is to sink and treat it with a smiling face.
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You're miserable enough to be with such a person. It's better to stay away from this kind of person, as far away as you can. If you can't provoke it, you can hide.
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It depends on the relationship between the two of you.
You can't talk about friendship, it just depends on the relationship of interests.
In addition, it depends on whether he is only for you. And what an attitude.
Whether it's a malicious attack or not, some people like to make cheap mistakes are not necessarily aimed at you, they are made by people.
If you don't have anything to do with each other and everything points to you, then you can do without him.
If you have the strength, you will be ruthless.
Tigers don't strike when you're sick cats.
Usually don't think you don't dare to cao if you don't bring a condom
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I had people like that in middle school.
Here's my solution: he's so cheap.
Sooner or later, it will be cheaper to others.
When the time comes, he will all the people.
Is there anyone else who is his friend?
Ignore him.
So now it should be all four.
Leave nothing at that.
If you don't spend money to find someone to beat him.
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Go your own way and let others say go ...
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Ignore him, the more angry you are, the more he will succeed.
In doing so, he is belittling others and exalting himself, and the eyes of the masses are clear.
Such a person cannot make real friends.
What should you do, don't let him affect your mood.
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Isn't this question simple.
I'll send you a word.
Go your own way and let others do the talking!
That's right, as long as you think what you're doing is right, why care about what others say!
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Brother, you and I are in such a similar situation, and I am like this all day long! But I don't care, I've found the reason for the attack, which is to know only scratch the surface of what you know, not to know deeply, and if you want not to be attacked, then make sure you know what you know, and when someone says it, you explain it to him in the loudest voice and scare him to death!! It will work
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Despise you!! Something that didn't work!!
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When you meet people, you talk about people, and when you meet ghosts, you talk about ghosts.
Thick-skinned.
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To put it simply, she feels that you can't give her the life she wants if you don't work hard. Looking at the state of your words, I feel that you are indeed not ready to marry her in the future. Men, if you want to move bricks, you can't hug your daughter-in-law, and if you want to hug your daughter-in-law, you can't move bricks.
My advice is that if you don't want to accompany you to move bricks, don't hold a grudge against her, and don't force it, work hard to move the bricks first, and at the same time wait for the fate that really belongs to you. Twisted melon, not sweet. Don't sour others, forget yourself.
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She wants you to give up, and if she is embarrassed to say it, she will deal with you first.
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There are two possibilities for her to do this, the first is that she is dead set on you! Second, it's helping you and making you grow! Either way, you have only one choice!
Work hard, work hard! Waiting for you, your career is successful! Whichever way it was, it ended for the best!
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I want to break up with you, and when you struggle well, she will have children.
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What did you do? She's going to break up with you.
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In fact, this is a serious manifestation of low self-esteem, so when others say about you, you think badly because you feel weak.
The way to improve is to build self-confidence, you have to restrain yourself from this idea of inferiority, and comfort yourself. For example, if your classmates say that you study hard, you have to comfort yourself and tell yourself that they are genuinely praising you and admiring you.
Second, every time you do something, you look in the mirror and say to yourself, "I can do it!" I'll do my best! In this way, cheering yourself up will help you improve your self-confidence.
In fact, there is a reason for low self-esteem, as long as you find the root cause and overcome it, what is your reason, is it because of the outside? Don't care, the appearance is given to us by our parents, the beauty and ugliness of the appearance does not mean the inside, as long as you are good inside, others think you are ruthless and beautiful; On the contrary, even if you are beautiful on the outside and ugly on the inside, others will think that you are not beautiful more and more. If your reason is because of studying, it is because your mind is still imprisoned in this kind of dignity and humility because of study, which is a disadvantage of social development education, that is, students who study well are liked.
In fact, life is very long, learning is a process, really go to the society you know that learning good can not represent anything, just for you to enter the society to provide a starting point to get a job, the real level is to see the ability, who laughs to the end to laugh the best, understand. As long as you study hard, no matter what the result is, you won't regret it because you've already tried. If your low self-esteem stems from within you, then I tell you, no one is perfect, everyone has human shortcomings, as long as it does not affect your life and career.
If you have to correct it, then pay more attention to it in ordinary times, and when you encounter your own shortcomings, you must be calm and comfort yourself.
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Hard work is an advantage, people live for themselves, let them say it. If you encounter this situation again, go directly to them and ask them clearly, and don't take their words to heart. Or find a friend to tell him about your troubles.
Because sometimes they may be suspicious, and they may not necessarily say other people or things.
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Alas, I used to be like this too, where there were people, I would be restless, and I had a strong inferiority complex. If you don't want to seek medical treatment, give you two suggestions: 1. Make more friends, especially cheerful and lively friends, which will have an inducing effect on your daily life 2. Take more psychological suggestion, such as self-raising and self-esteem, Ah Q spirit and the like, although it sounds like you are lying to yourself, but you are a psychological problem, try it, it is very useful.
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You can turn a blind eye to them as if they were telling them how to put on makeup and how to look good in clothes.
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Except for the 1st and 2nd floors, the other buildings are all fee-based, which is clearly misleading. Do they have bad grades? If they say these things because of their bad grades, believe it!
They are jealous of you and have come up with this way to pull you into the water and make you as bad as they are. If they have good grades and say these things, then either you are playing with us, or you have done something that they hate you.
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If you have a problem in your heart, go to a psychiatrist, really, our psychology teacher has told such a case, and you really need counseling.
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You are what you are. Many times people can't accept reality, that's why it's painful.
There's nothing wrong with working hard, and when the gap comes out in a few years, you'll be grateful for your efforts.
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First of all, I would like to ask what's wrong with effort? Isn't it good to work hard?
You seem to say that you are not confident in your studies, is it because of your bad grades? Although grades are very important, there are also students at Tsinghua University and Peking University who cannot find a job, and I think the important thing is their own heart. If there's nothing wrong with you, and you're just studying hard, then it's your classmates who are at fault.
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These are personality problems, and once a personality is formed, it changes very much, and there is nothing that can be done about it, if it is easy to change, then everyone.
are full of self-confidence...
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Introverted.,I've been like this before.,Thinking too much about everything.,The only way is to have more frank contact with others.,To say it bluntly.,It's very difficult to actually.。。 Keep a good attitude and be open-minded! If there is really a phenomenon of being "despised", then ignore him, only work hard and make an appearance, because in this world, no one will care about your self-esteem until you are successful!
I wish you a speedy step out of the shadows!
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Mental illness varies in severity, and if it doesn't affect your life, you'll be fine.
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Only when people can afford themselves will they be affirmed by others.
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This is due to your withdrawn personality and your lack of interaction with people and communication with people.
In addition, it may be caused by your current interpersonal or work and study tensions. Learn to relax and socialize with people.
One way to get your happiness and health back together is to run for 30-60 minutes a day to keep you in the best shape physically, mentally, and mentally. At the beginning, you should take it step by step, and then gradually increase the amount of exercise, if you don't understand it, ask again, I wish you success.
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