How not to ruin the friendship and ask for your own stuff back?

Ask him to help you save money to buy one. If he doesn't help this kind of brother, there's nothing to ask for. Forget it.

It's impossible, he's found an excuse to borrow someone else, and you still expect him to pay you one?

I borrowed something from others, and I never expected anyone to pay it back, and basically no one paid it back.

It doesn't matter, you just have to be kind.

If he is your friend, he will respond to you kindly and buy you a new one. Don't worry.

In addition, don't be angry, be quiet.

Soft: You tell him in person that your mother wants your mp4 to use, and you say that your classmate borrowed it and will return it in a few days. Your mother asked you who borrowed it, and you said he borrowed it. See how he reacts.

Come hard: ask for it directly, if you don't give it, you will turn your face, and if you think this friend is not interesting enough.

I really can't help it: I think I'm unlucky, and my friend does it.

If you want to say that--- yesterday my mom asked me if I wanted my mp4 to listen, and I said, "I'll fix it for you in two days." "When the time comes, I won't be able to take it out and I'm going to scold again, so hurry up and help me figure it out."

Be sure to pay attention to your tone, your attitude!

He lied to you, what kind of friend, ask him directly, if he can't, let him pay!!

Since they are good friends, then you might as well be patient, and believe that after the contradiction is resolved, everything can return to the previous one, right? You must have faith in your friendship!

Actually, if this happens, let it happen. Since it happened, don't let yourself remember the past. A friend is a friend.

There are no friends who don't have conflicts. Maybe it's better to have a relationship. Perhaps this is an outward manifestation of your friend's emotional crisis.

It's better to come late than to come to the feast and reeds. Maybe that's a good thing. And what is the most important thing to make yourself blame yourself too much.

For the sake of feelings, I can give up some things by myself. in order to get more of her friendship. Things have a price, feelings are priceless.

Of course, we must find a way to solve it, first of all, we must determine whether the contradiction is our own fault, if the consciousness is our own fault, we should immediately explain to him, communicate, and finally achieve a state of reconciliation, so that I am happy. If your own point of view is not your fault, but the contradiction makes you sad, in this case, there is no need to accommodate, even the best friend must maintain his own personality and outlook on life, and remain silent first. Maybe when he figures it out, he will cherish you even more as a good friend.

You see?!!

That's right.

In fact, two good friends should confess to each other.

If you have anything to say about each other, don't keep it in your heart, so that the other person doesn't know what you think.

So if your friendship is ruined, Rat. Let's talk about it for a while. The research question is actually in the **.

Don't be vindictive. Fighting spirit is not good for each other. It will only make the misunderstanding deeper.

Yes, yes, we have to go back to the old days of wisdom. There may not be much possibility. Because you've quarreled once, after all.

But it's also possible to go back to the way things were. Why. Because I've tried.

As long as we understand each other and confess to each other, nothing is impossible. Right. I believe you.

Friendship is the purest emotion. It is the result of mutual understanding and trust between friends, and if it is a true friendship that is destroyed, then both of them need to reflect on each other and seriously consider who did wrong. If you are wrong, you must have the courage to admit your mistake to the other party, don't care about Zen Min's face, and consider the importance of face and friendship; If he is wrong, you have to be very tolerant and forgive him, tell him that he did wrong, tell him why, remember, be sincere in your persuasion.

What's strange to me is that, according to what you said above, she just didn't conform to your values, she came according to your will, and then you gave up your old bottom, and then you wanted her to be grateful, and then you still suffered for a long time, and you didn't even want to have too much contact with things related to her, and you made yourself so tired. Don't you think it's funny that you look at this as a third person? The most important thing you should get rid of is your heart.

I don't think you need to bother, you can turn a blind eye, you can think that she was your friend before, but only before.