How to resist at the first time when you are bullied?

It's a personality issue, I don't think you're confident enough. Tough resistance is not the best way to get you out of the status quo completely, what you need to do is to make the people around you truly respect you, admire you, and even tolerate them if necessary to make them appreciate you. Be a truly strong person.

First of all, you should always suggest to yourself that I am strong. The inner strength will gradually be externalized, and your usual expressions and behaviors will gradually show that you are strong.

Secondly, through some practical actions, such as the improvement of knowledge cultivation, such as enthusiastic help to others, so that the people around you will appreciate and admire you from the heart.

Finally, when you are bullied for no reason, just be brave and fearless. Over time, through the above efforts, they will know that you are stronger than all of them. They will be ashamed of what you did.

The 2nd floor is very good! We've all gone through this stage you're talking about! Weak and deceived! There are words of suffering! If it's within your patience, then be patient. More is better than less!

I think you must be a very gentle person, but the ignorant people around you always come to harass you frequently! Don't pay attention to them, and don't care about others saying that you are a bully, it's that they are too boring and ignorant! They are too frivolous, such people will one day become the target of attack!

You just live quietly! Have a good time! We're the same crowd! We are actually a group of people who are not easy to bully! The potential within us is great! One day we will defeat those who love to bully others!

Reason with her because you're peace-loving.

Maybe you're not used to it, but if you suffer a few more times, you'll know what to do to resist.

What are you afraid of being ashamed of, being bullied is called humiliation, life will only treat the strong well.

1.Students --- tell their parents or teachers.

2.Social --- are adults, so show them how good you are (but do what you can).

If you don't resist the people around you, you will look down on you, and it's nothing to lose face. But you have to let others know that you are not a bully

Maybe you are still young or immature, some things are not determined by your subjective will. We must learn to be tolerant, learn to be patient, and don't think about losing face, because a hero doesn't suffer immediate losses, as long as he is good, he doesn't care what he does.

But if he deceives people too much.

You have to solve it by force.

Nothing else.

Depressed. Why are they bullying you, keeping your distance from them?

Actually, I don't know what to say.

I'm not very good at making friends, but I know that when interacting with others, you must first let them know that they respect you.

Tell them what you think once in a while.

It must be resisted, and if I do not resist correctly, it will only add to the prestige of others.

There is now a clear law, and even a 12-year-old child is responsible for bullying others.

You need to be kind to others, and when you are bullied, you should actively say to the people around you, you can be with your parents, and you can be trustworthy people, and you can resist through **.

The law stipulates that anyone who has reached the age of 12 is legally responsible. When you are bullied, you can't swallow your anger and hide it silently in your heart, and you shouldn't be afraid of the threats of others and dare not say it, you can believe that the law can bring you justice.

Blindly forbearance will only make others gain an inch, and even in serious cases, it will lead it to the road of crime, which is easy in the long run. The formation of a depressed and closed psychology is particularly unhelpful to both parties.

Under normal circumstances, if the other party is maliciously bullying you, then you need to consider resisting. The reason why you should consider rebellion rather than have to resist is that resistance also requires cost and strength. If you feel that your strength is enough to knock out the opponent, and the cost is what you can afford.

Then you should not hesitate to fight back. But if your ability is not enough to defeat the opponent, or the cost is too much to lose, then it is recommended that you consider other ways. If you think I'm useful, thank you!

If you are bullied by others, whether you want to resist or not depends on the specific situation. If it is a trivial matter or a non-principled issue, it can be avoided and retreated; If it is a big matter that involves the overall situation or a matter of principle of right and wrong, then it is necessary to fight back against the other party in a reasonable and restrained manner, and the slightest can not back down.

In principle, you have to resist, but you have to think well, be bold and careful, don't panic when you encounter problems, and use the wisdom of emotional intelligence and intelligence to do a good job, because it is not good to say who you meet, now there are many people in society, and the spiritual world is very chaotic, so you must talk about the level and method to achieve the purpose of resistance.

Hello, in the face of bullying by the strong, we must first analyze the results of resistance, if you can't beat it, then it's best not to rush to resist, because then you will suffer. It can be resisted by other means, not necessarily by force.

Some people don't know how to resist after being bullied, probably because of the following reasons:

1.Lack of self-confidence. The person who is being bullied may not be able to resist effectively because of low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.

2.Didn't learn coping skills. Some people may not have learned how to deal with bullying incidents since they were young, so they don't know what to do when they are bullied.

3.Fear of things. Some people may be afraid of the consequences and may fear that their actions will lead to bullying again.

4.Psychologically too fragile. Some people may easily collapse in the face of setbacks and blows, and thus fall into a state of being bullied.

In order to avoid being bullied and unable to resist, it is necessary to give the bullied person full trust and support, and encourage them to resist bravely. Teach them coping skills and methods to adapt and deal with difficult situations, enhance their self-confidence, and enable them to face themselves squarely and bravely fight to defend their own rights and interests. It is also important to remind the victim of bullying and help them realize that the bullying is wrong and should not be mistaken for their own fault.

I have the following feelings about the phenomenon of some people who do not know to resist when they are bullied:

First of all, it may have something to do with the person's personality traits. For example, people with weak and timid personalities are often difficult to resist strongly in the face of bullying, and are more inclined to tolerate it. This kind of person is more likely to be the target of bullying, but at the same time, they are less likely to choose to resist to solve the problem, which requires moderate changes and honing in personality.

Secondly, it can also be due to the influence and habits of the living environment. If a person has lived in a more submissive environment since childhood, and is accustomed to obedience and concession, then it is inevitable that he will instinctively choose to tolerate when faced with bullying. This requires a clear understanding of the environmental impact, and if necessary, to make changes and learn to defend one's rights appropriately.

Thirdly, the limitations of the knowledge structure may also be one of the reasons. If a person lacks the necessary knowledge and experience in dealing with bullying and other issues, it is inevitable that they will be at a loss and do not know how to resist when faced with the actual situation. This requires mental preparation in daily life and learning the necessary coping knowledge and skills, which can provide the basis for making the right choices later in the face of difficult situations.

Finally, it can also be due to a lack of self-confidence. If a person lacks the necessary self-confidence, they will also be afraid to resist in the face of bullying for fear of failure or not being able to control the situation. Therefore, strengthening one's self-confidence and building the necessary courage and determination is also an important part of learning to resist and protect oneself.

Weak personality, accustomed living environment, limited knowledge structure and lack of self-confidence are all important reasons why some people will not resist in the face of bullying. This requires a modest effort to strengthen our character, change our environment, enrich our knowledge and build self-confidence, so that we can truly have the ability to resist and protect ourselves in the face of bullying. It's also an integral part of growth and progress, and needs to be honed in your daily life.

This is a complex issue that involves psychological, social, cultural and other aspects.

First, they lack self-confidence and determination, are afraid of retaliation from their bullies or don't know what to do to protect themselves.

Second, individuals are limited in their abilities, and when they are bullied, they may not have enough strength to resist. Some people may be afraid or uneasy to resist because of past experiences or other reasons, and they may not dare to resist.

Third, there are those who may feel that resistance will make the problem worse, and they prefer to remain silent and endure. There is also the lack of proper guidance and support when being bullied, and the lack of how to resist properly.

Everyone has their own life background, personality traits, and behavioral preferences that contribute to differences in how they behave in the face of bullying. To help these people fight bullying, we need to focus on their psychological state, improve their own level of ability, and create a positive social and cultural environment where victims are more supported and protected.

The above are some of the possible reasons, and different people who know about the failure will have different situations and reasons. If a person is being bullied, the most important thing is to seek the right guidance and support, learn how to protect themselves, and take appropriate action to fight against injustice.

Because not resisting is the norm of people.

When I was talking about bullying in schools before, I said:

One of the root causes of school bullying is the fear of retaliation.

In fact, this fear of retaliation has always accompanied most people throughout their lives.

For a junior high school or high school student, being bullied, what he thinks in his heart is:

There are so many of them that I can't beat him, I resist, and I may be bullied even harder.

was bullied for a while, and it was nothing after the bullying was over.

I won't be able to see them when I graduate in the future, so just put up with it.

He knows a lot of people, and I don't know anyone in my family, so forget it, bear with me. ‘

If there is a fight, the teacher will report it to the whole school, and my parents will definitely scold me again, forget it.

Tell the teacher that maybe he'll find a chance to beat me up in the future, forget it.

Alarm? Is there a death penalty? Maybe he'll beat me up in the future.

This is the common psychology of common school bullies, and there are many more, and they are not listed one by one.

It's strange that these mentalities can make a junior high school or high school student rebel. In the case I know, a high school girl was jealous of her classmates, and then asked a social youth to take her to a hotel at night, beat and scolded, and took turns **. The girl didn't tell anyone, because she felt that "my parents would definitely scold me if they knew, and the teacher didn't care, forget it".

In fact, this kind of case was not uncommon when I was in junior high school.

A lot of times it's homeschooling that goes wrong. My junior high school classmate was burned with his clothes on fire after school, and when he got home, his parents scolded him without saying a word, complaining that he had to spend money on clothes. Some of the students' parents themselves are instigated and let their children go down.

Who will resist in bullying?

Can shake people. Good family background.

Even if these two kinds of people are in a one-to-many situation, they should be cowardly.

I don't know what happened in other places, but it was like this in Guangdong and northern Guangdong.

When my friend and I were in junior high school, we faced a beating by more than 50 young people in society, how did you ask me and him to resist?

My classmate's father is a bully himself, and even the parents of the students who were bullied dare to beat him, how can you resist?

Don't think that the whole country is strict just because the law and order in the developed cities are strict, as far as Guangdong Province is concerned, except for the Pearl River Delta, there are many places with poor and bad atmosphere.

My junior high school classmate was bullied by the class next door in junior high school (splashing his face with blind ink).

The next day, the junior high school classmate surrounded the young adults of the village at the school gate, handed PHS to the bully, and asked him to shake people.

More than 300 young adults.

After that, no one dared to mess with this classmate, and he went to the best high school in the city, and was later admitted to CUHK to study for a doctorate.

So, after going through this, I think the reason why the bullied person doesn't resist is because they are on the scene, not online, not just doing it with enthusiasm, but feeling real pain.

They can't shake people, and they don't have enough to intimidate each other's family backgrounds or networks.

They just want to bully the process as soon as possible, just endure it.

They are helpless and powerless.

Some people are bullied and don't know how to resist, probably due to the following reasons:

1.Lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. Some people may feel inferior to others and lack self-confidence and self-esteem because of their appearance, figure, academic performance, etc. In this case, they may feel that they do not deserve to be respected and protected, and thus become easily bullied.

2.Fear of facing violence and threats. Some people may feel scared and helpless because of the experience of violence and threats. In this case, they may think that it is useless to resist, and even worry that resisting will cause them more harm.

3.Lack of skills and experience in dealing with bullying. Some people may not know how to deal with bullying because they lack the skills and experience to deal with it. In this case, they may feel helpless and confused, and do not know what to do to protect themselves.

4.Fear of losing friends and social support. Some people may be reluctant to resist bullying for fear of losing friends and social support. In this case, they may choose to endure bullying by believing that resistance will make them isolated and helpless.

5.Incorrect perceptions and attitudes towards bullying. Some people may have incorrect perceptions and attitudes towards bullying, believing that bullying is normal and unavoidable, or that they should put up with it.

In this case, they may not know the importance and necessity of rebellion, and thus become easily bullied.

It should be noted that the above reasons are not all people who are bullied and do not know the reasons for resistance, and everyone's situation is different. At the same time, these reasons are not absolute, and sometimes people may choose not to resist bullying in some special circumstances, such as to protect their own safety or the safety of others, etc.

If a person is bullied and does not know how to resist, they can improve their situation by:

1.Develop your own self-confidence and self-esteem, and recognize your own value and importance.

2.Learn skills and experiences to deal with bullying, such as learning how to say "no", how to express your opinions, and more.

3.Seek help and support, such as family, friends, teachers, counselors, etc.

4.Change your perception and attitude towards bullying and recognize that bullying is abnormal and should not be tolerated.

5.Learn to keep yourself and others safe, for example, learn how to avoid dangers, how to protect your privacy, etc.

6.Participate in some social activities to expand your social circle and increase your social support.

In conclusion, if a person is bullied and does not know how to resist, they should try to find out why they are not resisting and take positive measures to improve the situation in which they are cheating. At the same time, they should also learn to keep themselves and others safe and not to expose themselves and others to harm.