I don t like to meet people, what is wrong with me not daring to meet people?

This is a psychological problem, and it is more serious, you can regulate your mood by yourself, you can listen to it when you have nothing to do**; In the morning, find a fresh place in the morning glow, sit on the lawn and watch the morning sun rise little by little; In the evening sunset, pour out all the unhappiness of your day; Talk to your friends from time to time.

In fact, there are many ways to change yourself, as long as you face it seriously, adjust your mentality correctly, put all the troubles aside, as long as you are happy! (If it still doesn't work, it is recommended that you go to a psychiatrist) I hope you can be your original self and be happy every day!

It's just that I'm tired of being outward-looking, and I want to be introverted! ~》

Not wanting to see people and not daring to see people are two different things! ~。

Do you know which one you are?

If it's the latter, you may be too tired. It's so annoying. I like to be clean.

It's useless to make friends with so many people. It's enough just to make a few good friends. There's nothing wrong with that.

If it's the former, it's not good, but it's also unlikely.

Have you ever been hurt by something before, so now you are afraid of coming into contact with people? Think carefully about what is going on. Maybe you've forgotten about it, but the after-effects of that incident have changed you. Find out the root cause and you'll adjust it yourself.

You may have been hit by something, hurt, or mentally blocked, and it is recommended that you go out of the room and go to the rivers and rivers to cultivate your mind, which will be good for you.

I suggest you go to a psychiatrist, you have symptoms of depression.

I understand you, I've felt this way too, try to make more new friends, it will feel better.

Me too, yes. I've been like this for a long time. But it doesn't matter...I'm just a little tired, and it's uncomfortable to see them noisy, and I want to be alone and quietly pinch. Okay, take the points and leave.

Low self-esteem is not necessarily because of appearance.

Sweat. Do you always like to surf the Internet?

Lazy like me?

I'm always alone, sometimes it's lonely, sometimes it's quiet!

I'm speechless, because I know you a little bit

Fear of seeing people means feeling fearful or uneasy in the face of others. This condition is usually due to a psychological disorder or a bad interpersonal experience.

The specific reasons could be:

Obsessive-compulsive disorder: Not being afraid to see people can be caused by having obsessive-compulsive disorder. People with OCD often have a fear of others, which leads to fear of seeing people.

Social Anxiety Disorder: Not being afraid to see people can also be caused by having social anxiety disorder. People with social anxiety disorder have a fear of not seeing people because they fear that they will not perform well in social situations.

Having suffered a bad interpersonal experience: Not being afraid to meet people can also be caused by having suffered a bad interpersonal experience. For example, having been bullied, intimidated, ridiculed and other bad interpersonal experiences in the past can cause patients to have a sense of fear and fear of seeing people.

I may have not been out for too long, I need to train myself, and I am too timid.

There are many reasons why I am afraid to meet people.

First of all, I have social anxiety and always feel very afraid to talk to others, worried that others will not like me or even misunderstand what I say. This may be because I rarely socialize and don't have many friends at school. Maybe it's because I don't have much self-confidence, so when I meet people face to face, I become nervous and afraid of being ridiculed or judged.

In addition, I also have some inferiority complex, always feel that I am inferior to others, not perfect enough, and I will feel that others look down on me and judge me. Therefore, when I meet new people, I hide myself because of low self-esteem and dare not deal with others.

Finally, I may also be afraid to meet people for fear of rejection, after all, rejection is a blow and makes me feel that I am not accepted enough. So, I might just be "smart" and avoid letting people interact with me too much to avoid the rejection I might reject.

In short, social anxiety, low self-esteem, and fear of rejection are all reasons why I am afraid to meet people, and I hope that one day, I can face everything bravely and no longer be afraid of being looked down upon by others, because I have done the best version of myself.

Maybe it's also inferiority, but so am I, who graduated from vocational high school, and don't dare to meet people.

Try to reduce your presence, you can bring a headset when you go out, and pretend that you are playing with your phone.

Then why do you not want to see people, social fear, or for what reason, it is better to go to the hospital and see a psychologist.

Social fear is like this, and so am I, in fact, you can pretend not to see them, hahaha, the benefits of high myopia.

Keeping in touch but not wanting to see you means here::

1. We all know that in front of the person you like, the person who generally answers the bad orange will become cautious, he will be afraid to behave in front of you, he will be nervous when he sees you, and then become overwhelmed, so he will not want to see you, if you also like him, then you might as well take the initiative, so that it is possible! You should show something, so that it also gives him a little confidence and makes him not feel inferior.

2. The person who likes you doesn't want to see you, and it may be because he met the right person at the wrong time, because he knows that he can't give you what you want, and he can't accompany you or promise you anything. Because he knows that in the world of feelings, it is indeed important to come first and come first, and you happen to be the one who comes later.

3. Because of poverty, he has low self-esteem, he feels that he is not able to love you, even if you don't dislike him for being poor and are willing to follow him unconditionally, he will not agree to be with you. He doesn't want you to suffer with him. You are as graceful and noble as a goddess in his heart, and he will not show his love to you until he can mix well.

True love is never possession, but to be happy.

Getting along skills

1. Pay more attention to each other's hobbies and emotions.

Love is never wishful thinking, but two people give to each other. Only by caring about each other can you also get the love of others in return. If you want to get along with each other more happily and comfortably, and let each other's feelings go deeper, then you should care more about each other's emotions and hobbies.

2. Each other has their own independent space.

As the saying goes: distance produces beauty. Even two people who are close to each other are independent individuals from the beginning, and they both need to have their own private space. Otherwise, because of the differences between each other, the conflict will intensify, and the feelings of the two people will deteriorate day by day.

3. Each other knows how to pay for each other.

The continuation of any relationship is inseparable from each other's joint efforts and dedication. Unilateral efforts cannot last long, and your relationship will only get more and more tired.

It's not low emotional intelligence, it's a lack of communication with people.

The main thing about being an interesting person is to be humorous, to find all kinds of fun, and to make the topic interesting. People who know me say that my first impression is cold and difficult to contact, but after the exchange, they know that I am a very happy person. Humor can actually be exercised, just like a speech, watch more, listen more, and talk to interesting people more.

If you don't like it, then there's really no other way, unless it's sullen, and a word can achieve a burst effect, so far I've only seen one like this.

Don't change your introverted personality ... When I was in the first year of junior high school, I was almost autistic, because a neurotic classmate, knowing that I didn't speak, chatted with me every day, she talked to herself for more than a semester, and then with another neurotic, I saw a woman who said "dear, come and kiss one", and later, like now, I skipped two sentences with anyone, and often talked to strangers, and took a lot of people... First of all, think about yourself as a happy person. Actually, I'm still an introvert, but I know that you have to follow the rules of social interaction, and if you don't take the initiative to communicate, you will miss out on a lot of opportunities.

There will be no one who likes you, there will always be some people who will like you silently, but you don't know, no one likes you, and you don't have to force others to like you, just like yourself, do what you want to do, and strive to be excellent, naturally there will be a lot of people who like you, and if you want to look good, then there will be more people.

Why, have you ever thought about what the cause, and when you figure out the crux of the problem, someone will like you.

I used to have this kind of thought, I felt that people all over the world didn't like me, they all hated me, and they were very distressed, and this irritating thought actually only lasted for two days, and then I figured it out, no matter what I do, I am just me, and this is the kind of person who really exists in this world, if I make myself indecent in order to please others, then I would rather not like this kind of like. Later, I found that I did think too much, those people actually as long as I take the initiative to talk and laugh, they will also have fun with me, for some people who really don't like me, choose to ignore it, you don't like me and I don't like you. If I want everybody to like me, I'm sorry, I don't have that ability, and I don't like everybody.

If no one likes me, I should do something to make them like me.

Looking at everyone's heartwarming answers, I suddenly wanted a wave of poisonous chicken soup. If you feel that the people around you are not treating you well and no one wants to approach you, it is likely that something is wrong with you. Since you are willing to let people give you advice, it shows that you have a desire to be better.

Then you have to be good at observing and discovering which behaviors you find unacceptable to everyone, take the initiative to correct them, and take the initiative to contact others, so that you can get better little by little.

In fact, there is no one who is really unloved, it's just that you are too eager for other people's attention or too sensitive. These two are basically the same, they both think too much and do too little. If you continue to enrich yourself, spend every day to the fullest, and be a very good person, you won't worry about it every day.

If it's because of love problems, I think you should calm down and don't worry, isn't it good to be alone? Eat whatever you want, do whatever you want, be free, do whatever you want, don't care about the other party's feelings, and don't have to negotiate everything.

As for the need to be the best version of yourself, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come.

No one likes you to prove that you are not good enough, or to find problems in yourself, to solve problems, to have positive energy, self-motivated, positive people, so that you can have development in your work and career, have a future, I think there will be a lot of people who like you.

Unafraid. What are you afraid of? What is there to be afraid of?

From now on, work hard, seize the time to learn some real skills, persevere, don't give up halfway, persevere, set good goals, when you have a small achievement, maybe you will become an Internet celebrity, don't worry about no one like you.

It's a long time coming.

If you become strong, someone will like you.

You have to figure out why no one likes you, see if you're not good enough, and change it.

No, and your family definitely loves you.

Men and women. Make more money, there will always be someone who likes it.

Don't say you have such an inferiority complex. Merge is like this, even if they don't like you, I still like you.