Is it ridiculous for a girl to fall in love with a boy who is four years younger than her?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-26
42 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not ridiculous, as long as there is love, it's not ridiculous, you don't have to pay attention to other people's eyes, as long as you think it's true love, don't care too much about age, trust each other more.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    No, there is no age distinction in love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's a little ridiculous.,It's normal if it's a boy who falls in love with his sister who is 4 years older.,But my sister falls in love with my brother who is 4 years younger.,It seems that it's a little bit of a younger brother controlling .......

    It's a bit ridiculous, but love is love, and age or something can be ignored.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Whether love is permanent No one knows At this time, the pain is a girl, is it a husband, I want to rely on the old man Actually, it depends on what age group it is now, it's a little girl, don't choose it, hehe!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is free, as long as there is true love between each other, let others say it!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not ridiculous. My best friend his girlfriend is 5 years older than him and is developing very, very well now, age is not an issue -0-

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What's so ridiculous about this, someone once said that only love and cough in the world can't be hidden, Faye Wong and Li Yapeng are not sisters and brothers, and there should be no psychological pressure, it's nothing. If you're worried that this relationship won't last long, then you're wrong, older women are the most attractive, much stronger than those little loli!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Say it out loud. No! True love has no distance! 1

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't be in a hurry to confirm the relationship, and when you are already together, treat her like a lover in the future.

    Continued for a while.

    If she really loves you, she shouldn't worry about those external reasons, once the girl has love, she will become desperate, if she still talks about that, it may be an excuse for not loving you and not being able to hurt you. Come on!!!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then wait for the girls! If a boy really loves a girl, let time slowly ferment this love and become deeper. If that love can't stand the test of time, it's better to wait far away.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Different age groups say that bai is different

    Elementary school, I don't want to talk about it--

    In junior high school, most of the time is impulsive, and at the end of a semester, the relationship is also over.

    In high school, lovers in the first and second years of high school have only one year of love; If it is the third year of high school, there are still a certain number of couples who become husband and wife.

    The results will be told to you, so let's see for yourself.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Let's talk about it directly, it's better to face one person than two people.

    Besides, falling in love is your own business, and you can't stop it when you get older.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Be friends. Even if you're in love, at your age, don't you often play together like friends?

    In fact, in the process of being friends again, you will gradually feel that each other is not suitable for each other, and if you get along well, the girl will definitely follow you. No matter how much the family opposes it, no matter how much resistance there is. Of course, that's an afterthought.

    Be friends. Friends are the most beautiful distance of love.

    Someone came to tell you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hehe, little girl, you're cute. But you still don't understand what true love is! Your affection for him is the hazy affection for the opposite sex that all boys and girls of your age have.

    Like doesn't mean it's love. If you like him, it means that he must be very good, then you must also improve yourself in all aspects, be an excellent girl, and you will have the possibility of marrying her in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is not love, just a kind of dependence, a shallow like, he may be like a big brother in your heart, you know everything better, will take care of you, let you have a kind of dependence! Of course, there's nothing wrong with liking, but at your age, your studies are still important! I hope you understand what Uncle said!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is no age limit in love, you are relatively young now, in my opinion, you should think about it carefully, if you really like each other, I believe that you still have a future in the future.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe a lot of people will say a word to you. Kid, you're too young. It's better to study hard.

    I wasn't very happy to hear this when I was your age.

    But I'm meant to say it to you. You're still too young. Anyone can turn the earth without it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It doesn't matter, as long as it is controlled within the age of 10, it is not a big problem, little girl, you have a young love, but it's okay.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    At the age of 13, the mental development is not mature enough, so don't drill the horns yourself.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Little sister, you can't understand what love is at your age.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Are you hesitating? Think it's puppy love? Or does he already have a girlfriend?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're all too young to know what love is.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A person can like many people, but there can only be one person to love. In the world of love, there are sweetness, pain, happiness and sourness, there will be a lot of emotions, but the space is narrow and can only accommodate one person. Love is the only one, the only recipient, and the only giver.

    Loving someone in your heart is unlikely to have extra space to love another person, so there will always be fewer happy people in polyamorous relationships than injured people, unless someone gives up their persistence and finds the happiness that truly belongs to them. In this question, I want to first find out, is that girl really still in love with her boyfriend? It's not dependence, it's not habit, it's not attachment, is it really love?

    And, another boy, is that really love too? It's not infatuation, it's not freshness, it's not anger, is it really love? If she really thinks it's love, keep thinking about it:

    Does she really know what love is? What does it feel like to love someone? What is it like to love someone?

    What kind of happiness is it to love someone? Don't jump to conclusions, don't give up on your original happiness easily. The world is very lonely, no matter how strong a girl is, she is still fragile after all, and it is difficult to find someone who truly loves her.

    Happiness is very short-lived, and you can fly with wings, since you have found happiness, you should hold it firmly and not let go. Calm down and think about it, which is the real happiness, the left or the right? Stop and see, is the former happiness still nostalgic?

    Love triangle, to solve is very simple, people are selfish, but there should also be kindness. Determine your own happiness, identify the person who can give you happiness, and walk over to him. But don't forget that when you are happy, remember to thank another person who has given you happiness or made you feel happy, and send him blessings to find his happiness when he leaves.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Scare the 3-cornered relationship??

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Falling in love with two people at the same time can't be called love, so you compare, if two people hit ** and tell you to go out.

    Choose who you will fight with.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If she really loved her boyfriend, she wouldn't have fallen in love with another boy.

    People have a choice, and when you think which boy is your favorite, you should cherish it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Be realistic, see who loves you more, and then choose him, it is impossible not to hurt someone. But I like two people at the same time, and if I meet this kind of woman, I will consciously leave...

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This, I think it's better for you to be careful, first of all, you haven't been in love, you have no experience with girls, this girl has many male friends, it may mean that she is just playing with you, but she asked you to bring him breakfast, indicating that she is willing to have a relationship with you, this is what she wants you to start with, but what your friend said also makes sense, she has been with you for so long and has not told you about the boy she loves, indicating that she wants to be perfect and pure in your heart = =Anyway, you're so self-conscious.,If I were I'd reject her.,Anyway,It's still going to follow your heart.,If you really love her so much.,Then you try to date and see.,Just exercise yourself = = Come on!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you really love. Just don't go around in circles.

    He rejected you, and you come back and ask us what to do.

    You are still young, love can be guarded, but only if you have worked hard?

    Go, a gentleman, what's the shame.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The boy who had a good relationship with her was right.

    She is indeed like that, sunny on the surface and dark on the inside.

    But it's about what you like about her.

    Follow your heart and follow your feelings.

    Don't let you regret your future self for your present self.

    At least be worthy of it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Hehe,You're really interesting.,As a male compatriot, I can understand your feelings.。。

    First of all, you can see that you like her very much, but according to what you said, uh... I was a little skeptical of her character, she said, "Bring me breakfast every day!" This sounds a bit ridiculous, not that this practice is ridiculous, but this kind of thing comes from a girl's mouth is a little incredible, sending breakfast is indeed a way to pick up girls, and it's quite effective, but this kind of thing is good for everyone to understand, but it was broken by a woman, giving people the feeling that she values material enjoyment very much, so where is your face?? And if you are a good child, it is easy to be tricked back, the most important thing at the moment is to confirm her character, her cuteness may just indicate the phenomenon, the forest is big and there are all kinds of birds.

    You have to keep a clear head and start with her like a friend for a while. But if it was me, after listening to her last sentence, I immediately pulled her into the blacklist!! It's a big fire when you hear it!!

    Why does a husband have no wife??!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's exactly the same as me.,I like a girl for 6 years.,She's also like writing.,Good and bad.。。。 I have a good friend who plays very well with her, and he says that she is good to you when she needs you, and she doesn't put you at ease when she doesn't.

    But it's possible that the boy wants you to stay away from her, maybe do what you want in your heart anyway, or toss a coin like Zeng Xiaoxian.

    You are lucky to be happy, and you deserve to be sad. Got it.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Persistently chasing it, after chasing it for 3 years, she will naturally find out. will also take the initiative to promise you and repeatedly confirm whether you like her or not, come over and give points.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Hello, I have something I want to say after reading these of yours. No matter what happened before, as a girl, I feel that as long as you really want to be good to her, as she said, she is not joking and says, "If you want me to fall in love with you, bring me breakfast every day", you can show her on the basis of conditions! In fact, girls know faster and earlier than boys.

    You like her, she can feel it, no matter what the result will be, do it first and then talk about it, believe in yourself, as long as you persevere, the result will not be so unkind. Good luck! Come on!!!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Love takes courage, don't be afraid, if you love her, don't think about anything else, what people want to live in the world is to be free and easy, too restrictive, then it's not interesting to live?! Come on!!! It doesn't matter if I adopt it or not, I'm just saying what I want to say....Because I had the same experience as you.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    That is, if you like her, you have to be diligent and proactive.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is no reason to fall in love with someone, love is love. Since you are in love, it will certainly hurt you to let go, so why not try it and impress her with sincerity. Even if the final result is unpleasant, you will be sad and sad, but at least you have worked hard and you have been bold to love.

    Even if there is a 1 percent chance that you will succeed, you will never succeed if you don't try. Love at first sight is too little, too little. Come on, believe me, if you really succeed, the joy is beyond your imagination!

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Stalking, bring breakfast, don't refuse her request.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I want to have her, even all of her, I want to watch her accompany her every day, true love is a bit selfish, and I hope that there is only one opposite sex in the world. Even if she still has friends of the opposite sex, she hopes to intervene to make sure that they are just friendships, very pure, and free of distractions, but there will be a little bit of vinegar in the psyche. A man who is really in love with a girl will become gentle, will become fantasizing, and will fantasize about the future.

    Truly falling in love with a girl will turn into hard work and struggle hard to give him a happy life and the best tomorrow. If you really fall in love with a girl, you will become irrational about what that girl says, you will accept it all, you will listen, and you will not have any thoughts. But that doesn't mean you won't say anything.

    Falling in love with a girl makes you feel happy because of love. But love can also make people irrational, impulsive, sensitive, and vulnerable.

    Love is sweet, mixed with astringent taste.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Judge others without judging yourself. Speculation is always just speculation, not to mention that the feeling is not quantifiable, so even if you list n performances, you don't meet them, but if you like it, you won't look at these rules, including whether he really loves or not, it doesn't matter, because in your heart, you love him more and care more about him, in that case, how you look at him, you will think from a good angle, and then worry about whether it is true.

    So, I think if you really like it, you might as well just let it go. If you're worried that it won't work out in the end, take a look at it.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Willing to give everything for her. Even if it's life.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Pay him for a period of time, treat him with heart, give him some touch, if he doesn't confess, then you give him a sudden disappearance, disappear without a trace in front of him, or hide at home and don't come out, if he loves you, he will automatically come to you, or call a friend to come to you!

    If he doesn't do any of this, proving that he doesn't care about you, then you can never show up in front of him.

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