Why do people have fewer worries than joys? ？？

Everyone will have troubles, and a person's life cannot always be wonderful. Our lives do not stop because of troubles, and people do not become unable to live because of problems. In fact, the person who is often troubled is generally a person who has a delicate mind and rich feelings, and the more he thinks, the more troubles will naturally increase.

Now, the only thing we can do is: be kind to ourselves! Be responsible for your own spirit, most responsible for your own life, and responsible for your smile.

Everything, as long as we think from the good side, there will always be a time when we can think openly, this process may be a little long, but as long as we always have a firm smile, then all difficulties and troubles will be trampled underfoot. Friends, everyone has troubles. But how to resolve it requires more of your own efforts.

Adopt a positive mindset and smile at yourself every day and believe that your life will be different... Take a step back, let the three minds be calm, willing to suffer is not an idiot, can suffer is a man of lofty ideals, afraid that the villain is not incompetent, respect the gentleman is virtuous, if you are proud, you should have more than one step to do things. Holding ** is precious, knowing peace and happiness is worth a thousand gold, thinking twice about things, and being angry and forbearing the highest.

Don't be greedy for windfalls, for those who are content are happy. If you can do this thing, you will be happy for the rest of your life.

Because there are more happy things than troublesome things, and there is also a mind to let go, don't care so much, you will be happier.

...Isn't it good to have fewer worries??? It's not like you can live a few more years with less troubles! Do you want to die early...

Because people always put their worries in their hearts, pinning their happiness on the next second, and ignoring the happiness of this second

It is said that contentment and long-term happiness, but people's desires can never be satisfied, when I was a child, I wanted a good-looking toy, but when I got it, I found that other people's were better-looking, when I was in middle school, my grades have been among the best, but when I entered the university, I found that all the elites were found, and I didn't have anything to get married and have children, and my daughter-in-law was also in my own phase, but I knew that the beautiful daughter-in-law turned out to be the reincarnation of a tiger. This is the world of pessimists.

But an optimistic person is different, when he gets a toy and sees a better toy, he thinks, someone who doesn't even have a toy, at least I'm happier than no toy.

When a middle school student enters the university and meets an elite classmate, he thinks, this is nothing, I can catch up with them with a little more effort.

In the end, when he met a tigress daughter-in-law, he thought, it's good to have a daughter-in-law to take care of it, otherwise I wouldn't be so motivated.

So, happiness is a state of mind, and there is no fixed pattern to speak of, it mainly depends on what kind of eyes you use to see things and the world.

Trouble: That's what I found for myself! Why don't you think about it so much?

Desires are not satisfied, and there is not much responsibility to bear!

The same thing, if you can think about it, it will be heaven, and if you can't think about it, it will be hell. "In the final analysis, the biggest enemy of people is me, if you want to create a good mood and have no troubles, you must first settle me, it is a kind of courage to be able to afford it, and it is a kind of belly to let go; It's valuable to be able to afford it; Letting go is the true meaning of life. You have to think about everything, don't get along with me!

This is life, just look at how you face it, if there is no trouble, how to prove that you are happy, people have feelings will have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and if there are troubles, it proves that you live a real life! Friend! Because there will always be some unsatisfactory things in life, and there are some things that we will not find a suitable solution for a while, so we will suppress it in our hearts, and we will have troubles.

Everyone has troubles. This is very normal stuff. If people don't have troubles, how can they prove that they are happy?

Hehe!!! If you have troubles, it proves that you are living a real life!

Because people are constantly growing, the more they grow, the more troubles they have! People are a combination of contradictions.

Because of our troubles, we can better appreciate happy things, because the two are in contrast.

In fact, sometimes troubles can be like stress turning into motivation.

Because people are growing, they are troubled because they are growing, and they are growing because of their troubles.

Because people are too obsessed, it is easy to pick up, but it is difficult to put down, so there are many troubles. Because people cling to everything they can know, they develop greed or disgust, and then they are troubled.

The Buddha said, "All appearances are false." If you don't cling to it, the result will be that your troubles will disappear.

The meaning can probably be understood from two aspects, one is that everything we can know is an illusory delusion, it is not real, it is only a reflection of self-consciousness, and it changes with the change of the degree of self-awareness, which is impermanent and changeable; The second is that everything in the world is formed by the aggregation of causes and conditions, and changes in an instant. Whether it is the manifestation of the degree of cognition or the result of the aggregation of causes and conditions, it will be impermanent and changeable, and it will not be able to keep or grasp, it is all false, and there is naturally no need to cling to and worry about it.

It should be noted that all things are the aggregation of causes and conditions, the cause is self-created, everything is false, but it is not non-existent, it is not that there is no need to do nothing, but do not be obsessed with the result and indulge in obedience or indulging in adversity, but should pay more attention to the current action, stop evil and do good, dedicate yourself to your own duties, and cultivate your mind to accumulate blessings.

Because people's desires are many, wealthy, famous, food, and sleepy, and if they are insatiable, they will tell them all kinds of sinful karma, and because of sinful karma, they will have more troubles, and if they take less karma, they will have fewer troubles.

That's why we cherish happy times.

You're also too unsunny, what does it mean to know the difficulty and put you. The annoyance becomes motivation. Try.

Be happier, be optimistic.

Because you don't know how to be happy.

Happiness is mostly the mental pleasure obtained after solving the problem, and when you do not solve the problem, the problem increases and the happiness decreases. From a psychological point of view, a person's understanding of the external world and himself determines the personal happiness index, that is, to achieve happiness in the mind and spirit, and then to achieve the happiness in physical action. In this way, happiness is a little harder than trouble.

For example, most of the songs nowadays are always based on sadness and sadness, and there are relatively few happy songs, while sad songs can always be lyrical to the realm.

Troubles and happiness are just a kind of mood, you find it yourself, if you don't take the troubles to heart, you are happy, at least your heart is calm, if you put the troubles in your heart, your happiness is ignored.

Because the theme of life is suffering, happiness is the beauty of our life's journey. Life is like walking in the desert, most of what you see is the Gobi Desert (this is called distress), but you can also encounter oases in some places (this is happiness).

Because people have a common problem, when they are happy, they always think about unhappy and troublesome things, and when they are troubled, they never think about the things that make people happy. That's what people are. When happiness can't be expressed, I will think about troubles, and when I am troubled, I will always feel that there is not enough time, and it is not enough to have more time to worry...

Because people are always used to getting and not used to giving up. When we can't get what we get, and we don't want to let go of what we should give up, troubles will ensue and happiness will stay away from us. So learn to give up, learn to be content.

People will always have more memories of their troubles than happiness, because the expectation of happiness is always insufficient, and the avoidance of troubles is always not as good as worrying about troubles with the time of enjoying happiness, which artificially delays happiness and adds troubles

Hehe, think about it, how can there be a difference between fast and slow in the same time? Happiness is the time to be happy flies, and when you are upset, the time to be unhappy will feel relatively slow.

Because when pain comes, we always ask, "Why me?" And when the joy came, we never asked that question.

The essence of coffee is bitter, but you can choose to add sugar or milk, they are placed in front of you, the choice is in yourself.

The more you reject your troubles, the more they will stick to you.

Because many people always live in the past and in the future, but rarely live in the present.