In married life, is it better for a woman to be smart or stupid ?

Smart is stupid, stupid is smart, stupid women live happily, smart women are not necessarily happy.

How many women in the world understand?

It depends on how your men are--- if a man is smart, his wife can be "stupid"; Men are stupid, women should be smarter.

What kind of personality is he? It's up to you?

It's up to you, you can be smarter, he won't dare to mess around outside, it's not up to you, or bear with it, slowly break him, tell him, forgive him this time, there will be a next time.

Otherwise, get a divorce.

Some men are just cheap, if you treat him well, he doesn't take you seriously, and if you are betrayed, women are terrible, and they will bow their heads and listen to you.

Divorce is not good for you.

If he really has.

You should have a good talk and don't quarrel, because quarreling will only lead you to the point of no return.

Pretending to be "stupid" on the surface, but in fact shrewd.

Men certainly like smart women.

First, a wise woman will not often test whether a man loves herself, has full trust in her lover, will not be often suspicious, and will not ask her to make unhealthy friends, be enthusiastic about her friends, and respect her relatives. is definitely a physically and mentally healthy, lively and cheerful woman, and will not take her health seriously as a matter of envy.

Second, a smart woman will know her lover very well, and a man's every word, action, and look can be seen through by her. She knows what men want and what they want to say. She will not do anything that damages a man's face in a formal setting, and even if her friends ridicule a man for being afraid of his wife, she will not be complacent.

Instead, she will cater to her man and make her friends feel that she admires her man.

Third, when a wise woman encounters a setback, she does not complain or complain everywhere because she knows that no one can help her. Only choose to accept and face, start from changing yourself, and believe that you can succeed. Her positive attitude affects everyone around her, including her lover.

Fourth, a smart woman must be a woman who likes to learn and pursue, reading, cooking, fitness, etc., not only enriching her spare time, but also improving herself.

Fifth, a wise woman is often wise and intelligent, and she can be of great help to men in both career and family. When there is a problem in a man's work, she can find the problem and put forward reasonable suggestions; When there is a conflict in the family, she can stand up, deal with the problem rationally and calmly, and solve the man's worries.

Being with a smart woman can help you solve a lot of problems, rather than bring problems, and two people can communicate more easily and barrier-free, encourage each other, support each other, and make progress together. How can such a woman not be liked.

Because a woman who pretends to be confused allows a man to bring out his clever qualities and enables a man to derive a sense of accomplishment from it.

We can't be too careful about life, we can turn a blind eye, because there is no perfect person in the world, and knowing how to hide the shortcomings of others is wisdom.

will not be entangled in the other party's money to be spent, nor will it be entangled in the opposite sex colleagues around the other party, will not restrain the other party's freedom, and will give the other party enough time and space.

Look at you, and then look at my best friend's husband, you're really not a good one. I was blind to look for you at the beginning, who knew that you would end up like this. Hey repentance, forget it, marry a chicken with Bikuanliang chicken, and I will suffer with you in this life.

It's better to marry your ex than to marry you, you are a wrecked waste with no ability, I don't love you anymore, when you often say these bad words, it will be difficult to be happy.

Swearing, indifferent words. Because swearing words seem particularly unqualified, and being indifferent to others can also make people feel chilling.

In my opinion, the difference between them is mainly in the ability and level of grasping things, specifically the following three points!

The first is the psychological difference

Smart women are confident but low-key, they are very capable of doing things, have a high EQ and IQ, will not be confused by illusions, in order to achieve their own goals, can withstand challenges and tests that are difficult for ordinary people to bear, and have the psychological quality to control the situation; And stupid women go with the flow, they think less and talk more, everything is faced and dealt with with by their own mood and hobbies, once they encounter challenges and tests, they will have obvious psychological out-of-control performance.

The second is the difference between words and deeds

Smart women disguise themselves as very sincere, they are not afraid to stabilize themselves in case of danger, and then carefully observe and analyze correctly, and rarely express their stance after drawing conclusions, they act steadily, and they speak without leakage, they will be small and small, they can win people's hearts, have good interpersonal relationships, and do things cleanly and neatly, which makes people feel very organized, and is a reliable person. And a stupid woman is so public, she has no intention of thinking what to say, she can't control her mouth, she is easy to offend people, and she is at a loss when she encounters major events, giving people the feeling that she is not doing things well, and she is easily deceived and deceived.

The third is the emotional difference

In short, I think that the biggest difference between a smart woman and a stupid woman is in the grasp of the state of affairs, specifically the difference in psychology and words and deeds, which is reflected in the ability and level of emotional control. In other words, a smart woman sees the wind and steers the rudder, and can grasp it just right, and a stupid woman is emotional and easy to mess things up!

Smart women have high emotional intelligence, know how to get along with others, how to easily solve the difficulties of life, stupid women are too loyal and honest, speak too straight, and can't get along with others, and only know how to escape when they encounter things.

I think the biggest difference between the two is that smart women have their own principles and bottom lines, but stupid women will ignore their own principles and bottom lines.

To give an example, when a man comes home very late, the smart woman will say: You haven't come back, I'm really anxious. Next time, I will worry more about you, and after the man hears this, he will feel guilty about you and change it.

And the stupid woman will say that you came back so late, are you fooling around, next time you do this, you simply don't come back. When a man hears this, he gets angry.

Different approaches, two lives.

Husband and wife should communicate more, communicate more, care more about each other's emotions, two people should have the same three views, work together to live, and control their bad temper.

First, when I was working against my husband, it could have been discussed, but in the end it became-for-tat; Second, a quarrel must be divided into winners and losers, and when two people get along, it is not a fight, and the winners and losers must be distinguished.

A small quarrel for three days, a big quarrel for five days, I don't communicate with my husband after the quarrel, I always blame my husband, and my husband is very tired and always complains to him when he comes home.

There are many times when women, really, don't have to be so smart. It's not a business negotiation, it's not a matter of principle, so why be aggressive. No matter how much ink you have in your stomach, you don't have to show off all day long, you hide it in your heart, and there is a natural fragrance of musk.

I can't figure out what country Picasso is, and it's not a big deal, so why bother to make people unable to step down.

Most of the girls around have a master's degree or above. People are smart and highly educated, if they are not beautiful, marrying someone will easily become a big problem. There are not many advantages in themselves, and it is rare to meet a few people who come to offer courtesy, high IQ of them, and they can see through their sweet words at a glance, see through their clumsy tricks, and naturally fall in love.

There are many problem men, if the girl is confused, she will be hooked, and she will marry a chicken and a dog in the future. They are more fiery and sharp-eyed, and all kinds of flaws and bad deeds of men cannot escape their eyes. I'd rather be lacking than overuse, so I can only be single all the time.

It's really clever but clever and mistaken by cleverness.

A smart little woman, sharp and transparent, perceptive to everything, can always hit the key point at once, so that you have nothing to hide. A smart woman, too threatening and insecure. So men are most afraid of smart women.

Too smart a woman is not cute. Put away the edge, hide the claws, and pretend to be stupid by chance, in life, you don't need to be too smart. The above is for reference.

It's not good to be stupid, those who live happily are smart women, and those who are stupid will only watch their children make money and do housework.

It depends on the situation, for example, it is better to be stupid in dealing with people and things, don't be careful, and be smart in life and work.

Be stupid, after all, Huiji will hurt.

Each has its own benefits, but the way of living is different.

You can be silly when you're in love, but being smart is also a must.

It's best to be stupid when you're stupid, and be smart when you're smart