Appearance Stress Don t understand, what damage has your youth suffered?

My youth seems to have been under a lot of pressure, because my appearance is not outstanding, so I have repeatedly hit a wall in my love career. Because I don't study very well, I'm always under pressure at home. Because his character is too cowardly, he will even be bullied by people at school. <>

1. Cowardly children will always be bullied I have not been confident since I was a child, probably because since I was a child, my family has been whispering to me in my ear that I am not beautiful or smart. So since I was a child, I have set up an inherent concept for myself, because I am not good-looking and not smart, and I am a pure stupid child, so I should talk less. There may be some arrogant classmates in school, who like to bully honest people.

When they saw me being so cowardly, they always thought of ways to bully me, in fact, I also told my family, but they said that it was just a small fight between classmates, and there was no need to care about it at all, the focus was still on studying. <>

Second, the pressure of studying and my parents also didn't care about my growth, all they cared about was the cold number on the paper. Then I was not allowed to do any recreational activities, they thought that all the time should be devoted to studying. Only by studying well can I get ahead, but maybe it's because I'm too stupid, the more my parents put pressure on me, the worse I will be in the exam.

Then I fell into a dead loop, my parents criticized me all day long, and my studies still did not improve, which eventually led to psychological pressure and even overwhelmed. <>

Third, the ridicule of appearance was still longing for sweet love when I was young, and I liked a boy in the next class at that time, and I thought he was sunny and handsome, and there was a kind of free and easy feeling that I didn't have. At that time, I liked to pay attention to him secretly, and even mustered the greatest courage in my life to confess to him, but I was rejected because he thought I was ugly. And after that, whenever I walked past their class, I could always hear the people around me pointing and talking, can't you like others if you look ugly?

I think the hurt of my youth was in the aspect of not understanding, and many of my own ideas at that time were denied and questioned by my parents, and finally I didn't get it.

Of course, there have been rebellious stages in adolescence, and it is precisely because of the incomprehension and pressure of parents at this time that I always feel that I am very unmotivated every day, and I feel that I am not loved, but fortunately I survived.

I wasn't confident in my appearance, and I was really hurt when I was called ugly during my adolescence, but I don't care anymore.

I once met a little girl who was as confused as you, I don't know how she is now, I remember that at that time, she took everyone's consolation back, and did whatever she wanted, with endless money to spend, and proud appearance,! But you're different! Because you think of youth, yes!

How many decades does a person have in this life!? How many more decades to waste? Your age is easy and difficult...Originally, your youth is very long, according to you, I think you should be able enough to find a school to study, so you can easily start your youth, but college is not a social phenomenon you experienced before, there is more social cruelty here, especially interpersonal relationships, however, beauty is really invincible.

You'll be good, so that you will have a clearer understanding of the reality of society, and feel that you are still too young to go through this process. Uh....But you can still try. Sometimes other people's advice can't give you much, but nowadays self-confidence and independence are necessary.

You have to work what you want to achieve in the future, as long as you know what you want when you get to the bottom, it's never too late to start. Do you know what you want? Is it a comfortable life?

Or is it fierce competition to reflect their own value? Or find a true love? I can't give you the answer, it's only for you to find it yourself, people grow up in this kind of groping.

Even injuries feel worthwhile! I hope you find what you want soon. Bless you A little bit of a word, hehe, it's really like, excited....Forgive!

I sincerely bless you There will never be clouds waiting for you in the sky, and if you want to weave your dreams, you have to speed up!

Yes, you're only a year old now. Absolutely... As long as you act.

Life can start over at any time.

Since it is youth, there is the impulse to grow and the loneliness of perseverance, and there is the confusion of collision of ideas and frustration. Moreover, there are no two choices in life, so there are bound to be some regrets. But these regrets will become aftertaste. Or the wealth many years later.

Nothing is smooth sailing, because of regret, will be more cherished, will be satisfied in the perfect time.

If there are no regrets in life, how boring it should be.

It's just to toss it, how can there be so much, why live for yourself, not for others.

Agree! But once in a while, you need a spur!

Yes, there is no need to be angry because people who don't like you, it's not worth it.

Once, because of expenses and income, a colleague was particularly incomprehensible, he was not from our accounting department, but he had to tell me that I did it wrong, and it was I who caused the data to be different, and I felt very aggrieved at the time, but in the end, I traced the root cause and found that the original data was wrong.

When we are in financial work, laymen may think that financial work is a very good job, because his salary is very high, and then he deals with money every day, but they don't know our financial work, in fact, they are just dealing with some data every day.

Sometimes when you are doing financial work, because of this job, because you are good, you often have to help others, so it is expensive to help others, and you also add some ideas of your own, but in the end all the credit is credited to him, and he does not offer your help.

In their opinion, sitting in the office every day and counting money is a very enviable job, in fact, it is not the case, because the money you count is not your own, every day when you count a lot of money, then your eyes will be spent, and then your brain will be very painful, but in their opinion, dealing with money every day may be very happy.

I used to work in a ** trading company, obviously I was quite happy when I went to work, but after work, I had some relatives and friends, and they would come over and say that I was working in a bad place, and sometimes I would ask them to tell them which ** was more profitable, in fact, these are trade secrets that cannot be said.

In the eyes of others, financial work is really a very easy thing, but people don't know how much pressure this job brings to me, this job requires us to be very strict, even if it is a decimal point.

Lu Han was indeed attacked because of his precise appearance, some people think that he is not manly at all, and therefore many people don't like him because of his appearance, but more people like him more because of his exquisite appearance. Of course, I have also suffered some grievances because of my appearance.

I'm a petite girl, after entering puberty, I have a lot of acne on my face, and even spots, I can't see anything from a distance, but as long as you look closely, you will find that the whole face is quite ugly, of course, I know that I have a lot of acne on my face, but no matter what method I use, these acne can't get rid of it, so because I look ugly, when I talk to others, I generally don't dare to look at them, and my eyes even when I talk to them, I would also subconsciously put my hand under my mouth, and I didn't want them to see my face because I felt very inferior."

I had so many acne at a time when my peers were all smooth and beautiful, which was a devastating blow to me who loved beauty at the time. It's also because I don't look brilliant, and even ugly, once when the class selected the best students, even when I was the class president at the time, the grades were the top in the class, but the teacher ignored me, I chose another classmate, and the reason he gave at the beginning was that your image was not good-looking. At that time, I heard what my classmate said to me, I really felt very sad, because I had acne on my face, so he didn't give me this opportunity, and I was very aggrieved at that time.

Because this society is more and more face-looking era, if a person is good-looking, then it means that he has more opportunities than other ordinary-looking people, but if a person looks mediocre or even ugly, then he may be ignored. In fact, there is nothing unfair or unfair, but if your ability is too strong, then no matter how big the grievance is, it will not be able to shake your status.

A small man with a small head and a small face, and a hunchback