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Whether to break up or not depends on the two of them, if this woman is willing to AA system, what qualifications do others have to care? Maybe this man's way of love is different.
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I think we should break up. Because you are not at the same consumption level at all, and in the face of this kind of consumption, the other party is obviously more capable than you, but you still have to choose the AA system, which can only show that the other party does not love you.
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It's understandable that you're not married, and if you're married, you'll still AA, so forget it.
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Look after the marriage. If he also AA system.
Let's get a divorce.
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First of all, you two are not a good match, right?
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Shouldn't. The relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend is a very correct choice to consume the AA system on the premise that they are not married, so it is very fair to both boys and girls.
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In fact, if the AA system is proposed by the boyfriend, you should still choose to break up, because such a boyfriend is particularly stingy.
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The boyfriend's reluctance to spend money on his girlfriend can reflect whether the boyfriend really likes his girlfriend. A man likes a woman, and he will do everything he can to please and pamper her. On the contrary, it will be bland.
The boyfriend's monthly salary is 50,000 yuan, which is a very high income level, at least 7 times the income of girls. People with strong economic strength have to spend half of the girl's consumption, which means that they don't like this girl very much.
Some people may say that now that men and women are equal and they are not married, why should men bear it alone. There is truth to this statement. Yes, women are not accessories, women are working their own, independent, and half, both parties are more comfortable, and it also seems that girls have personality charm.
However, it is important whether the man shows an attitude or not. The man said, no need, I'll pay for it, it's a kind of atmosphere, a kind of responsibility. I earn more money than others, and I am reluctant to pay in full, which shows that some people are childish and their love is not deep enough.
Maybe the girl is just the object of his attempt, and he may not be able to get married in the end. So, he didn't want to give it all. If the man doesn't even have the intention of taking the initiative to express it, and it is natural to pay half of each, I think it's better to break up.
Girls must also have doubts in their hearts, and they are also reflecting on whether they really like themselves, so they ask so.
In principle, it is a better way of life for both parties to pay half, and neither loses money to anyone. When men and women are combined, they are essentially living in partnership. But it can't be said that boys should default to this.
Especially when you make a lot of money, why bother. For the person you like, why not give a little more. Love is also about dedication and dedication, they are very shrewd and calculating, calculating, and it is not interesting to get along together.
In general, attitude is very important, intentional and unintentional, reflecting the position of the woman in the man's mind. If you really like it, it's too late to be a baby.
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I think that when encountering this situation, the first thing you should make clear is whether you really like the other party, and what is the main reason why the other party is unwilling to spend money for yourself, or because the other party does not particularly care about yourself, it is recommended that you should break up as soon as possible at this time to avoid bringing more harm to yourself.
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If the two of you are just starting to be together, you can choose the AA system, but if the two people have been together for a long time to go out to spend has been the AA system, it means that the boyfriend does not really like you, you have to take a good look at the relationship between the two people, if he has no feelings for you, you can choose to break up.
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You should break up, the man who spends money for you may not love you, and the man who doesn't spend money for you must not love you, and then you need to think about it seriously.
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When two people are together, they have a different lifestyle and feeling from being with others.
Maybe it was out of mutual appreciation, maybe it was out of like-mindedness, maybe it was out of sympathy, of course, maybe it was out of material conditions, the two people came together.
The girl is 24 years old and has a boyfriend in his thirties. The girl's monthly salary is seven thousand, and her boyfriend's monthly salary is much more than that of the girl. Going out to spend has always been an AA system, and my boyfriend didn't think there was anything wrong, and gradually, the girl became a moonlight clan, which is not counted, and the economic situation every month is still stretched.
But the boyfriend was indifferent, saying that the girl's salary was too low, and she didn't help, but watched from the sidelines, why continue such a relationship?
Love is usually about marriage, and it's rarely just fun, especially girls. Besides, the girl is already twenty-four years old, which is not a small age. Men can always feel that AA is very safe before marriage, and the conflict after marriage will make the girl collapse.
How to AA after marriage? Is the child also AA system? And the firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage will make the two parties quarrel constantly.
Two people live together, respect each other, understand and support, regardless of you and me, which is the difference from others.
Indeed, it cannot be said that men should spend their money for granted. But don't you think it's strange for a couple to consume the AA system?
The AA system is a choice, not a state. If the boyfriend is willing to spend money for his girlfriend, but the girlfriend doesn't want the boyfriend to pay unilaterally, choose the AA system, which is another story. However, the two implement the AA system, the girlfriend is already moonlight, the economy is still very tight, and the boyfriend not only does not feel that he should help but also says cool things, this kind of man is not worth entrusting.
When two people are together, they are so good that they don't distinguish each other, which is enviable. After getting married, the husband and wife become one, and that is a good state. The life of a couple under the AA system is too distinct, but it lacks a sense of beauty.
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This mainly depends on the values of the two people, if the girl thinks that the boy earns a lot and all the expenses in life should be paid by the boy, then tell the boy directly, and the boy can refuse if he thinks it is unreasonable, and then choose whether to break up or not.
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Yes, because no matter how high your boyfriend's monthly salary is, it's not your money, why can't you AA, even if the husband and wife have to be independent, but you have to bear all the common expenses of the two people because of your boyfriend's high salary.
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It's time to break up, since you've asked this kind of question, it means that you want to have a good opinion on this matter, in fact, the AA system is nothing, after all, you are still boyfriend and girlfriend, don't think that the other party should spend money if the other party has money.
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I think it's better to break up, the difference in the salary of two people is too great, the concept of two people has a level, it will be better to separate, otherwise it will be more tiring to be together.
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If my monthly salary is 150,000 and my girlfriend's monthly salary is 7,000, I will definitely not implement the AA system with my girlfriend, if I really like my girlfriend, I believe that the two of us go out to spend, I should do more than 95% by me to pay, occasionally let my girlfriend consume a little, otherwise it may hurt my girlfriend's self-esteem. As for whether to break up or not it should depend on what you know about your boyfriend, if he really likes you, then you shouldn't break up.
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