Your ex s wedding invited you, how to choose?

If my ex sends me an invitation to attend the wedding, I think she can really be guts, she has completely let go of our past and I am obsessed, does it seem that I am a little too petty, so if he can send the invitation to me generously and let me go to her wedding, then I will definitely send a blessing with great sincerity, this is my sincere blessing, and in order to pay tribute to the beautiful relationship we once had.

I believe that when I see this woman I once liked walking on the red carpet with another man, and then holding hands and giving each other rings, saying that solemn vow I am willing, my heart will die, and I will be reduced to ashes, I will become a soulless walking corpse, I'm sorry, I really can't make it up, I'm not such a person who values love and righteousness, nor is I a person who can't extricate himself from the past feelings, and the past has long been let go. And I'd like to share with you how I went to my ex's wedding.

When I attended my ex's wedding, I put on my favorite suit, solemnly attended my ex's wedding, I even wore more handsome than the groom's officer, I stood in an extremely unobtrusive place, before leaving, I took a big gift, although I am not very rich, but I can't lose face in this matter, I took a big red envelope of 10,000 yuan. Then I wrote my name and walked away in style.

There is an easter egg here, that is, my ex and her husband had a cohabitation relationship before they got married, and they had children before they got married for a year, and they invited the full moon wine with great fanfare, at this time I came uninvited, and I came with a big gift, at this time I gave 10,000 yuan. Later, I heard that the two of them had a quarrel, and the reason for the quarrel was that her husband suspected that there was no break between her and me, and even had to go to the child's paternity test. At that time, I smiled with satisfaction, 20,000 yuan to be able to see such an ending. Not expensive.

I think it should be refused. Because with the ex has become a thing of the past. There shouldn't be too much intersection, so that you can start your life better.

Since we have broken up, I will definitely not go to his wedding, and attending will only add to my mood, because after the breakup, we are not even the most ordinary friends, and there is really no need to attend.

If it was me, I wouldn't go, because I would feel embarrassed to meet each other, and I personally felt very unhappy after watching my ex's wedding, so I simply couldn't see it out of sight and didn't go to my ex's wedding.

I think that whether this invitation is kind or not, we should all be invited, and we should dress up beautifully and bring our boyfriends with us to bless our ex.

If you have let go of this relationship, then you can face his wedding calmly.

No, it won't.

Now that they have become their ex, there is naturally no emotional entanglement, and besides, they are going to get married, what is the purpose of inviting their ex? Interesting? So it's better not to invite as well.

Because they have hurt each other, what is the purpose of inviting an ex, is it to show off, or to take revenge? is already about to get married, inviting the ex will give the current one an illusion, and he is still disconnected from the ex, which will make the other party jealous and affect the relationship between the husband and wife. Some people may say that you invite your ex because you feel that you once loved each other, and now you just broke up peacefully, or you can be friends, but you feel like a friend, how will your current husband or wife feel?

Have you ever thought about it for the other person, put yourself in the other person's shoes?

Don't invite your ex to get married, because love is selfish, but also single-minded, even if you and your ex are peacefully broken up, or friends, don't take the initiative to invite, at the wedding, look at each other, don't know what the two people will feel, don't say that the past has passed, forget, that's just self-deception.

If you broke up peacefully and were still friends before, then silently bless each other, or be polite to no one, in order to avoid embarrassment, or let other people gossip, it is better not to invite at the wedding, and even if the ex receives an invitation, it is better not to go.

The person who can think of inviting the ex, maybe it is really a person with a bigger mind, a person who doesn't care, a person who doesn't care about anything, but many things are not what they think alone, and some things are difficult to control the situation.

In addition, if you invite your ex to the wedding, what will you think when you see your ex at the wedding, can you guarantee that the appearance of your ex will have no impact on you, and what should you do if your emotions are affected and the wedding is delayed, after all, it is a lifelong event, and it can't be ruined because of an ex.

I couldn't understand what it was like to have an ex to get married, and if it were me, I wouldn't have done it.

I just want to tell him that I'm doing well. Because I didn't break up with my ex, on the contrary, we all hoped that the other party could meet a better person in the future life and live a happier life.

It may be to tell the other party that you can live well without him, but this mentality is not advisable and will have an impact on your future married life.

I'm still good friends after my ex broke up, and I usually keep in touch with each other, and my current boyfriend doesn't mind, so it's normal to invite him when we get married.

I would never invite my ex to my wedding, and if I did, it was just to make him pay for it.

I don't think there's a problem, after all, even if it's an ex, it's a friendship, so it's not a big deal to have a wedding drink.

I want him to know that I am better off without him, I want him to know how good and good my current situation is, and I want him to regret leaving me.

I just want to show off in front of him how good my current position is, let him see if he is blind and choose to break up with me, and make him feel inferior.

It is nothing more than a matter of blessings, face, money, and the current wants to swear sovereignty. First of all, I invited so many relatives and friends, in fact, there is no shortage of his hypocritical blessings, and secondly, there is no need for him to go to me as an "ex" to support the scene and attract strange eyes, and in the end he is just a part of my wedding fundraising.

The wedding is just a dinner, not special because of the ex. There are all kinds of situations in our lives, and we often push them off because there is someone we don't like at a certain party, and it is clear that what we thought at the time was very simple, and it is natural to push it away in order to avoid embarrassment. In the same way, the ex's wedding is just another dinner, and it is not as complicated as you think.

Don't think of attending a wedding as a farewell ceremony with your ex, the real goodbye ceremony is your own wedding. In your past relationship, if it ends with your wedding, you will always be the loser in the relationship, it is just your wishful thinking, and no one else cares.

Of course, if you're happy now, it's a tie at best. Therefore, after thinking calmly, we will feel that life is not so boring, there is no need to think or convince other people's ceremonies to be our own farewell ceremony with the past, and the real farewell ceremony should be our own wedding.

In fact, the ex is like the thorn in our hearts, it hurts once when you say it. So I also hope that your exes, if you really love, then please think about the time you spent together when you send a wedding post, and don't remind him that at that time, that place, see you, and hurt again!

Whether or not you want to invite your ex to your wedding depends on your values and personality, but if you really want to invite him, tell him that you have a new home and are happy.

I simply want to collect money, and let him see how good my husband is, thank him for his hurt back then, and let me meet my current husband.

Very speechless mentality, normal people will not invite their ex, the invitation is purely to block themselves, it is very strange, no one will do this.

First of all, the ex is just a part of a past life. We don't really need to value our predecessors. Since the past record has been written off, you might as well ** it yourself when he sends you an invitation.

It's also your past. Clean and tidy. In life, we often encounter a lot of embarrassing situations, and in our love life, we often encounter situations where we meet with our ex, in the new episode of the show IMHO, we talked about the issue of whether the ex's wedding should go, and many guests in the show said that they would not go, but Jiang Shuying proposed that if the ex can make up his mind to invite you to go, then what do you have to avoid.

It's better to be generous and participate. Another benefit of attending a wedding is that you can clearly see that you and the previous person have completed the ending. It's an explanation of how you're feeling and an opportunity to start from scratch.

Because it's only when we bless each other that we can start from scratch. Thankfully, it's no longer stuck in the cage of the past.

Secondly, for the ex, he has already dropped you because he is determined to invite you. This means that you are only a small part of his past life, and he wants to bring you blessings and start a new phase. Life.

By inviting you to a wedding, he can introduce you to his marriage partner and thus avoid troubles later in his married life. This is not a good thing, your arrival can reduce him.

In fact, in the future married life, quarrels about you will be more open and frank. In addition, the ex is the person who used to get along, no matter how much helplessness and sadness there is at the end of love, but this person has had a good time with you, which is what we are grateful for, is it whether you feel worthy or not, please be brave and face yourself. Thank them for making you grow.

Different people have different options for the past. In fact, the past should be the best gift for each of us. It is difficult for us to decide what our past must be like, life never gives us the ability to predict the future, and every glimmer of the present becomes a thing of the past.

In fact, compared to some people, they are obsessed with the past, and learning to get out of the shadow of the past and have their own life must be a good thing. When we face the past, maintaining the most basic mentality is the greatest consolation for the past.

Entertain yourself at your ex's wedding reception, and we can see how happy he is later on, or see what the standard answer looks like. We can also refuse this invitation, just silently bless in our hearts, why bother to make our hearts a lot of chicken feathers. It's okay, just let the past be just the past.

We miss out on a lot of people in life, so we have to cherish anyone around us more. Time flies, and you must be washed by time to become the best. People who choose not to go to their ex's wedding are more practical, and they choose to completely abandon the bits and pieces of the past.

I know you're married, and I know that you're happy after you left me, and you don't have to see each other again. Meeting again will bring more trouble to the two people, will the newlywed other half feel embarrassed by my arrival, such a romantic scene is best not to lose any romantic flavor because of me.

Compared with choosing to go to a wedding, people who choose not to go to a wedding are actually more rational. I didn't have any desire to see him at the back of the model, even if I still had a longing for the past years later, but reason eventually prevailed over this longing. They have the ability to dare to break with the past, and emotions are growing in their hearts, but the past has passed, and they will not bring all kinds of troubles to their lives.

Of course I won't invite, I think men and women after a breakup should never get along, everyone will treat each other as the strangers they are most familiar with, although the list of friends may be reluctant to delete, but they don't need to deal with each other for the rest of their lives. 1. The wedding invitation ex is looking for unhappiness If your current person knows the person before you recognize it, then when he sees the most "threatening" person at the wedding scene, guess what he feels in his heart. Even if the current one doesn't know who the predecessor is, but the way you look at the ex must be different from others, your current one can feel that there is something wrong as long as you are a little sensitive, and you can quickly guess the identity of this person.

Guess what he should do in the future, is he pretending to be stupid or pretending to be generous? It seems that these two are quite embarrassing, and the big day makes him so awkward, can you bear it? Let's take a step back, the current doesn't know about the existence of your ex at all, but when you are an ordinary guest to entertain you, isn't there an embarrassment between you and your ex?

When two people who once loved each other meet on such an occasion, should he bless you? 2. The ex may not be willing to accept your invitationThe ex is a very magical existence, and the two people who are obviously okay have been the closest lovers, and this kind of role change is actually very difficult. Isn't it cruel to let someone who once loved you look at you and everyone else as husband and wife?

But anyone who still has a trace of affection for his ex, he will not want to watch the person he once loved marry someone else or marry someone else, and they are not willing to go at all on this occasion. However, when you fell in love with each other and you invited him to your wedding, even if he didn't want to go, he could only endure his unwillingness to be there, although he couldn't give you sincere blessings, but he could only watch you marry others like this. If you don't invite your ex, then he won't have to face this kind of torment, isn't it good to let each other live, why make the relationship so awkward.

Wouldn't it be nice to leave each other a little macro thoughts, so that he can really forget the fact that he once loved each other. I think it's best not to invite your ex when you get married, it's useless not to say anything, and it makes each other embarrassed and uncomfortable.