He didn t even tell me the reason for the breakup

If it is really the family that does not agree, then it is better to persuade you to separate, than after marriage, he is still like now, his attitude is not clear, then it will be bitter for you, I think you should not contact both parties first, calm down and think about it. Maybe you guys calm down later.

You know what your thoughts and feelings are for each other.

If you break up and still call you every day, it shows that he still cares about you very much.

But there may be something unspeakable, for the time being, you should not ask, let him calm down, think clearly about the problems he encountered, and he will naturally tell you.

You can also tell him that no matter what happens, you will be there for him to support him.

Tell him that you care about him and hope that you don't have to worry about anything, and you will face it with him.

In short, don't be too pushy!

Maybe it's not a day or two since he made this decision, maybe there is a third party.

Because he can't say it, he doesn't know how to say it.

Love doesn't need a reason, you can't be picky if you don't love! Remember this, since you yourself know that you are not his first girlfriend, he may have been numb to such a separation. Besides, if you break up, as long as you don't want to have any more people involved, you will do it.

Once a person changes his mind, it's like a different person) Why should you be persistent?

When a man is in love more, there will be comparisons (and women are the same), what do you ask him to say about you? Would you be happy to say you're bad? Say hello and you will ask why not love me and let him how?

Others can't see you because of the problem of vision, but you must love yourself. Find out the reason for yourself, change yourself, and make the person who didn't choose you regret instead of rejoicing.

That's what you're trying to do.

After the breakup, you are a little reluctant, you are thinking about how to get along, it's okay, the mobile phone and WeChat have not been deleted from each other, and you keep sending messages to him like grasping the last glimmer of hope. Apologies, repentance, remembrances, expectations, prayers, all published. You always think that he will be impressed when he sees it, he should always understand my thoughts, he is impressed by what he sees, if he really likes me, there is no doubt that it is not easy to turn a blind eye.

But he did turn a blind eye, he didn't reply a word, except that he didn't join the blacklist, he didn't let you give you all your feedback, and even blocked the WeChat circle of friends. The fact that this happens shows that you have many false beliefs in your subconscious.

After a breakup, you can't accept that your ex-boyfriend will no longer pay attention to yourself, will no longer look for yourself, and will no longer be amiable to yourself, in addition to the feeling that there is no habitual breakup, there is another reason that you can't believe that the other party has no feelings for you. You think that the breakup he said was the same as the breakup you said was a test of love. In fact, the other party is not so moved by you, and you still have expectations for your boyfriend, which can only become more and more chilling.

When you fall in love, your arrogance, your little temper, your actions and troubles, he will tolerate or tolerate under your compulsion, and now he can't stand it, and he mentions breaking up, just to better not bear your little temper anymore. And you still expect him to be as coaxed as before, and he will go home honestly if you apologize. And in fact, you happen to be the one he wants to escape the most.

Some women make a mess of themselves after breaking up, with dark circles and eye bags that often stay up all night, swollen eyes, unsmooth and dull faces, and even deliberately make themselves sick, or self-abuse, all of them have the word "mourning". You think that when a boy sees that you can be heartbroken, he will love and pity you, and he will be reluctant to break up with you again. In fact, it's all the wrong result you get when you think he's still in love with you.

When a man sees the woman he loves hurt, he will feel a strong heartache, and the more depressed you are about to escape from the woman, the more tired he will be. Why can't he listen to what you say? Because even when it comes to breaking up, you are only pouring out your own intentions, and you have not exchanged and considered his experience.

He can't get comfort from you, so how can you get liking from him?

The other party is no longer patient with you, and he is no longer obliged to listen to your nagging. If you break up, it means that the other party has long been impatient with you, otherwise you would not have separated. After the breakup, the other party is not obliged to listen to you anymore, so I hope you know.

Maybe it's because what you say doesn't attract his attention, or it doesn't impress him, he already hates you and thinks he doesn't have to listen to you anymore after the breakup, or it may be because he doesn't like you anymore and likes someone else and wants to be with someone else.

In fact, he doesn't like you for a long time, and he is very impatient with you, and he is also dissatisfied with you, so he doesn't listen to what you say, and he will never regret it, so there is no need to redeem it after the breakup.

He no longer has feelings for you, he is already with someone else, and he has long wanted to break up with you, just to find an excuse, or because you have done something to hurt him, said bad things about the other person, and did not improve his attractiveness.

I don't know, he doesn't love you that much, I don't know, he doesn't have any patience with you, he doesn't listen to anything, he just doesn't want to be entangled with you anymore, and he still needs to explain anything.